Role Play

[elise]

I'm curious if anyone else uses role-play games in their sexual repertoire. I minored in Drama in college, and did a lot of improv. My hb and I learned early on we can make our sex life a lot hotter by playing different roles... it's almost like having sex with someone else without actually cheating, and really spices up the variety of our fucking.

I love dressing up for sex, and sometimes costume really inspires the role-play. For example, I have a really sweet white lace corset that my hb says makes me look 'virginal'. So when I wear it to bed, we play a game where I'm a young virgin bride on her wedding night, and he's an older and very experienced man who answers all my innocent questions about sex, then gently (but not TOO gently ) takes my virginity. In another game we've played a few times, I get dressed up in period lingerie and stockings and shoes while my hb puts on a strappy leather harness; I play the role of a noblewoman who uses her peasant man to satisfy her sexual needs. He is bound to a chair, and I tease him and ride him as I please, but delay his gratification until he's almost crazy to come.

Of course, role play is a natural for bondage scenes... the whole master-slave thing, or force fantasies. No woman in her right mind wants to really be raped, but there's no question that pretending to be ravished is hothothot. The variations are endless. One game we've played again and again is one where I'm a rich single woman who desires a child, and he's a professional inseminator I've hired to get me pregnant (won't happen, of course, as I've been 'fixed'). Lots of fun with this one, as it's a multi-day game that 'forces' us to have sex two or more times a day for as long as we can keep it up (four days in a row is our record... I could hardly walk for a week after that one!). One of the fun things about a more elaborate role-play game like this one is we can stay in character outside of the bedroom, even going out to dinner while playing the roles. It can be fascinating, creating a persona on the fly over two or more days while having hot sex with a virtual 'stranger'.

Sooo... anybody else got some role-play sex game experience or ideas?

[Amylynn920]

I'm curious if anyone else uses role-play games in their sexual repertoire. I minored in Drama in college, and did a lot of improv. My hb and I learned early on we can make our sex life a lot hotter by playing different roles... it's almost like having sex with someone else without actually cheating, and really spices up the variety of our fucking.

I love dressing up for sex, and sometimes costume really inspires the role-play. For example, I have a really sweet white lace corset that my hb says makes me look 'virginal'. So when I wear it to bed, we play a game where I'm a young virgin bride on her wedding night, and he's an older and very experienced man who answers all my innocent questions about sex, then gently (but not TOO gently ) takes my virginity. In another game we've played a few times, I get dressed up in period lingerie and stockings and shoes while my hb puts on a strappy leather harness; I play the role of a noblewoman who uses her peasant man to satisfy her sexual needs. He is bound to a chair, and I tease him and ride him as I please, but delay his gratification until he's almost crazy to come.

Of course, role play is a natural for bondage scenes... the whole master-slave thing, or force fantasies. No woman in her right mind wants to really be raped, but there's no question that pretending to be ravished is hothothot. The variations are endless. One game we've played again and again is one where I'm a rich single woman who desires a child, and he's a professional inseminator I've hired to get me pregnant (won't happen, of course, as I've been 'fixed'). Lots of fun with this one, as it's a multi-day game that 'forces' us to have sex two or more times a day for as long as we can keep it up (four days in a row is our record... I could hardly walk for a week after that one!). One of the fun things about a more elaborate role-play game like this one is we can stay in character outside of the bedroom, even going out to dinner while playing the roles. It can be fascinating, creating a persona on the fly over two or more days while having hot sex with a virtual 'stranger'.

Sooo... anybody else got some role-play sex game experience or ideas?

I can only wish

Glad you two are having the best fun tho!

[mailahn97]

I surprised my other half a few months back with a school girl outfit. I told him I had a surprise but didn't tell him what. I went and got changed into it and came out. His jaw dropped. He enjoyed spanking the naughty school girl. Then I had to redeem myself to the teacher. It was a lot of fun.

[ladylove]

YES! I have a few times. I dressed up in a Naughty Nurses outfit.

If you dress up you should stay in for character and encourage your SO into the roll playing. My husband is in charge and in control all day at work, so I chose a part were he would have to be submissive. He loved it. If you can ask your SO what a secret fantasy is for him, then try to build around that. Try 'Henry and June' for your costume needs. They sell all sizes and there $ are fair. Most of all have fun.

