Members chloegirl Posted May 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 16, 2008 Men: Imagine you are back to a point where you are just getting intimate with a new partner. 1. Do you expect her to have the perfect bod? You know what I mean....your average woman past the teen years is going to have imperfections. Do those imperfections (cellulite, poochy belly, flabby ass, whatever) turn you off and make you lose interest even if you have a pretty hot chemistry going before the unveiling? Or can you still have a strong sexual attraction to her despite all of it?2. Do you prefer a woman who is upfront and confident and maybe even a little agressive in her sexuality or the shy "you lead the way" type?Just wondering because when we're young that kind of stuff can really hold alot of women back and it's not until we're older that we can get past all of it, but what is a man's opinion? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members flirt4fun Posted May 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 16, 2008 I think most of us would be lying if we didnt want (at some point in our lives) a Jessica Alba look alike.But most men as we mature can see past a lot of things....including imperfections for a real wildcat in the sack.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members thurisas Posted May 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 17, 2008 There is nothing sexier than a confident woman. Looks fade with time but fortunately, so does eyesight. (Just kidding). Looks are superficial and if you have a great relationship and chemistry with another person, they really don't matter.Randy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Edge Posted May 17, 2008 Report Share Posted May 17, 2008 Sure a hot body will catch our eyes, but as time goes on we all show our imperfections (or lack of exercise!), guys included!!! the posts above show that a lot of guys, maybe most of them (?), prefer a woman with a good attitude (re sex, outlook on life, etc...).Ladies, show some interest and we are putty in your hands, so to speak! Show some assertiveness, please, as we don't always want to initiate things and take the lead. We want to be "wanted."Perfect body plus crummy attitude = implies indifference Imperfect body plus good attitude = sexy turn-on!perfect body plus good attitude = a keeper!final note - if you've let your body "go" then do something to recapture it. Those imperfections may only be temporary and exercise will do you a world of good, both physically and emotionally. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Beunolas Posted May 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 17, 2008 For me, I'm still young, 19 or so. I don't know, for me the physical attraction has to be there, and she's gotta be the right type of personality or else it isn't going to work. Luckily I meet enough girls to be picky ;-P. Unfortunately, I'm not meeting enough of my type...I want to find a girl that'll boink me but not be a freaking slut...GUH. WHY DID COLLEGE LET OUT?! T_T Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kentuckyjoe Posted May 18, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 18, 2008 To be honest it's the little imperfections that i think are hot. don't get me wrong I would like to date a model like every other guy. but lets face it I'm not that rich. the main thing that attracts me to someone is how comfortable they are with their self. I love a woman that is not afraid to get what she wants in the bedroom either. I think a lot of women think that it will freak their man out if they turn into a sex freak every now and then. but for me it's a complete turn on when a woman lets go of all her inhibitions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members nodrama Posted May 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 dont need the perfect bod,a women who considers herself hot and I can pickup that vibe gets me hot.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Angelina Posted May 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 Wow you guys REALLY gave me something to think about, was planning on getting back to the gym next month and starting kick boxing again.This WILL happen after all I want to be smokin’ for my hubby and me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted June 9, 2008 Report Share Posted June 9, 2008 There is nothing sexier than a confident woman. Looks fade with time but fortunately, so does eyesight. (Just kidding). Looks are superficial and if you have a great relationship and chemistry with another person, they really don't matter.Randy.(He can stick to this cuz his wife is GORGEOUS AND a sweetie too!!!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jj53 Posted June 10, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 10, 2008 She doesn't have to be a model or an actress as long as she's confident about herself and the way she looks, oozes sexuality and her name is Di. What can I say I love the lady. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.