Tyger

How Long Have You Been Single?

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Some people consider not being married, but in a relationship, still Single. I'm not talking about your tax filing status, I'm talking about not  being attached to anyone romantically.

The longest I've been single was 2 years, before I met my GF. Yes, I dated, but nothing to say "OMG, I'm his!".

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Single for way too long. I stopped counting, 5 years plus. I keep looking for that someone who rings my bell. I haven't found her. 

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This time, it is coming up on a year.  For the first time in my life I am totally comfortable being single.

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I'm totally tired of single life. I'm in the same boat as RC4. But my parameters have changed. She has to be Kinky and into enema play.

I've spent most of my life single. I'm about 10 years in. I never thought like Tyger said. If I'm in a relationship with someone I'm not single. Those long stretches without a lover drove me to branching out. Some of the best sex I ever had was not with a woman!

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What I meant by that statement, about some people thinking they're single, but they're actually married, because they may not have a real relationship with their spouse any longer, they're just staying together for the kids, or convenience (cheaper to keep her), or they just may not be interested in their spouse any longer.  Yes, that's actually all pretty common, and I ran into a few of them while on dating websites.

It's sad that they put themselves off as single, but they're really not. It plays with more than just "their game".

Anyway, single life is very difficult for a variety of reasons, though, after the realization that you're unattached settles in, and you've accepted it, it can be very enlightening. :)

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I get the feeling you think I don't *get it Tyger.* I DO get it. Married is married until the divorce is final. Whether you have feelings for your spouse or not. I never tied the knot with ML blood work and the fees. Just played house here and there. Now I wanna play Gynecologist and enema giver then she gives me My Enema. I could do that all day. B4 I go further afield (off topic) I'll jump out and look for an orgy to slide into. Gracia:wub:

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Once my birthday hits this month, I'll have been single for 21 killer years! I dig being single; relationships have just never come into play and that is cool with me. 

Although, I've officially decided to let my freak flag fly this year since I'd like to be sexual with something not made of jelly rubber...here's a question for the ladies here: any tips for living a more sexually casual single lifestyle? (My family would disown me if they read that...)

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12G,

Sorry! I don't think you don't get it. I was just trying to clarify myself better. I reread what I'd written, and it didn't seem as clear to me! LOL No offense intended!

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I was married for almost 30 years, but have been single and unattached for the most part of the last 7. I have had a few long term relationships, including this one that I am in that has been about 6 months that I want out of, just not sure how to break it off. any suggestions?  I would rather be alone then unhappy again.

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If you want out of a relationship, be honest with the person you are in the relationship with. Tell that person you are moving on. Have a plan to move on. Be respectful of his/her feelings. It is never easy, but if it were me I would prefer the honesty to any other thing.

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16 hours ago, RC4BLUE said:

If you want out of a relationship, be honest with the person you are in the relationship with. Tell that person you are moving on. Have a plan to move on. Be respectful of his/her feelings. It is never easy, but if it were me I would prefer the honesty to any other thing.

Agreed. From a female's perspective, I'd also suggest that you stay away from the cheezy lines like "It's not you, it's me", or "we can still be friends" type statements.

Honesty is the best policy. Just let them know that this isn't what you're looking for, and you don't want to hold each other back from finding true happiness. She may be upset at the time, but, given some time, she'll see it more as a kindness that it was done early on, instead of holding on just to be able to say that you're with someone.

I'd also suggest you do it IN PERSON. Nothing says bad form than doing this over the phone, text, e-mail, and especially right after sex (yes, that happened to me). Be considerate, but also firm, don't give false hope for her to hang on to, or lead her on by saying that maybe you could go see a movie or something every so often.

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I am the female. And I was broken up with in a text message once also. He has a psychologist degree and I feel like I am his project, and he wants to change me. When we do go out for lunch or dinner he spends most of the time entertaining the staff with magic tricks instead of talking to me. If I am texting him, every thing I say I get a reply of " I know" . It's really getting hard to even answer his messages. I'm just not sure what to say.

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I have been single for a little over 2 years now... I have never been married

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On ‎7‎/‎15‎/‎2017 at 8:22 AM, Purple Lover said:

I have been single for a little over 2 years now... I have never been married

It's coming up on 4 months 4 me. Never been married either Purple Lover.

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Back on June 11th of 2016 Piro was about to hit 21. She also mentioned "her family would disown her if" my kin is the same way. My birthday is 10 miles I mean 10 days out and I just scored a dynamite stereo and installed in my truck. I'm pretty jazzed.

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Tyger per the "sorry I don't think you don't get it" thing going on no sweatareno. We are good.

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Tyger per the "sorry I don't think you don't get it" thing going on no sweatareno. We are good.

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