[Amylynn920]

YES! I have a few times. I dressed up in a Naughty Nurses outfit.

If you dress up you should stay in for character and encourage your SO into the roll playing. My husband is in charge and in control all day at work, so I chose a part were he would have to be submissive. He loved it. If you can ask your SO what a secret fantasy is for him, then try to build around that. Try 'Henry and June' for your costume needs. They sell all sizes and there $ are fair. Most of all have fun.

Well it doesn't work tho when you ask your s/o that question and all you get is an "I dunno". Not much room for discussion sadly.

But you never know.

[elise]

Well it doesn't work tho when you ask your s/o that question and all you get is an "I dunno". Not much room for discussion sadly.

But you never know.

Your man probably said "I dunno" because he hasn't had time to process it. You need to plant some seeds in his mind, get him thinking about it. For example, you might show him a photo from lingerie or costume catalog... say, a really sexy french maid outfit, and then ask him would he like to be the rich man with this hot little number there to serve him?

This is where costumes can help you take the lead. Men are visual. Give him a strong visual image to spin his fantasies around, and you'll probably be surprised at how quickly he gets into it.

[froggystyle1977]

Wow sounds like you guys have alot of fun. Hubby and I haven't done this

though he does love looking at costumes with me at halloween sadly most

of the ones we like are either way to expensive or I just don't have the body

for them.

[ladylove]

Your man probably said "I dunno" because he hasn't had time to process it. You need to plant some seeds in his mind, get him thinking about it. For example, you might show him a photo from lingerie or costume catalog... say, a really sexy french maid outfit, and then ask him would he like to be the rich man with this hot little number there to serve him?

This is where costumes can help you take the lead. Men are visual. Give him a strong visual image to spin his fantasies around, and you'll probably be surprised at how quickly he gets into it.

I agree, let him know you are going to play on a specific evening so he can look forward to it and think about it. Also, let him know he need to get into character and play. Aiden, in my experience your man my be "shy" about this whole new experience, encourage him to get what you need. Good luck honey, I hope you try and have a good time. Let us know if it works.

[ladylove]

Well, a guy can dream, can't he?

He sure can!!! tell me what are your dreams?????

[Cavelady854]

I was with a guy who wanted a hot teacher. So I dressed really preppy, then made him watch porn for his assignment. When he kept going for feelskis, I would call him by Mr. (then his last name.) Then i would say that he needed to pay more attention to the assignment or he would have to stay after class.

Hehe

[Amylynn920]

Amazing what french braided pigtails, and a breathless young virgin voice will do a grown man when you add that to a shower.

Just sayin'

[ladylove]

Amazing what french braided pigtails, and a breathless young virgin voice will do a grown man when you add that to a shower.

Just sayin'

Good for you Aiden! Keep trying new things....

[dedseksi]

I have been wnting to do thid for quite sometime. "Meet" by chance in a bar (looking hot obviously and trying to look different than what you normally do different hair, makeup, clothes.) downtown pretend not to know each other but flirt and stumble back to a hotel room and be naughty I think that sounds like fun/pretty hott too. Sadly my hubby would probably think I was a fucking wierdo if I ever brought it up to him sucks for me to be stuck with the same old vanilla sex. If I had it my way he wouldn't know what hit him. It also doesn't help that I am too insecure with myself to even think about bringing it up

[vanilla_bean]

I have been wnting to do thid for quite sometime. "Meet" by chance in a bar (looking hot obviously and trying to look different than what you normally do different hair, makeup, clothes.) downtown pretend not to know each other but flirt and stumble back to a hotel room and be naughty I think that sounds like fun/pretty hott too. Sadly my hubby would probably think I was a fucking wierdo if I ever brought it up to him sucks for me to be stuck with the same old vanilla sex. If I had it my way he wouldn't know what hit him. It also doesn't help that I am too insecure with myself to even think about bringing it up

I encourage you to do what it takes to screw up your courage and ask for what you want. It can lead to a whole new level of fun and intimacy in your relationship. If you're bored with vanilla now, it will only get worse down the road if nothing changes.

