Need To Be Filled

[extralove]

I am a male who for the last 3 years cant get off without a thick dildo, does anyone else have this?? i like both guys and girls but have a real problem when it comes to women as you can imagine, i just bought another anal dildo today, I am having a problem finding thick enough dildo's to satisfy me, does anyone have any good idea's or the same issue.

Thanks extralove

[Mikayla1]

Instead of trying to find a "thicker" dildo, have you tried vibrating ones? Sometimes the vibrations can add that extra "something" that you are craving that you may think is girth. Perhaps you will enjoy the sensations of this more than having something bigger.

Other than that, I think I have heard one of the forum members here mentioning something he calls "Mr Big" which is supposed to be pretty large. I will see what I can find out!

Mikayla

[extralove]

Instead of trying to find a "thicker" dildo, have you tried vibrating ones? Sometimes the vibrations can add that extra "something" that you are craving that you may think is girth. Perhaps you will enjoy the sensations of this more than having something bigger.

Other than that, I think I have heard one of the forum members here mentioning something he calls "Mr Big" which is supposed to be pretty large. I will see what I can find out!

Mikayla

thanks, do you know if this is normal, do you know any other guys that have to be filled to get off, i want some feed back, its a real pain only being able to get satisfied like that.

Thanks

[Mikayla1]

I have a good friend who was constantly looking for a "bigger" dildo for his ass. He is a gay man, not that it matters, but when he would have anal sex, a regular cock wouldn't satisfy him. He could only climax with a large dildo in him. It got to the point where it was almost ruining his relationship. I suggested to him maybe a vibrator (like I did for you) He said that it helped because it stimulated the anal canal and put pressure on the sides without having to have the "full feeling" - this is what gave me the idea to suggest it to you.

He sometimes still wants to have a large dildo in him, but not as much. He was getting concerned that he would "stretch" himself too much. Which is possible if you are continually inserting larger objects on a daily basis. I wouldn't be too concerned about this, however.

I would find this need to be normal in the realm of pleasure, but would caution you to be careful that you do not attempt to overstretch your anal canal and rip the tender anal lining by trying to overstuff yourself. Only use toys which are approved for anal play, always use plenty of lube. NEVER use more than one toy at a time.

I am assuming you know these things, but others may not.

If you have further questions, please ask.

Mikayla

[extralove]

Thanks for your input, I feel better knowing there are others with the same problem, I think my problem stems from being with the same guy for years, he was very thick, and the sex was so hot,now that we are broken up I find myself having a hard time to get off. I was wondering if women have this issue if they were with a thick guy and then chose another who is small, does it hurt the sex? I will try your idea, I think its good, there is nothing like a thick cock, I would cum so hard I thought I was going to pass out, lol, thanks sweetie.

extralove

[Mikayla1]

As far as if women have this problem, I can tell you from my personal experience, I did have an ex who was particularly well endowed. He we very thick. Every time he would enter me (vagianally) it would almost hurt. ANyway, my next bf was extremely small in comparison....it seemed to me that I had nothing in me. I know that my vaginal had not stretched out, I know that he was filling me, however, I had become accustomed to the "filled" feeling and when he entered me I barely felt it. That combined with the fact that he was a terrible lover, left me very, very unsatisfied! So, I can relate to your dilemma.

Unfortunately, that "thick" ex, was not into anal sex - huh???? - so I do not know how that would have felt. However, speaking vaginally, I think the experience was about the same!

Mikayla

[extralove]

Now being on the subject, I do have a question, with some guys I get off in my pants when giving them head, do girls do that?? and do you swallow some and not others?? I always thought and wondered about this. Most all the women I go with like to watch 2 guys, some thought I could take care of them after I was done with the guy, I said I already finished, they didnt believe me, so, I thought women might not get off giving head like I do.

extralove

[Mikayla1]

Now being on the subject, I do have a question, with some guys I get off in my pants when giving them head, do girls do that?? and do you swallow some and not others?? I always thought and wondered about this. Most all the women I go with like to watch 2 guys, some thought I could take care of them after I was done with the guy, I said I already finished, they didnt believe me, so, I thought women might not get off giving head like I do.

extralove

Well, I can't speak for anyone but myself, but I have gotten off many time by giving my man head. I haven't always orgasmed while doing it, but I always got wet, from the first time I gave a blowjob. As for swallowing, I love to swallow. If I have the opportunity to swallow, I will. My hb loves me to swallow, but he also likes to cum in me, cum on my tits, and cum on my ass, so it depends what he is in the mood for, and what kind of night we are having.

