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wow all the people answering this post is all women. Well I will tell you why I watch porn it is a naked women in front of you brain sees that dick goes up and also to how sexy the women is what she looks like and how big that ass is I am a ass man this is just me only other guys have different reason why they watch porn. Most times don't get too far in the movie just need a quick jerk and the porn is the turn on.

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I don't like porn myself. Mainly cause I'm not in there scoring myself. When I do watch it though it depends on the porno and who I'm with. I have only watched porn with one person besides being with myself. And when it's him and I we just watch and on my mind is ok I want to masturbate. When it's me and it's two girls I tend to think damn I wish I was in there. If its male female I watch and get some ideas or I remember all the times that I have had sex. If its guy guy I wish it was me in there doing all of it. Usually though I just avoid porn all together.

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Yeah.. where are all the men to tell us what is going on in their heads when they watch porn?

AND what about us women? What goes on in our heads when we watch porn?

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Wow! Great question and lots of interesting posts, some of which I would like to address in the future. But, let me try and give you some truthful and descriptive things that go through my head (and likely, many other men) when I am watching porn.

Now, I must differentiate two things here. I watch porn with my wife sometimes. We get each other hot and bothered in some long foreplay sessions while watching some hot porn.

Then, there are the times where I am watching solely to get myself off and stroking my cock. I put on whatever I think will turn me on this particular night, maybe some good ass fucking. As a male, I believe we are hard-wired a certain way. I know I start thinking and getting hot with the thought of projecting myself into the picture a bit. I Know some objection was raised about that, but I think it works that way. I like to feel like I am in the room with her. I find myself getting turned on by the thought of that being my cock inside her and not the guy on the screen. Sometimes, I jerk off to thoughts of my wife doing the same acts to me. The whole thing about porn and getting off to it is the ability to project anywhere your little gonad takes you, all for the sake of the orgasm. :)

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Wow! Great question and lots of interesting posts, some of which I would like to address in the future. But, let me try and give you some truthful and descriptive things that go through my head (and likely, many other men) when I am watching porn.

Now, I must differentiate two things here. I watch porn with my wife sometimes. We get each other hot and bothered in some long foreplay sessions while watching some hot porn.

Then, there are the times where I am watching solely to get myself off and stroking my cock. I put on whatever I think will turn me on this particular night, maybe some good ass fucking. As a male, I believe we are hard-wired a certain way. I know I start thinking and getting hot with the thought of projecting myself into the picture a bit. I Know some objection was raised about that, but I think it works that way. I like to feel like I am in the room with her. I find myself getting turned on by the thought of that being my cock inside her and not the guy on the screen. Sometimes, I jerk off to thoughts of my wife doing the same acts to me. The whole thing about porn and getting off to it is the ability to project anywhere your little gonad takes you, all for the sake of the orgasm. :)

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Yes! I love that. I like how you really put it out on the table. I don't have a problem with any of it... Thank you Stu

I have not watched enough porn (yet) to really say what goes through my head.. but I certainly remember the days of reading those juicy romance novels when I was in that horrible marriage. The heroine was kicked aside and I was the one being made love to, being fucked in a way that was exciting and good.. I think that projection helped me through some pretty dark times. And now to the present with my lover, every time I see a movie or tv character that looks like him and is being sexy, gentlemanly or cool, it is him I see on the screen.. not Pierce Brosnan (sorry Pierce) etc.. :)

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What firefighter said is well put. The element of fantasy can be and often is a driving force for us men. Visually entertaining material is always interesting both on screen and in person. If I am watching porn then I am watching for the arousal factor. Some of what I see I would like to bring into a relationship. But mostly I will look at porn when I am not in a relationship and/or not having sex more for entertainment than for any other reason. Of course the sex is a turn on in porn and it will lead to self pleasuring activities about 55% of the time. Other times I look at it from a more clinical perspective.

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My wife and I watch porn when we're going to have our lovemaking sessions. It is really helped her in the fact that she has become less inhibited in her sexual activities. We watch it together and get aroused and often times trying to imitate what is going on on the screen. Other times I just like to look at porn so I can jerk off. Different days I like different activities. sometimes I'm into  up close blowjob from women other times from men. Sometimes I like watching eating creampies other times I like watching guys get pegged. It all depends on what I'm feeling like that day. My wife is away this weekend visiting family so I am ready to watch some FMF porn right now

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On 3/7/2020 at 6:58 PM, Rio said:

My wife and I watch porn when we're going to have our lovemaking sessions. It is really helped her in the fact that she has become less inhibited in her sexual activities. We watch it together and get aroused and often times trying to imitate what is going on on the screen. Other times I just like to look at porn so I can jerk off. Different days I like different activities. sometimes I'm into  up close blowjob from women other times from men. Sometimes I like watching eating creampies other times I like watching guys get pegged. It all depends on what I'm feeling like that day. My wife is away this weekend visiting family so I am ready to watch some FMF porn right now

It's nice to hear honest replies especially from you guys porn is definitely a stimulant for our imaginations and a very good way to Express our deepest fantasies especially if you are interested in same sex encounters 

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