[Cavelady854]

I agree with vanilla. If he loves you, he already knows what you are like. You never know what can happen if you don't try. Also, your husband may find it fun and exciting. Try asking him. Or putting the idea into his head and get him to ask you to do it! hehe

[whitefang2002]

god reading all this is making me super horny..and makes me want to go dress up right now!

[ladylove]

I have been wnting to do thid for quite sometime. "Meet" by chance in a bar (looking hot obviously and trying to look different than what you normally do different hair, makeup, clothes.) downtown pretend not to know each other but flirt and stumble back to a hotel room and be naughty I think that sounds like fun/pretty hott too. Sadly my hubby would probably think I was a fucking wierdo if I ever brought it up to him sucks for me to be stuck with the same old vanilla sex. If I had it my way he wouldn't know what hit him. It also doesn't help that I am too insecure with myself to even think about bringing it up

Guess what..... I bet your man would get totally turned on; they are very sexual beings. Step out of your box and try. Tell him you have a surprise for him and he should meet you somewhere, and he needs to be open minded and play along. Or try e-mailing him a special invite with the terms and conditions of your meeting......

Try! He'll love you for bringing on sexy play!!!!! Let us know how successful your evening was!

[elise]

Guess what..... I bet your man would get totally turned on; they are very sexual beings. Step out of your box and try. Tell him you have a surprise for him and he should meet you somewhere, and he needs to be open minded and play along. Or try e-mailing him a special invite with the terms and conditions of your meeting......

Absolutely right. Using email or notes can get things going. One of my girlfriends wanted to try role-play with her husband, but he was resistant. She succeeded, finally, by sending him an email inviting to meet her for a drink after work, but that when they met, her name would be Natasha, and his would be Boris. To further entice him, she attached a picture of herself from the waist down in nothing but a garter belt and stockings and heels (big turn-on for him, like most men, I think, and something she'd resisted doing because she thought garters & stockings were "slutty"). So he got his woman into a garter belt, and she got her man into a role-play, and they had a great time. They've branched into a few other role-play games, now, and for the first time in years their sex life is too hot to handle.

[ladylove]

Absolutely right. Using email or notes can get things going. One of my girlfriends wanted to try role-play with her husband, but he was resistant. She succeeded, finally, by sending him an email inviting to meet her for a drink after work, but that when they met, her name would be Natasha, and his would be Boris. To further entice him, she attached a picture of herself from the waist down in nothing but a garter belt and stockings and heels (big turn-on for him, like most men, I think, and something she'd resisted doing because she thought garters & stockings were "slutty"). So he got his woman into a garter belt, and she got her man into a role-play, and they had a great time. They've branched into a few other role-play games, now, and for the first time in years their sex life is too hot to handle.

Excellent! I'm so happy 'you friend' persevered, it paid off.

[elise]

Actually, LL, she really is my friend. My HB and I have been doing sex role-play games for years. She popped over for coffee a few months ago and caught me trying on a new 'pirate's wench' outfit I'd just bought. It's obviously a sex costume (black velvet lace-up corset top, dark red slit skirt with lace-up front, thigh-high stiletto boots), so I laughed and told her about the role-play we were going to have that evening... the big bad pirate and the helpless wench, she trying in vain to fight him off while he binds her, teases her to a frenzy, then ravishes her again and again... LOL! My friend was fascinated, and it took months for her to get her HB to role-play with her. Now that he's into it, she's a very happy lady.

[mudshark]

Actually, LL, she really is my friend. My HB and I have been doing sex role-play games for years. She popped over for coffee a few months ago and caught me trying on a new 'pirate's wench' outfit I'd just bought. It's obviously a sex costume (black velvet lace-up corset top, dark red slit skirt with lace-up front, thigh-high stiletto boots), so I laughed and told her about the role-play we were going to have that evening... the big bad pirate and the helpless wench, she trying in vain to fight him off while he binds her, teases her to a frenzy, then ravishes her again and again... LOL! My friend was fascinated, and it took months for her to get her HB to role-play with her. Now that he's into it, she's a very happy lady.

