Members sun_flower969 Posted April 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 22, 2008 My husband has indicated throughout our marriage that he wants to video us... especially recently. He will say see honey if we videoed this we could watch it tomorrow, how awesome would that be! I am mixed about it though for these reasons:1. What if someone finds and watches it!2. I am insecure about my body, I am afraid that I will see myself (facial expressions, fat etc) and be horrified, never wanting to have sex again. 3. What if someone finds and watches it! LOLAny thoughts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted April 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 22, 2008 Ha! I've mentioned doing this to my hubby and he is just as worried about it as you are. The first thing out of his mouth was "What if someone saw it? I'm not some porn star" . Well duh...that's not the point. I'll get him to come around eventually. He's already used to me sending him his own "personal" porn e-mail/pic of the week. If not maybe I'll just hide that camera and show it to him one day after I've worked him over REAL good! Bet he'll see it in a different light, hehe! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted April 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 22, 2008 I borrowed a cam from my mom when I was working in the Southern part of the state to video the Gas Plant that they were building which I was dry watching and wanted to get footage of a quarry pond w fish you could see all over it and a hilltop tht had a formation that resembled a coffeecup handle. (That formation I later found out was where the James gang had buried either a map to their stashes or something similar). I had about 3 days to set it up and watch myself mastubate on the TV and recorded one for later viewing. When I came back to turn in my time sheet I set it up and made a long video of my gf and I. I edited a lot out due to the lengthy blowjob and figured a half hour or so of the best part would suffice. Though I had watched myself this was different fucking her while viewing through the cam so when I pulled out and shot my load from my knees between her legs It actually landed mostly on her face and neck. Luckily I got that on film. After that I found an older cam that used VHS tape so I didn't have to transfer from BETA and destroy the tape for security reasons. The cam I bought had a flaw in the eyepiece but the case and all accessories were there. A few weeks later I stopped at a pawn shop in OKC (one of our fav bargain stops) and they had just the camera with another battery for $25 in the clearance rack since they didn't have a charger. That was just too good to pass up and the eyepiece works great in both cams!! If you don't feel safe keeping it you can always redub or destroy the tape. Just make sure that fire is your method of disposal not just pulling the tape out and throwing away. HINT: Guys remember the old saying TV adds 10 pounds? Maybe not ten but it does look bigger on TV. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted April 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 22, 2008 My ex used to badger me about making a video of us having sex when we were married. Finally I gave in and we set up the video on the bureau. I was so hesitant, worried about the same things that many women worry about: Will I look fat? Will I look stupid 'lost in ecstasy'? I worried about these things so much that I couldn't get into the session. My husband was upset but he understood I was camera-shy. We tried again a couple of nights later. I had to concentrate on relaxing and focus on sensations rather than on the camera. It took a looonnngg time to relax. When I was able to move through that anxiety, the sex session turned very hot and I totally forgot the camera. The next day my ex watched it and was thrilled. He set it up on the TV and we watched it. He was totally turned on by it and rapidly became ready to repeat the experience. I wasn't in the same place, as I was too busy looking for that extra ounce of fat, etc. What I remember of the tape was:We didn't look silly, we looked passionate and absorbed in each other, which was erotic.We didn't look fat, but things closer to the camera will look bigger. The noise was much sexier than I remembered...for me that was more of a turn on that the visual portion. All the sighs and moans and whispered directions were tremendously exciting.Was that session of sex long!Anything new can be scary but as long as you feel safe (like having possession of the tape), it can't hurt you and may be much more erotic than you think. If you don't like it, burn it. But don't hesitate because of the usual hang-ups we women can get lost in. Try it and see...you never know, you may like it more than you think! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted April 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 22, 2008 If you just hook the camera up to the TV even if you have no tape in it there is a lot to be said for watching what you are doing on the TV. Especially while your partner if giving oral and/or manual stimulation. You have to stay semi-aware to operate the cam and zoom where you want better views but it's better than a tripod view from 10' away with wrong angles! