Members ladylove Posted May 27, 2009 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2009 In another Posting Topic asked if you were a quiet person IRL. It appears many of us are, for many different reasons. In the bedroom are you silent, or are you screaming at the top of your lung "Ride em' Cowboy", or somewhere in the middle. How expressive are you or aren't you. Feel free to comment on your SO also.I was wondering; Are quiet people quiet while having sex, or are the two non-related. Am I the norm or the exception? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted May 27, 2009 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2009 In another Posting Topic asked if you were a quiet person IRL. It appears many of us are, for many different reasons. In the bedroom are you silent, or are you screaming at the top of your lung "Ride em' Cowboy", or somewhere in the middle. How expressive are you or aren't you. Feel free to comment on your SO also.I was wondering; Are quiet people quiet while having sex, or are the two non-related. Am I the norm or the exception?Well what is your scenario, being norm or exception? I am loud IRL and I used to be quiet in the bedroom.... not so much any more! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members square Posted May 28, 2009 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2009 Quiet IRL and quiet in the sack. Most of the noise is from deep breathing.Wife, I wouldn't call loud IRL, but she is a social person, and a yakker. Sort of medium I guess I would say for in the sack. She'd probably be a little louder if there weren't the kids near by. As it is, good thing they sleep like rocks. (Bad if the house ever burnt down 'cuz they'd sleep right through a fire alarm.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted May 28, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2009 Well what is your scenario, being norm or exception? I am loud IRL and I used to be quiet in the bedroom.... not so much any more!Curious about the norms, quiet people quiet in the bedroom? loud people loud in the bedroom? or non - related?.....Quiet IRL, but very expressive in the Bedroom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members garry Posted May 28, 2009 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2009 I'm kinda quiet in the bedroom. SO can be really loud sometimes especially when we're away from the house . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted May 28, 2009 Report Share Posted May 28, 2009 i'm REALLY quiet in real life and the exact opposite in the bedroom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cowgirl Posted May 28, 2009 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2009 I’m quiet all the way around. In the bedroom there is a few moans but our house is a quiet one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sunday Posted May 28, 2009 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2009 I’m quiet all the way around. In the bedroom there is a few moans but our house is a quiet one.It depends. The sweet, loving kind of sex is an intimate, almost spiritual experience for me, so I felt kind of reverential when we were into that. I would be thinking about how wonderful it is to be touching the woman I love. How good it feels to be so close to her I'm actually inside her. I'm thinking those things so I'm probably talking about them too, but not very loud. But about half the time we had fun sex - we were fucking for the joy of it and we said all kinds of things, laughed, got silly, got serious (we had games) - both of us talked and carried on. We weren't quiet by any means but we did try to keep it down - I don't think we ever woke the neighbors but we freaked out the dog a few times - it's hard to maintain an erection when there is a Yorkie barking and running around the bedroom like a maniac. I never got into calling her dirty names though. Just couldn't do it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted May 31, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted May 31, 2009 It depends. The sweet, loving kind of sex is an intimate, almost spiritual experience for me, so I felt kind of reverential when we were into that. I would be thinking about how wonderful it is to be touching the woman I love. How good it feels to be so close to her I'm actually inside her. I'm thinking those things so I'm probably talking about them too, but not very loud. But about half the time we had fun sex - we were fucking for the joy of it and we said all kinds of things, laughed, got silly, got serious (we had games) - both of us talked and carried on. We weren't quiet by any means but we did try to keep it down - I don't think we ever woke the neighbors but we freaked out the dog a few times - it's hard to maintain an erection when there is a Yorkie barking and running around the bedroom like a maniac. I never got into calling her dirty names though. Just couldn't do it.** Yea, being called dirty names are not my things****Fun sex is usually more fun in a hotel or something like that......Freer to experiment It's all good as long as it's happening!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sunday Posted June 1, 2009 Members Report Share Posted June 1, 2009 ** Yea, being called dirty names are not my things****Fun sex is usually more fun in a hotel or something like that......Freer to experiment It's all good as long as it's happening!!!!!!!! Oh yeah!! When we traveled I usually told my secretary to get us a jacuzzi suite. Underwater sex wasn't a favorite, but the Jacuzzi, some candles, food and wine helped get us in the mood! