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    New Blog Location

    By Mikayla1,

    Hello any and all of you who may still be looking for my blogging abilities here. I have decided to move my blog. So, if you want to read more current information regarding my sexcapades, life and anything else, please come visit me at:

    www.wickedbed.com

    See ya in my bed!
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    Happy New Year

    By Mikayla1,

    Oh wow, 2008 already! Time goes flying by! I was just reading ThorsNymph's blog, and I have to say, all should read this blog! It is fun and entertaining and erotic and so true to life. I hope that more people can start to view sex as a fun partnership that can keep getting better and better!

    This year I have high hopes (don't we every year!???) but I really do. I want to reclaim things I have lost, do things I haven't done, read more than I have ever read, and connect more than I have in the past. I know, vague, but that is the purpose. Fill in the blanks_________ for yourselves!

    Life with two children is demanding - 3 children if you include my hubby! I have high hopes for this year with my children. Life's greatest accomplishment is raising good children to be good adults.

    How will I bring sex to a new level this year? I think my sex life is great - fullfilling - fantasies are rampant, trust is there, there is no limit to what I would do for him -so how do I make it better? What can I brng to the table (or bed) that will enhance our sex life? Have to think about that one? MOre frequently? More intense? More solo time for me? For him? Hmmmm....this year will be an experimentation.

    I think that is the message for those who read these posts - sex can always get BETTER. If you have good sex, it can be better! If you ahve great sex, try to make it greater! There are always new things, techniques, combinations, sensations, toys - all just waiting to be explored!

    This year is going to be it...what it is Oprah says, "Your best Life!" Well, this year will be my best life - sex, love, children, career - I am going to make it happen!!
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    Boring Blogs

    By Mikayla1,

    Hey all of my faithful readers...you know, that one of you who checks every day to see if I have my finger out of my ass long enough to type! I just do not get over to the blog area very much, and for that I am sorry.

    Lately, I have had a LOT going on in my life. My son has been, well, interesting to say the least. He is growing up so fast. Plus, I started teaching again this semester and going to and from the university is a major PAIN in my ASS. I love teaching, but it is so emotionally draining! Oh well, we all make choices in life, and this is definitely one of mine.

    I am continuuing to work on my 2 books - but those are slooooow going as well. I just need and want to work more on them, but life is keeping me busy. Not to mention all my "dedication" to Too Timid and being the Sex Educator for the site. I LOVE this job - and I LOVE helping people - but it is more time that I can't do other things.

    Oh well, this is not supposed to be the Bitch Blog but it sure has turned into it, hasn't it. I promise, the next time I report I will have something way more interesting to say.....

    Kisses to alll
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    Keep Forgetting

    By Mikayla1,

    Hi ALL! I am sorry that I keep forgetting about this "blog" but I do so much other writing that I forget! This week in particular has been kind of trying. My son, who you may or may not know, has severe ADHD and he is having a hard time in school. I thank my lucky stars that he is healthy and seemingly happy - but some days that ADHD really takes a toll on me. He has been medicated since before he was 3 - which is a little rare, but we really had no other option.

    It sometimes makes it hard for my hubby to understand, why he acts this way or that way - but we have to be patient and at least try to understand him. I know there are a lot of other parents out there with similiar dilemmas - I just need to FIND SOME! The not knowing what to do is really the worst part. I wonder if he is happy, if he is depressed, if he knows that he is not a'normal' - it is just heartbreaking!

    Anyway, I am usually not such a downer, but this blog is more of a "real life" kind of thing, so I figure people who want to read this can see that I am a real person, with real issues and a real family.

    My other situation is the girlfriend of mine who asked me to do a lesbian encounter with her is, how shall I say, still persisting. I haven't talked to her since I told her no, but she called me last night and asked me to go out for drinks. I said "no" because my hubby and I had "plans" hee hee hee. So, she got mad at me and told me that I didn't want to be around her because I was attracted to her. I talked to her for about an hour, assuring her that wasn't it. At the end of the conversation she again asked me to "fuck" her and introduce her to lesbian sex. The poor girl, she is really confused and trying to find her way. I feel bad, but I just can't do that right now.

    I told my hubby about the proposition and he said, "if it is something you REALLY want to do, who am I to stop you?" I loved him for saying that, although I could tell he was wondering about it. Would I do it, would I want to do it. Would I go back to being with women again? I could see he was trying to be stoic and not worry about it, but he knows that I enjoyed being with women, so it is probably hard for him. He also knows that I am a woman who does what she wants - within reason - and doesn't want to force me.

    Life.....sometimes so interesting!

    I guess that is all I have to say right now...I will check in with my "followers" later!

    Mik
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    Christmas Already!

