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totally goggling, I mean giggling. Best laugh I've had all day. The innocent routine... LOL This place is just humming with flirtation

FLIRT ALERT!!! vocal is good. Welcome Chrissy!

My last lover talked a lot during sex and it turned me on. He didn't talk dirty, just said things like "does this feel good?" Do you want to try this or this? and so on and he complimented my attributes. I used to be one to clap my hands over my ears in horror at hearing the F word. My my, how things change! *giggling* With my current SO we feel comfortable swearing like pirates in and out of bed. But I don't usually curse in every day life with other people. Feels real good to let my hair down with him though. Now I like saying and hearing the word fuck because SO has taken the dirt out of dirty and made those words just plain HOT. "MMM, you feel so fucking good..." "I can't wait, you've made me so hot I need to fuck you right now" "MMMMmmm, you're pussy is so wet" Lots of ""Oh Gods!!"

Yes, I have. I also have to take a hundred or so to get a few good ones... good thing I have a sense of humor or I might get depressed. I have a tip to share to salvage some of the ones that might get trashed. I like using the online editing features to give blurred or artsy or old photo styles to pics. here is a good site. http://www.befunky.com/create/#/photo-effects And when you have the picture how you like it just press the Prt Scr button up on top, open paint, press paste, crop and save how thou wilt. (that way you don't have to create an account or save on a site that may be public) I edited my profile pic that way. It's fun to be creative.

OMG! It's Mr. Morning Wood In person!!!

Wow, I am so glad you shared that. I am also very glad that you took charge and left that abusive marriage. I was in mine for over 20 years and both my daughter and I are left with lots of damage. Isn't it wonderful to find a good man?? Like you, I considered the marriage over about 3 years before I actually left. I was staying for the sake of my daughter but my ex did the PAS thing. Parent Alienation Syndrome. He had her so controlled by fear or whatever that she would no longer look at or speak to me and this was during her teen years when she needed her mom the most. NOW, 6 years later, she and I are getting that close bond back that we used to have. Anyways, during that time I was approached by a man and we eventually went on a few dates. My ex was really abusive sexually and he never looked at me during sex, rarely faced me. Rarely said my name. SO, with this other man, at age 43, I felt like a woman for the first time in my life. It was wonderful, sex was great. Unfortunately, he turned out to be emotionally and mentally abusive also. ICK! The man in my life now though is ALL good. He treats me well and encourages me and is good to me when I am down. He is handsome and sexy (even though he doesn't think so) Took me a while to believe he was really for real good. Been almost 2 years now and I just keeping feeling more in love with him. I can trust him and tell him anything but like you, I still lack confidence. I am so glad you found someone to be good to you. It is wonderful to know that happy endings exist.

Neat link, pretty cool concept

I want one! I'll have to add this to my wish list. Thank you for the yummy review

Hmmmm... already gave away RL activities in the Car Sex contest so will share a want to scenario. Needed: Handsome adventursome man -- check Quality Santa and Sexy Elf costumes Someone to get us past security after hours Where? High end department store street display window at Christmas time. There is a big life-sized sleigh and I am bent over the big bag of toys and my Santa pushes my red velvet, fur-trimmed skirt up over my waist to reveal my naked derriere. Of course I am already slick with anticipation and the excitment of this adventure and Santa is indeed up for the task at hand. He slides his perfectly rigid pole in and out of my glistening pussy as the snow falls silently under the streetlights. The hour is around midnight and if some clubbers should happen to pass, so be it. They will get a good show as Santa pumps a little faster and my hands grip the back of the sleigh a little harder as he builds to a wild and heady climax. I am there already, not able to maintain a discreet quiet I nearly shout myself as I feel Santa fill my pussy with his hot cum. In a car, on a roof, on a beach, in an elevator, anywhere! I love being my Santa's little HO.

LOL at the one paw slightly raised but am sorry this wasn't as much fun as it looked.

I recently ordered "The Pleasure Gods" vibrating penis freebie and never was able to fully wash off the new toy smell hence his name "Stinky". I like having him around though because he has a realistic feel and vibrates at the base which is nice. I suppose it is my own fault for him nearly dying. I took him in the shower for a toy 3-way and he must have gotten water in his compartment. I thought he was a goner... I was sad. BUT, I rummaged around for new batteries and TA -DA! He lives again Woo Hooo! Note to self: Stinky can no longer play in the shower.