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Blush Posted April 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 26, 2008 This can be very erotic if you can get past the, someone will find it and my ass looks huge thing. My husband and I made a couple when we were first together, he always let me keep them under lock and key. I found once I got into it I forgot the camera was there for the most part. I'm a big fan of amateur porn too, it's just more real.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted May 2, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2008 Interesting comments. It's something we've joked about too. I don't know how I'd feel about watching myself on film. I'd probably have to have a few drinks first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mike_d Posted May 2, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 2, 2008 can't wait to add this to the list of things we do on a semi-regular basis....we are getting more and more in to photos...and it helps that our digital camera takes vid clips....when we are done, we delete them...but once we get a DVD camera...it's all good....and that nice Hi-Def TV to catch all the close ups....surround sound for the ohhs and ahhs and directions....can't wait.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shariana Posted May 12, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 12, 2008 I'd be WAY too afraid someone would find it.... sounds fun.... but..... I don't think so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted May 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 13, 2008 I wouldn't be afraid someone would find it, nor afraid that it got into the wrong hands. I've brought the subject up a couple times, but I just get looked at with a weird look but yeah I would do it. I think it would be fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members katiegirl Posted May 18, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 18, 2008 LOL Don't leave it out in the open where someone might find it, keep that puppy hidden. As for watching yourself, it might actually help you with any body image issues you have to tape yourself and watch it. I say go for it! I would love to be videotaped! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted May 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 30, 2008 sunflower did you ever end up filming? I keep thinking about filming us but have the same concerns you do on top of - How do I even tell Hubby I want to do this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members komana Posted May 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 30, 2008 ladylove, I would guess that you just tell him! While my hubby was away, he asked me to send him "special" emails, and I did, just about every night! Did self photo shoots, and even took a couple of video clips of just me. I had the same hang-ups as you did, but my DH responded to each and every picture and video with "man, you have no idea how much this made my day!" He also gave me (because I asked him to) constructive criticisms... and none of them were what I expected! I was expecting him to comment on how certain shots made me look fat or something, but most of them were about how my smile looked, or what I was doing with my eyes, or if the "money shot" was off center . Doing this made me realize that I can't focus on one or two bad things, and that HE doesn't focus on one or two bad things, he takes me as a wonderful total package! sunflower, maybe you could start out doing the same, see that it's really not that bad, and then surprise your hubby by setting the camera up yourself for a night with the two of you. I seriously doubt that anything you might see would make you never want to have sex again! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted May 30, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 30, 2008 sunflower did you ever end up filming? I keep thinking about filming us but have the same concerns you do on top of - How do I even tell Hubby I want to do this.No we haven't ... yet! we don't have a video camera but I think we will by the time we go away for my birthday so we'll see. I asked if we could film it kind of from a distance so as not to traumatize me too much.I am pretty sure I will post about it. If it goes well I will post in Sexy Stories! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members toohotcatmom Posted May 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 30, 2008 Oh I so totally want to do this....and I agree with others - amateur porn is much more erotic to me. Plus - have to have sound...that's the best part... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted May 31, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 31, 2008 OK...Maybe I'll combine both sunflowers and komana suggestion. Were going to to away 2 different weekends in June, one is his birthday for some (erotic) R&R. Maybe I'll surprise him with a camera already set up? Leading up to it I could practice by sending phone pictures to see how that goes over. Does that sound good? I'll let you know if I have the nerve to go through with it. It would be the chickens way to do it, but it works for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted September 30, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted September 30, 2008 sunflower did you ever end up filming? I keep thinking about filming us but have the same concerns you do on top of - How do I even tell Hubby I want to do this.Well we did do it as some of you may have read in the "Dragon's lair" story.http://forums.tootimid.com/index.php?showtopic=8168I