Members bethvr13 Posted July 21, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 21, 2008 So I was having sex with a new guy, and he wasn't the biggest I have had but he is up there. Anyway we only had sex in one position, missionary with my legs over his shoulders, and his penis kept hitting something that hurt. I have never pushed a guys legs back during sex, but I did this time. I thought maybe it was my bladder, but one of my friends told me that he might has been hitting my g-spot, is this possible? IThat it hurt because he was hitting it and not rubbing it? Figured I would come to my resident sexperts for the answer.Thanks everyone, I love this site! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ToyQueen Posted July 21, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 21, 2008 My first thought is that he was hitting your cervix. That tends to hurt. But others may have some better ideas for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted July 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 My first thought is that he was hitting your cervix. That tends to hurt. But others may have some better ideas for you.The cervix sounds right to me, see when women say they like it deep, they usually want the guy to hit their cervix. (I think i read that somewhere) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bethvr13 Posted July 22, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 My cervix never even occured to me, that is probably it. Thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members nosleepnmesa Posted July 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 I am going to say it was your cervix, it can be painful if it is hard thursting going on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members nosleepnmesa Posted July 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 Iha LOL have I said I love your comments lately?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted July 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 Maybe yer tonsils? No No NO iha, everyone knows that penis and seman are the best medicine for a sore throat! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bethvr13 Posted July 22, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 No No NO iha, everyone knows that penis and seman are the best medicine for a sore throat!Works everytime. Seriously Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members coffee-girl Posted July 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 My ex-bf used to enjoy the sensation of his penis hitting my cervix. Me, not so much.I think I have mentioned this elsewhere, but when a woman is properly aroused, her vagina will widen and lengthen, and her cervix will actually lift. So, with my ex, there were times when he would and wouldn't hit my cervix, even if we were in the same position. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members froggystyle1977 Posted July 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 I have to agree with the others in that he was probably hitting your cervix. which can be very painful.Sometimes this depends on what part of your cycle your in or as stated above your arousal level. Before I had children this was never an issue for me but after OMG the pain can be unbearable!!!!! Position could also have something to do with it, in some positions reaching the cervix is impossible while in others such as the one you were in and doggy the cervix can shift making it very easy to hit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted July 22, 2008 Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 I agree with everyone here. You really can't "hit" the g-spot directly, rub, yes, but since it's up on a wall, where your cervix is at the "end" of your vagina, so it's probably that.I too never minded deep thrusting, even with hubby (and he's LONG), but after having our daughter, too deep of a thrust hurts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted July 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 I have a tilted uterus, and some positions are uncomfortable. We just shift or try something else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted July 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 So I was having sex with a new guy, and he wasn't the biggest I have had but he is up there. Anyway we only had sex in one position, missionary with my legs over his shoulders, and his penis kept hitting something that hurt. I have never pushed a guys legs back during sex, but I did this time. I thought maybe it was my bladder, but one of my friends told me that he might has been hitting my g-spot, is this possible? IThat it hurt because he was hitting it and not rubbing it? Figured I would come to my resident sexperts for the answer.Thanks everyone, I love this site!Are you pms'ing? sometimes you could be more sensitive. Actually in that position My H hits my g-spot it is a little uncomfortable at first if you aren't used to it. I am tipped so far back that when he enters it sort of hits me at an angle right on the spot if you can imagine. Is that what's happening? If yes just work through it. It becomes incredible! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Blush Posted July 23, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 23, 2008 I'd guess cervix like everyone else has mentioned. But, my new guy does rub my gspot in certain positions during intercourse.... OMG squriting with him inside me!! Feels wonderful and pushes him over the edge everytime. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ohshelly Posted August 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 Funny how everybody is different. Sweetguy hits my cervix, and I am cumming like no tomorrow! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SensualWoman Posted September 9, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 9, 2008 Oh yeah, the deeper the better for me! I heard that a lot of women find it painful too... I know that if my bladder is even a little tiny bit full it hurts a lot to have sex at all. Just because of the pressure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shariana Posted September 10, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 10, 2008 I liked really deep with my first partner, but after my second (and latest) one, I realize that it hurts like CRAZY when he goes too deep.... granted, he is MUCH bigger than my first, but GEEZ! It really did hurt quite a bit.... I think if it happens more often, I might get more used to it.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Xeno Posted September 11, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 11, 2008 I have the same problem with my SO. even if shes really aroused, she doesnt like it when i hit her cervix. I like the feeling, but not at the cost of it being painful to her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members LilyElle Posted September 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 That's a really deep-penetration position, so if he's ever going to hit your cervix, a position like that's likely to do it. I feel your pain, Beth, I have that problem on too. For a long time, I couldn't even attempt doggy style for more than a few thrusts, because it hurt so bad when he hit my cervix. We finally managed when I kept my strongest vibe on my clit the entire time, so I was always on the verge of orgasm. That's the only way I can keep open enough down there to have sex in that position. But oh is it fun now that I can get my cervix out of the way... try some clit stimulation when you next try that position, it may help! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted September 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 Sounds like the cervix if it hurts..as you are more aroused the cervix pulls up and out of the way..unless you have a retroverted or tilted uterus. The vagina sort of balloons at the end getting ready for the sperm..mother nature intends for you to get pregnant every time and tries her best to make it happen. If you have endometriosis things might be stuck together, like an ovary to the uterus and that hurts quite a bit, too. But that would hurt in all positions. But if your SO goes slow and deep, see if he can move past any obstacles at minimal cost to you...nothing like deep thrusting if that cervix gets out of the way...it's fabulous Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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