Yes. And someone back at the beginning of this thread said rape has nothing to do with making love rape is about sex... Actually rape is not about sex either... it is about violence, power and control. My worst lover experience was with my ex husband... it was only a day or two after I had given birth and had stitches. He raped me. No means no even when you are married. I felt like I had been raped on 2 levels. Body and mind.. this was the man who was supposed to love and protect me not overpower me and rape me after I said "no, I am not healed up yet." I found out years later that it is a pattern with abusive men to level up the types of abuse with life changes, wedding, giving birth, loss of job etc... And since that is a major downer I want to tell about an anti-bad lover. We had just had a major 2 hour session, all sorts of positions, he asking what I liked and delivering, obviously getting off on what I did to him.. we wore each other out and were laying there afterwards and heard noises downstairs.. Immediately we both thought "Violent ex husband followed me" He jumped up valiantly totally naked and with a still hard cock and charged out.. stopped quick, backtracked and threw a comfortor over my nakedness.. went back naked to see what it was... He had forgotten he was going to tutor someone that evening, and the student had let himself in. It was funny, it was heroic, it was good memory to help drown out the bad ones.

an update.. The arrival of sex toys (vibrating cocks) has helped immensly in my finally getting some satisfaction. Using the tease my body just a little and making myself wait has helped also. masturbating up to 3 times a day now and not having that going crazy feeling anymore. Thanks for input everybody, really helped much. Now for a funny (though it was not funny at the time) story. I had bought an incomplete Executair vintage wet bar hard case, took out the remaining bar items and in went my new toys proud to have their very own toy box. Case slides perfect under the bed too. Well my lover is away this weekend and last night I woke needing him and he wasn't here and I remembered the case under the bed with the new cock shaped vibe that lights up, grabbed the case and went to open it but it had locked itself and I did not have the key!!! Frustration and panic assailed me at once. I sat on the bed wrangling with it. There was box banging going on but not the kind I was wanting! I pulled and tugged on that damn lock almost breaking a fingernail and no go.. I needed sex so bad, this was just MEAN!! Finally trotted off naked to the kitchen and retrieved a flat screwdriver and pried the damn thing open...GRRRR! Annoyance almost replaced the sex crave but not quite... that thing looks so fun when it lights up that I quickly got back in the mood.

I don't like having my hair pulled but I do think it is incredibly sexy when my lover buries his hands in my hair when I am kneeling and giving him oral. Just that feeling of being owned and wanted same as when he grabs my hips while he is grinding his cock into me. Love it. I do like having my ass slapped, I like the sound and it makes me squeal and giggle. I am kind of into spanking but only with my current lover. I trust him so much that anything goes and is very pleasurable.

Welcome LittleSecret (and fiance) This site is great, lot and lots of reading even when the new posts run thin. I have learned a ton since I joined just a little bit ago. Some nice people here and of course lots of juicy inspiration for making your sex life better!

I have had lots and lots of car sex. One of my experiences in my teens was a bit creepy. I was giving a blow job and happened to look up and saw a belt buckle outside the car window... it was a cop watching and getting off himself. When he realized he was spotted of course he threw on the flashlight and started acting like .. an officer of the law. My experiences recently are so much better and more sophisticated. My lover has a thing for wanting it risky and at this stage of my life, I am up for that myself. First time with him was in the car during a bad storm.. It was raining too thick to keep driving so we pulled off onto the shoulder of the road and went at it hard. While the rain pounded the roof of the car, he pounded my pussy. It was incredible! Second time, we were at a glitzy dinner party and we snuck out and did it on the hood of an expensive sports car. He laid me back onto the hood of that thing, pushed up my dress, spread my legs wide and slid his cock home for a quick but intense fuck. Next, after dinner at a jazz club we took a drive in his vintage cadillac convertible out of the city along a beautiful river road. We eventually pulled over and I gave him a blow job while he sat sideways on the drivers seat with the door hanging open. Then I ended up laying partway on the back of the car with my legs spread wide and him with his face buried in my pussy driving me crazy. Somehow we both ended up on the back of the car with him slamming into me and me hanging onto the canvas top so we wouldn't slide of the car. He joked later that he would have to get the shocks and struts replaced. It was hot, hot, sex on a beautiful autumn night. Another time in his cadillac we drove up to a lookout and he backed the car to the edge. I said "How are we going to enjoy the view now?" "You'll see" he said with one of his devilish grins. I ended up in the back seat with my stomach and arms spread over the back of that car while he did me from behind. The lights of the city glittered below off in the distance and the view was beautiful that night as he rammed his cock into my pussy over and over again, faster and faster until I was half delirious and then he finished off by sliding that dripping wet, hard cock up my ass. One of the best orgasms I have ever had. The last time we had car sex was in the extended cab of his truck. It was a spur of the moment, can't wait to get back to hotel type of thing. I had been teasing his cock while he was driving and had gotten myself pretty steamed up too so he pulled into the back corner of a parking lot with the idea that we would be slow and quiet as to not draw attention to a bouncing truck. Good intentions that didn't happen. I can't stay quiet when he fucks me and he loses control too. God, I love this man.