    By Mikayla1,

    Oh my word, I can not believe that the last time I posted it was HALLOWEEN!!! I am sooooo busy all of a sudden! I love Christmastime though, the baking, shopping, the gift giving - the gift RECEIVING! My hubby always spoils me beyond all reason - I get way too much from him. He almost always buys me jewelry, cooking supplies (cause I love to cook - not because "a woman's place is in the kitchen!) - a sexy something and something fun. I am very, very spoiled and I admit it!

    This year I got him some great gifts - which I won't list in case he reads this blog. I am pleased with myself. I had to shop alone though, cause if I bring my son with me, he gives the gifts away - and that is not fun.

    This week is all about baking - cookies, fudge, oreo cheesecake - I am soooo excited. I can't eat any of the treats I make - cause gosh knows I have gained enough weight lately - but you know, everyone else enjoys them.

    I am wondering where my life is going to land in 2007. I have officially dropped out of law school, and will begin teaching again in January. That works as far as I am concerned. I am sure our sex life will continue to get better and better.....it seems to be on such a positive upswing that I couldn't imagine it getting to a point where it isn't good. However, we work hard to keep our marriage and our love life good - and I think some people don't understand that - that it is supposed to take work.

    I always write in my posts about the killer sex we have - and we do - but in between that is a real life, a marriage, a child - money issues, stress, every other thing "other" people have. Why then does our sex life remain intact? I know that sex is a stress reliever, it is fun, it is something that should remain sacred between a couple. So, I make it a priority, but even I have my nights when sex is not an option.

    Lately, that has been more the norm - we still average 4-5 times a week - which is well above the national average - but I have been tired, and staying up later and getting more tired. I suppose I should take my own best advice and make more time for it! Or perhaps this is a normal wax and wean of our sex life - who knows!

    Well, I think that is all for now...I have reviews to write....

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    Halloween

    By Mikayla1,

    Well, last night my hubby and I had a Halloween party to go to - and I had a lot of fun (at the party, in the bathroom at the party and when we got home too!)

    Anyway, this year I went as a sexy kitty - which would have been sexier if I could have worn heels - but alas, no go. I had to wear my thigh high boots with a chunky heel - but it was OK. I didn't feel quite as sexy this year, as my lack of exercise has got me gaining weight - but I still feel sexy inside - so I did my best to be the sexy kitty I wanted to be!

    I got the news that I have to have surgery on my knee - again - because I was stupid and wore heels on my anniversary trip - my doctor was UNPLEASED with me, as I now have a new meniscus tear and an ACL injury - lucky me!

    I will take my surgery with a grain of salt - but the worst news is that I can't jog or run ever again. Sure, I can use an eliptical - but they don't move. I really get off on my jogging and this is a big blow to me!

    Oh well, I will find something else to do for exercise, and sex burns calories too!

    Well, for now I have to run - not literally of course - it is pumpkin carving time with my son....GOTTA LOVE THAT!!!!

    Later..
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    Wild Sex

    By Mikayla1,

    Oh yeah, my knee is feeling much better! Hubby and I had WILD sex last night. I guess he was glad I felt better! First we went to dinner -nice place. Then we were driving home and I gave him the beginnings of a great blowjob in the car! I know how distracting it can be, so I only just started. When we pulled into our garage, he hoisted me up onto the chair that is out there (bar stool), spread my legs and began to eat me out! It was wonderful! I came quickly and he said "even!"

    We went inside, paid our babysitter, checked on our son and he went to lock the door behind her. I went into the bathroom, stripped naked, washed up a bit and met him in the doorway to our bedroom buck ass naked! He pushed me (gently) onto the bed and continued where he left off - but I wanted to suck his cock again so I reached for it and got him to straddle my face! Doing a 69 is one of our favorites!

    I won't bore you all with the details but the night ended with me tied in my bed restraints and getting a good, hard spanking and FUCKING for a good 2 hours! When it was over, my knee hurt - but you know what, it was DAMN worth it!!!!


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    Better

    By Mikayla1,

    Well today is a much better day as my knee is feeling a tad better today! It has really been bumming me out, but today I woke up and could walk without pain. So, I took my doggy for a walk and just basked in the nice Chicago weather!

    It has also been a bummer for my hubby - cause although he and I are still having sex, even with the knee pain, having pain as such makes certain positions impossible. Even with me on my back if he reached to push my knees back by my head there was a real problem! It got very, very annoying this week trying to find positions that would work! I will say that oral sex was still a big GO!

    I have so much respect for people who have pain all the time - I don't know how you live with that pain day in and day out! I am such a walker, and not being able to walk SUCKED! I even gained weight in the short 2 weeks since I hurt myself! I just can't win - now I need to work it off!

    Tonight's sex will be much better...I just know it....doggystyle here I come!


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    Bummed

    By Mikayla1,

    I am so bummed! Many of you may know that I enjoy jogging as my exercise as choice. Well, since I have hurt my knee - AGAIN - I have not been able to walk let alone jog. I am bummed out about it, cause after a week, it still doesn't feel any better.