As for watching two guys together, that has never done it for me. I love to watch 2 women, I have been with 2 guys in my distant past, but the two guys didn't "do" things with each other. maybe it is the selfishness in me. I have MANY gay friends, so it isn't a homophobic thing, just a personal preference I suppose. I like to watch people having sex, just not so much man on man sex. Throw a woman in there I may be OK. That is just my preference.

I think many women get off giving head. I think it may not always be to the point of orgasm, but I think they do get off. I would welcome other women's opinions here.

Mikayla

[extralove]

Mikayla,

Thats interesting, you dont have an actual orgasm but you get wet, I shoot a gush, sometimes I don't know what to expect but most of the time if its a quickie ineed to wear a condom to avoid the mess. i ts interesting to think of it as being filled, I never thought of it that way thinking of a girls aspect, not referring to a relationship but as pure sex there is a HUGE difference in size, it matters a whole lot, sorry guys that arent big but in sex terms I have to have a thick cock to get off. thanks for all your imput, I hope to hear other girls give opinions, I find it important to know even though I am a guy i think like a girl. to be fair with this topic, i do dress up and pass with flying colors, so I guess you would say i'm a TS.

extraove

[Mikayla1]

I kind of figured that you were a Trannie when I saw the comment about you having your "panties" pulled down.

No problem with that.

I have had actual orgasms while giving head - just not all the time.

I don't know what your sexual situation is, but I think you should ALWAYS use condoms when having sex - oral, anal - just use them for safe sex.

Let's hope for other comments!

Mikayla

[sam7970]

Now being on the subject, I do have a question, with some guys I get off in my pants when giving them head, do girls do that?? and do you swallow some and not others?? I always thought and wondered about this. Most all the women I go with like to watch 2 guys, some thought I could take care of them after I was done with the guy, I said I already finished, they didnt believe me, so, I thought women might not get off giving head like I do.

extralove

I love giving head. I don't remember ever having an orgasm while giving head, but I get extremely wet and hornier. I love watching gay porn, man on man or woman on woman, and I would love to actually watch two men or two women go at it I don't always swallow cause not everyone's sperm tastes the same. If I don't like it, I spit it out or give it to him to swallow

[Mikayla1]

I don't always swallow cause not everyone's sperm tastes the same. If I don't like it, I spit it out or give it to him to swallow

It is nice to see someone else who believes in the fine art of "sharing" juices! I too love to taste not only myself, but my partner. I also believe in sharing his juices with him. My hb is none too keen on this practice right now, but I am attempting to work him up to it. I would eventually like him to be able to taste a whole load of his own cum!

Hooray for girls who think alike!

Mikayla

[sam7970]

Sam7970: Good for you. I like to hear a woman who takes charge when she is giving head. There should be nohting wrong with giving a man's cum back to him to swallow, particularly if you don't like the taste. He can change the taste by changing his diet. Vanilla, cinamon, and some other sweets will make the cum taste sweet. Bitter root foods will make it taste bitter. Coffee makes it taste bitter. And this applies to the taste of women's fluids, too. If you are going to get into oral, you might as well go all the way, and appreciate these subtleties. My wife could tell if I cheated on my diet by having a danish with my morning coffee at work, that evening when she tasted my cum. And I could tell when she was drinking too much coffee, or when she started drinking flavored coffees by the taste of her vaginal juices that evening. She was always surprised that I could tell her what flavor of coffee she had drunk that morning.

Have fun.

Howard, you must have very keen taste buds.

Sam7970: Good for you. I like to hear a woman who takes charge when she is giving head. There should be nohting wrong with giving a man's cum back to him to swallow, particularly if you don't like the taste. He can change the taste by changing his diet. Vanilla, cinamon, and some other sweets will make the cum taste sweet. Bitter root foods will make it taste bitter. Coffee makes it taste bitter. And this applies to the taste of women's fluids, too. If you are going to get into oral, you might as well go all the way, and appreciate these subtleties. My wife could tell if I cheated on my diet by having a danish with my morning coffee at work, that evening when she tasted my cum. And I could tell when she was drinking too much coffee, or when she started drinking flavored coffees by the taste of her vaginal juices that evening. She was always surprised that I could tell her what flavor of coffee she had drunk that morning.

Have fun.

Howard, you must have very keen taste buds.

Mikayla, I have never understood why men love to have their own cum swallowed by a woman and they love to kiss us after eating pussy, but they refuse to taste a load of thier own cum. My rule is, if I have to taste it you have to taste it too.