Yes! I love that. I like how you really put it out on the table. I don't have a problem with any of it... Thank you Stu I have not watched enough porn (yet) to really say what goes through my head.. but I certainly remember the days of reading those juicy romance novels when I was in that horrible marriage. The heroine was kicked aside and I was the one being made love to, being fucked in a way that was exciting and good.. I think that projection helped me through some pretty dark times. And now to the present with my lover, every time I see a movie or tv character that looks like him and is being sexy, gentlemanly or cool, it is him I see on the screen.. not Pierce Brosnan (sorry Pierce) etc..

TY Tyger. I appreciate your input and I knew this review was a little rough. I also felt a little out of my element as it was my first toy experience (certainly not my last!!) WOO HOO!!! More on the Bahama Mama: It was freebie, how could I pass it up? I like the smooth look of the vibe and the deep blue color. I like the different speed options. The cap was a little tricky to get it to be tight and go at the same time but I managed to make it work and this morning in the shower, no problems at all. Slides in nice and easy, love the girth and the soft jelly feel of it. The (AA) battery power is not super strong but enough to get the job done.

Yeah.. where are all the men to tell us what is going on in their heads when they watch porn? AND what about us women? What goes on in our heads when we watch porn?

Looked pretty nice when I pulled it out of the mailing box, a little wider than I expected and I was happy about that. Insertable length is about 6 inches. No plastic smell, the soft jelly made it so comfortable to play with that I didn't want to put it down. The vibration is nice and quiet on the low setting but gets a little noisy when he speeds up. To hush him I just shoved him deep into me where he felt Sooo good. The tip is shaped for sliding into pussy easily, the vibrations feel so good on the clit and the anus too. I did have a couple of nice leg shaking orgasms when he was inside my pussy. Works best to tease the lips and clit and then when you can stand it any more, plunge it right in nice and deep and then crank the speed. Easy to clean up and waterproof so you bet I'll be taking this in the shower with me in the morning...if I can wait that long. This was my first time writing a review, and the first time using a sex toy. Better late than never... I like sex toys and I want more sex toys!

Well, haven't seen too many porn movies in the past but I remember really enjoying ones where there was no degradation (ass to mouth, causing pain etc.) I got much juicier watching the ones where actors seemed to genuinely be enjoying what they were doing. Enjoying giving as well as getting. And I enjoy watching a man masturbate, sexy, and makes my mouth water.

I'm glad you shared your input, Sexy Inside. Good to hear And J, I am so glad you posted! I was seriously worried if my lover might feel a little over-taxed and that I may be too much right now and him just not wanting to say anything. There's always toys is a very good thing.. My poor man even joked once that I might sex him to death (and that was before this crazy crave thing started) but that it would be a nice way to go. I quickly reminded him that the one left behind would be devastated. So, no, I need to make sure we don't over-do when he is home. I can't check with my doctor... she doesn't even know I took myself off the anti-anxiety meds...I just knew she would want me to switch to another and not listen to me when I say, "I want to be off of them completely." And in all other ways I am feeling much better being off of it, so far anyway. I think it was a good decision to get off. I just need to weather the 3 months it takes for a drug like that one was to be completely out of my system. Toys.... tracking says Friday for my first one to arrive! and I have a fast-growing wish list here

I wonder if anyone will take the bait here and run off with this whole asshopper idea and make a story for us to read? Hmmmm... maybe a few would take the bait, or maybe many would take the bait and maybe soon we would have so many asshoppers swarming and twitching around on tt that it would rival a Biblical plague.