    I hate being a whiner, and normally I'm not, but this is just pissing me off! So, what do I do. Just sit and do nothing. That is SOOOO not me. UUUGgghhh!

    Well, there are other people in this world with much bigger problems than I, so I should quit complaining and just truck on in life, right?

    That is all for today, for once, I don't feel like writing!

    Mikayla
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    Errr

    By Mikayla1,

    I have GOT to start judging those entries, and let me tell you...it is going to be HARD!!!! All of the stories are good in their own way, and many of the stories are outstanding. I really am impressed with the different tactics and ways people write - it will be a hoot!

    My anniversary trip ended short, as I had a little fall and hurt my knee. Many of you do not know this, but over a year ago I got literally run down by a man at work, and I broke my ankle and twisted by kneecap. I have since had surgery on both - the ankle was in a cast for an ungodly amount of time. Anyway, I have aggravated the knee by doing something I wasn't supposed to do quite yet - wear sexy heels! Ironically enough, I hurt myself as I was about to take them off - serves me right!

    The rest of the trip was well worth it, my hubby gave me a GORGEOUS 2 carot diamond anniversary band, with triple stones and bagets and it is simply GORGEOUS - and I had also bought him a new ring as well, to replace the band he had that was getting old. I was SO surprised by the ring, and he was too. It was really a nice surprise. When we were at the restaurant, he asked me to marry him again, got down on one knee and presented the ring! I was floored!

    I presented his in a more sexy way - it is almost too intimate to reveal. Perhaps I will, at another time.

    We had a couple's massage, sat in the hot-tub, took a rain shower together - it was so romantic and nice. We enjoyed the view, the shopping, just being together. It is so nice to know that after 10 years of marriage, you know you are still with your soulmate! It is funny, cause we have had our ups and downs, but I wouldn't trade my hubby for anyone.

    Well, back early and here I am on the site. I think I have tootimid on the brain, I need a break! LOL. I am wondering about some of the entries that have been on lately. Perhaps we here (or I) am too hard sometimes and I need to lighten up. It is, after all, just a sex forum!

    Well, I think that is all for now, I have to go ice the knee!

    Mik
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    Can't Do It

    By Mikayla1,

    After thinking a lot about this friend of mine, and her request - she called again last night - I have decided that I just can't do that to my hubby. Even though it would be with a woman, it surely must still be cheating, any way I look at it.

    I should post a message on the forum to this effect. Asking if others think this is cheating as well.

    Anyway, I feel resolved that I made the decision.

    I made another decision recently, that I have not yet shared with many people. I have decided to no longer pursue law school. I have not had my heart in it for a long time, and now I feel that something else is calling me - namely writing. Writing here, writing a novel, teaching others to write - I am not sure - but the law is no longer holding my interest or my passion as it should for me to have a career in it.

    It was a HARD decision to make, as my professors and friends and family all say "what a good lawyer I would make" but I just can't do it. Oh well, our life's bliss isn't always where we think it is going to be - and sometimes life takes us in an unexpected direction. Now I have a new adventure and I am intrigued to find where it will lead!


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    10th Anniversary

    By Mikayla1,

    Today is my 10th Anniversary! Whoo hoo!

    My hubby and I are going away for the whole weekend..the whole weekend ALONE! I can NOT wait! My hubby's Mom is going to watch our son, and we are going to go and have a weekend of sex, food, sex, shopping, sex and more sex!

    I have a little suitcase FULL of toys - luckily we are driving - I have to go get batteries! I can't wait to surprise my hubby with a new outfit and some new ideas. I even packed the bedspread restraints.

    After all these years of ups and downs - it is wonderful to be married to the man I really, really love. This weekend, I am going to show him exactly HOW much I love him....

    Stay tuned for details!!!!

    Mik
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    Another Day

    By Mikayla1,

    Well all, I must admit, I had never heard of a "blog" until this, but I thought I would go and give it a shot. It seems interesting, like a way to just get out thoughts and say whatever comes to mind.

    I suppose for me, writing here could be much about anything and everything - I write so much of my life on the forum - my sex life anyway - that writing here for all to see isn't much different. Sometimes I think that my life is so humdrum, yet people seem to be fascinated by the way I spend my time and the experiences that I have.

    I have this one friend, we chat on and off, and she is totally intrigued with the idea of a lesbian encounter. I, of course, have had many in my life - before marriage. This friend of mine is wondering if I would be up to having one with her. I wonder to myself, would this be cheating? If my hubby didn't know about it, would it be cheating? I would never, ever fuck a man - but what about a woman?

    I haven't made up my mind as to whether I really want to venture back into lesbian land - but the idea of having that experience just once more seems to get into my thoughts more than it should. I have thought about just asking my hubby what he thinks, but then he might get suspicious, and I have never given him a reason to be. I just wonder....is there something that I am missing....

    just keep thinking......
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