[Mikayla1]

Ain't that the truth! Why should they shy away from their own cum? It came out of them...it is all natural...and it is no different than ours! Finally, another woman who understands my plea!

Mikayla

[sam7970]

I am a male who for the last 3 years cant get off without a thick dildo, does anyone else have this?? i like both guys and girls but have a real problem when it comes to women as you can imagine, i just bought another anal dildo today, I am having a problem finding thick enough dildo's to satisfy me, does anyone have any good idea's or the same issue.

Thanks extralove

Go to www.stockroom.com and check out the vinyl dildos. I think you will be very pleased.

[extralove]

Thats a neat subject, I never have had a guy want to taste his own, even being a t girl I have sex mostly with straight guys, thats another one I need an opinion on, the guys i sleep with say they are str8!!! but they know i have a penis, what do you guys think of this? I do look like a girl and act like a girl but im not all girl, so, do you think the guys that I have intercourse with are str8 or bi?

extralove

[Mikayla1]

Here is my opinion: If you have a penis, and the guys who are sleeping with you KNOW you have a penis (i.e. like the crying game, he knew she was a guy when he finally did her) then they are entering into the relationship a knowing participant, and are either gay or bi. There is no denying that. Now, if you were a post-op trannie with no penis, it could be argued that they did not know, or that they only like women....but not if you still have the penis...sorry, I don't buy it!

Mikayla

[extralove]

I agree with you completely, even though they dont go down on me they know its there. One guy said you cant screw me, I said yuck, why would I want to do that, so that tells me he must be bi but he insists that he only likes women and the fact i am a sexy women in evey way except that, he says he is str8 and wants to have a serious relationship, Its good with me, he knows how to satisfy a girl, but, i still think he is in denial, thanks for your opinion, wish I could get a couple more on here before I make him read them.

extralove

[Scout]

Now being on the subject, I do have a question, with some guys I get off in my pants when giving them head, do girls do that?? and do you swallow some and not others?? I always thought and wondered about this. Most all the women I go with like to watch 2 guys, some thought I could take care of them after I was done with the guy, I said I already finished, they didnt believe me, so, I thought women might not get off giving head like I do.

extralove

I've never had an orgasm while giving my guy head, but it surely does excite me...so much so, that I won't allow him to go down on me while I'm doing him...just too much to concentrate on and I'm afraid if he started on me, well, just not a good idea while I've got his pride and glory in my mouth! I get so very turned on, hot and very wet...and if he cums - I love to swallow, every last drop. He loved that I did that for him. I never gave his back to him in the way you all are talking about, but when he'd cum inside me, he'd go down on me right after - so he'd get a mouthful of himself that way - and then he'd kiss me - so I'd get some of him and some of me, too! A nice way to exchange fluids I thought.

I've never been interested in watching two guys or two girls...just not my thing. To each their own, I always say. I might like to watch one guy with one gal in a flick - that I can identify with - but much prefer the real thing. And I'd not want to watch anyone else "in person" - that's a bit too much for me. Call me old fashioned, straight or whatever - just give me a good, rock solid man - one who enjoys making and keeping me happy and satisfied - that's all I need! And please don't think of me as boring - cause I was never bored with my SO, and on most days, we had sex at least twice a day! Not bad for a couple of 55+ oldies but goodies!

Scout

[12GAUGE]

I've never had an orgasm while giving my guy head, but it surely does excite me...so much so, I get so very turned on, hot and very wet...and if he cums - I love to swallow, every last drop. He loved that I did that for him. I never gave his back to him in the way you all are talking about, but when he'd cum inside me, he'd go down on me right after - Call me old fashioned, straight or whatever - just give me a good, rock solid man - one who enjoys making and keeping me happy and satisfied - that's all I need! And please don't think of me as boring - cause I was never bored with my SO, and on most days, we had sex at least twice a day! Not bad for a couple of 55+ oldies but goodies!

Scout

Good morning- That toy Mikayla referred to as my Mr. Big is a good sized 1 1/2" x 6 1/2" Boitoyz Fab cock. This style is available in 2 types- rubber and cyberskin. My Cyber Boy is not as hard/firm as Mr. Big but the texture is more like real skin (which for me seems so much more erotic). They both work extremely well with water based lubes of which GEL by Forplay is still my first choice. As to the size- Big gets the job done for me. I have to be able to jam it in and out as two people fucking would be doing. I also found that holding a bullet at its base added to the thrills I received. I don't do anal much anymore since I scored a gf hehehe . I hope this helps you out- they have a very nice array of toys here that you should check out too. peace 12GAUGE

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