Wife and I like to role-play. It's way fun. Sometime requires dressing up, others just some dirty talk and heavy foreplay to set the scene. I also bought a few of those adult games for couples (or multi-couples for the adventurous) and those help set up some pretty hot situations. She used a card on me that said she should order her partner to go into the next room (or outside the door) and take off an article of clothing. We were in a hotel and I was down to just a t-shirt and naked from waist down. I walked out of the room, stood in the hallway, took off my shirt. The people two rooms down were talking loud and had their door open. My wife was so turned on by the idea of coming close to being caught, and, frankly, so was I.

After that, we played a few of the games, which dictated a lot of the sex acts we got into. But, I want to backtrack to a pre-dinner surprise my wife gave me. We arrived at the Asbury Park hotel in the mid-afternoon. While unpacking our bags, I mixed us a few bloody marys. We downed them and went swimming for a few hours. At times, we kissed and rubbed each other's bodies in the pool and she would wrap her legs around my back. We knew we were both getting kinda hot. After going back into the room, my wife told me she had a surprise for me and that I will like it. It was just that she had to ask me to leave the room for about 1/2 hour.

I agreed, in total wonderment of what she had in mind and feelings of arousal through my cock. When I came back, she was laying naked on the bed, candles burning, with Japanese food (sushi mostly) laying on strategic parts of her body, with small dishes of sauce and chopstix on her. She told me that she wants to be eaten and licked from head to toe, which I proceeded to do. I hope this sounds as hot as it was in real life. We feasted and then I made love to her, but wouldn't cum. We had a whole night of sex ahead of us...

[12GAUGE]

I'm curious if anyone else uses role-play games in their sexual repertoire. I minored in Drama in college, and did a lot of improv. My hb and I learned early on we can make our sex life a lot hotter by playing different roles... it's almost like having sex with someone else without actually cheating, and really spices up the variety of our fucking.

I love dressing up for sex, and sometimes costume really inspires the role-play. For example, I have a really sweet white lace corset that my hb says makes me look 'virginal'. So when I wear it to bed, we play a game where I'm a young virgin bride on her wedding night, and he's an older and very experienced man who answers all my innocent questions about sex, then gently (but not TOO gently ) takes my virginity. In another game we've played a few times, I get dressed up in period lingerie and stockings and shoes while my hb puts on a strappy leather harness; I play the role of a noblewoman who uses her peasant man to satisfy her sexual needs. He is bound to a chair, and I tease him and ride him as I please, but delay his gratification until he's almost crazy to come.

Of course, role play is a natural for bondage scenes... the whole master-slave thing, or force fantasies. No woman in her right mind wants to really be raped, but there's no question that pretending to be ravished is hothothot. The variations are endless. One game we've played again and again is one where I'm a rich single woman who desires a child, and he's a professional inseminator I've hired to get me pregnant (won't happen, of course, as I've been 'fixed'). Lots of fun with this one, as it's a multi-day game that 'forces' us to have sex two or more times a day for as long as we can keep it up (four days in a row is our record... I could hardly walk for a week after that one!). One of the fun things about a more elaborate role-play game like this one is we can stay in character outside of the bedroom, even going out to dinner while playing the roles. It can be fascinating, creating a persona on the fly over two or more days while having hot sex with a virtual 'stranger'.

Sooo... anybody else got some role-play sex game experience or ideas?

YOWZA!! Sounds HOT HOT HOT ! ! !

[12GAUGE]

Amazing what french braided pigtails, and a breathless young virgin voice will do a grown man when you add that to a shower.

Just sayin'

YA4

[elise]

I surprised my other half a few months back with a school girl outfit. I told him I had a surprise but didn't tell him what. I went and got changed into it and came out. His jaw dropped. He enjoyed spanking the naughty school girl. Then I had to redeem myself to the teacher. It was a lot of fun.

I was reading this thread a few weeks ago, looking for ideas, and read yours. I ordered a Naughty Schoolgirl outfit from Trashy Lingerie online and surprised my HB with it last w/e. Best spanking (and AFTER-spanking) I've ever got. Yum!

[shdowulf39]

the one thing I have found about role playing is.....your only limited by your imagination.you can have the same sceene,and do it many different ways.

one of my favorite things to do is role play.now with a partner that is not experienced in such things along with other areas of play I am starting to incorporate other forms of play slowly.it sure is fun to open up someone to all the things they have missed.