feel like I need to tell you all how awesome it is to have that video!!!! It was so not at ALL how I thought it would be! Seeing myself was not that bad. Hearing him and hearing me! Also seeing from an angle that I could never see is incredible. VERY hot! I dressed up and it was in a cool place! The absolute best is remembering how it felt, like for example, I am watching myself have an orgasm hearing my moans and such. Seeing my reaction and remembering the exact feeling. Man oh man it is so awesome! NOTHING like watching porn. Seriously, because you have the memory of the actual feeling! Also we are so into each other, the passion is evident. It is weird to see yourself first hand but great! The reality is a turn on! Luckily it was one of the best nights of our lives AND we have it on video! What a great way to spice things up SERIOUSLY!!! I want to scream it from the rooftops!!!! If you are contemplating doing a video DO IT!!!!! It rocks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted September 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 30, 2008 We made one once (when we were much younger,thinner,etc) and I got nervous about it and made him destroy it. I regret destroying it now. It was fun at the time. Now he's as uncertain about how he would look as I was back then. If you say it's worth it though Sun, I may have to bring up the idea again. We did some digital photos recently and that was alright. Again, all deleted though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted September 30, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted September 30, 2008 We made one once (when we were much younger,thinner,etc) and I got nervous about it and made him destroy it. I regret destroying it now. It was fun at the time. Now he's as uncertain about how he would look as I was back then. If you say it's worth it though Sun, I may have to bring up the idea again. We did some digital photos recently and that was alright. Again, all deleted though.DO IT!! seriously starve yourself sexually for a few days (for us it was 1 or 2) and then have at it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 2, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 2, 2008 Well we did do it as some of you may have read in the "Dragon's lair" story. I feel like I need to tell you all how awesome it is to have that video!!!! It was so not at ALL how I thought it would be! Seeing myself was not that bad. Hearing him and hearing me! Also seeing from an angle that I could never see is incredible. VERY hot! I dressed up and it was in a cool place! The absolute best is remembering how it felt, like for example, I am watching myself have an orgasm hearing my moans and such. Seeing my reaction and remembering the exact feeling. Man oh man it is so awesome! NOTHING like watching porn. Seriously, because you have the memory of the actual feeling! Also we are so into each other, the passion is evident. It is weird to see yourself first hand but great! The reality is a turn on! Luckily it was one of the best nights of our lives AND we have it on video! What a great way to spice things up SERIOUSLY!!! I want to scream it from the rooftops!!!! If you are contemplating doing a video DO IT!!!!! It rocks! Good for you Sun. It sounds like a great time. I didn't do it yet, but again, I have 2 separate getaways planned for thins month. Maybe I get up the nerve to actually talk to him about it this time. I really don't know what I'm so afraid of, he's always been so open to everything, except one thing, I ever brought up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 19, 2008 OK..... I'm getting ready to just surprise him with a little film taking. Only problem is our equipment is so old I really need to get a new camera for recording the event. Any one have any suggestions on an inexpensive camera to use? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted October 19, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted October 19, 2008 OK..... I'm getting ready to just surprise him with a little film taking. Only problem is our equipment is so old I really need to get a new camera for recording the event. Any one have any suggestions on an inexpensive camera to use?WOW I was just thinking today (seriously) whether you had done this yet or not! I can't answer you though we borrowed the camera that we used. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 20, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 20, 2008 WOW I was just thinking today (seriously) whether you had done this yet or not! I can't answer you though we borrowed the camera that we used.Great mind think alike. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted October 20, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 20, 2008 Rent to own baby, keep it for a few weeks, make a couple of videos the keep the videos and return the camera! Also if you have a couple hundred, Wally World has some wickedly cute ones! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 20, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 20, 2008 Rent to own baby, keep it for a few weeks, make a couple of videos the keep the videos and return the camera! Also if you have a couple hundred, Wally World has some wickedly cute ones!I called our local rental place, and they don't rent any camera equipment.... We don't have a Wally World. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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