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members admiraltolokus Posted June 1, 2009 Members Report Share Posted June 1, 2009 In another Posting Topic asked if you were a quiet person IRL. It appears many of us are, for many different reasons. In the bedroom are you silent, or are you screaming at the top of your lung "Ride em' Cowboy", or somewhere in the middle. How expressive are you or aren't you. Feel free to comment on your SO also.I was wondering; Are quiet people quiet while having sex, or are the two non-related. Am I the norm or the exception?quiet outside of the bedroom, yet loud within! (provided others arent around). lmfao last girlfriend got rather peeved that even with family in just the other room I was still rather loud... just need louder music then! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted June 1, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted June 1, 2009 Oh yeah!! When we traveled I usually told my secretary to get us a jacuzzi suite. Underwater sex wasn't a favorite, but the Jacuzzi, some candles, food and wine helped get us in the mood!Have you ever done the in room couple massages? It's a great pre or post, providing you don't do a deep tissue massage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sunday Posted June 1, 2009 Members Report Share Posted June 1, 2009 Have you ever done the in room couple massages? It's a great pre or post, providing you don't do a deep tissue massage.I've never done that. I'm usually ready to fall asleep after a massage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted June 1, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted June 1, 2009 I've never done that. I'm usually ready to fall asleep after a massage.(Relaxing yes, but you wont be falling asleep if you take a viagra before hand........)Seriously, having a massage before hand can bring about a slow erotic, in a good different way, experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sunday Posted June 1, 2009 Members Report Share Posted June 1, 2009 (Relaxing yes, but you wont be falling asleep if you take a viagra before hand........)Seriously, having a massage before hand can bring about a slow erotic, in a good different way, experience.Getting a massage from me is one of the few things that seems to get my SO thinking about sex. I like giving massages. She told me she has only had one professional massage and she didn't like it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted June 1, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted June 1, 2009 Getting a massage from me is one of the few things that seems to get my SO thinking about sex. I like giving massages. She told me she has only had one professional massage and she didn't like it.Some people just don't like being touched..... Me I love it; OR, she may have gotten to a bad massage. Maybe you have that special touch... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie junebaby Posted June 1, 2009 Newbie Report Share Posted June 1, 2009 My wife an I are quiet and always have been. Having children in the house ensured we kept it quiet. Especially since the first came 9 months and twelve days after the wedding and the sixth 17 years later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted June 1, 2009 Review Team Report Share Posted June 1, 2009 I am pretty out-going IRL and I am loud in bed. I like to tell my partner what to do, how to do it, what they are making me feel, etc. and when it gets so good I can no longer form recognizable words, then the screams start! That is the rule, there are always exceptions though, like when we are being more sensual - I not has noisy then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members littlemissnonamegirl Posted August 5, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 I have a feeling I'm going to be a noisy gal I cannot contain excitement so that means lots of noise.I will just have to crank the music. woohoo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted August 12, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted August 12, 2009 WOOOOO - WHOOOOOOO! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members thurisas Posted September 24, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 24, 2009 I'm quiet in most cases, bedroom included. I would feel silly making noises, even in front of the person I am most comfortable with.Randy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ohshelly Posted September 27, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 27, 2009 Chatty but not loud IRL. In the bedroom, I like to express my appreciation. If we are having a slow sensual session, I tend to keep it to affirming noises.If we are having fun sex, I am talking to him about how he feels in me and how I feel at the moment. I am not afraid to tell him what i want to do to him, or him to me. He is a little more reserved, but opening up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pjp Posted September 27, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 27, 2009 doesn't have to be too loud, but I love hearing her moan in my ear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ohshelly Posted September 28, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 We save the fun sex for when we have the house to ourselves;Thursday we where taking advantage and his son (22years old) arrived home. We where not aware. Son calls his sister and says there are noises coming from dads room, and he isn't in there alone...........She laughed and told him to grow up! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted September 29, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted September 29, 2009 We save the fun sex for when we have the house to ourselves;Thursday we where taking advantage and his son (22years old) arrived home. We where not aware. Son calls his sister and says there are noises coming from dads room, and he isn't in there alone...........She laughed and told him to grow up!good for you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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