HuntersvilleNC

True talk!

There's a difference between a girl and. woman. nuff said!

Find the dirtiest, nastiest homemade porn with regular people filming themselves. You will be surprised at how much better of a turn on you both will get after the initial fake "eww" moment. Professionally produced porn is NOT a real turn on. Regular people making porn is.

Get him two paid escorts on a trip to Vegas or Europe......he can then have his threesome and you go your way. Bringing it into your marriage is a very very bad idea if you are already insecure about it. The truth is.....if he's thinking about it let alone asking you...some way some how he's going to do it with or without you. That's the hard reality...

Everybody says they want a kinky slut for a partner.....but when they get one they don't realize at some point you have to get to know the PERSON. As Chris Rock said ...no matter how hot or freaky a woman is, there's a guy somewhere that's tired of *ucking her (and I'll argue vice versa). So while it's fun to say all these things about wanting a 24/7 kinky slutty gal, remember you WILL at some point dial out. Dialing back in is another deal entirely.

Threesomes are alot of fun. I've had many....and I'll tell you....find friends (yes, friends, NOT your primary partner.....almost always results in drama sooner or later) who are open minded and easy going. It can be alot of fun.

You have to be on the same page You have to be secure in your relationship You have to be 100% sure. Honestly, you're better off finding a FWB or going to Vegas and paying two escorts for a threesome on your own and getting it over with. Women are almost always drama when it comes to adding those kinds of sexual adventures that involve other people into your marriage / relationship. It might be fun and games right now, but if you think she's not compartmentalizing it only to rear it's ugly head one day then you're deluding yourself. My blunt two cents!

Yea I saw you on there ;-)

Not this guy...I like my women mature......once in a while I'll nail a young one but they're almost always to mentally immature for me.

Anybody with a sex drive can claim to be a nymphomaniac......it's been used at a tool to sell sex and manipulate people (especially men) for a long time.

Who is your "Tom"?

She liked it.....hehe

Would you have fun with this guy?

No cheating so no guilt! When I was married, the minute she started playing games and using sex as a tool, I divorced her ass.....that was 9 years ago. I learnt a single lesson : Never get married! I'm content with dating and having a partner I can be adventurous with, without the nonsensical expectations that comes with marriage. I remember after my divorce, many of my friends (make and female) who seemed very happy confidentially confiding in me about how they "wished" they could leave if children, money etc weren't involved. Many of them are still miserably married. not the kind of life I choose to live. If you have to cheat......it's already broken, and if you think he/she doesn't know you're living on a different planet. They're just not ready to deal with it...yet.

Here's my recommendation in the following steps; 1. Get some really good porn. Contrary to belief, professionally produced porn is crap. Find the filthiest, amateur webcam, home made stuff (example are mature stuff, bbw, regular people making filthy home porn). Basically if it requires a professional crew to shoot, don't bother. Lots of free options to find those online. 2. Watch it together while engaging in light foreplay. Maybe just wandering hands, talking about what you're watching. More importantly, don't make jokes since most people like to use humor as a coping mechanism when watching porn with their partner. 3. Since you mention a HJ...well use lubrication AND if you're feeling adventurous....finger his ass and massage his prostate. If you're even more super adventurous, put a butt plug up his ass. 4. Witness mountain erupticus happen within minutes. Only problem is, he might really like it and want it all the time.......and it might be the only way he gets off lol.

Depends......most men need to get over the whole MM thing. crossing swords doesn't make you gay.

Usually if you're on xvideos, you're likely on pornhub and/or xhamster

haha equal opportunity ;-)

Which is your preferred porn site? xhamster? xtube? pornhub? Lets go!

With the current social distancing, many people are home with family. Kids are probably home, everyone choking the network. Kids on Netflix, Dad & mom working (and surfing porn etc on the side). Do you find yourself wanting more sex with your spouse or looking for an excuse to head out for a random hookup?

Amen!!! I miss having a FWB who was a professional bodybuilder.

Only other person in North Carolina here. No NC women here at all..

I find certain word associations, smells, and even songs results in arousal. For example the name of a town in Colombia called "Bucaramanga" makes me think of large breasts on a woman. The smell of hot cocoa, or bleach makes me think of a woman's crotch (weird right?)? Any fast reggae song just makes me horny.... How about you?

Very true.....more and more people. My first swinging experience was about 15 years ago in grad school. It was my professor and her husband......today I really think 6 out of 10 people either swing or are curious about it, or have experimented with it in some way shape or form.

Visuals go a very long way. Perhaps it's the male physiology since the dick is outward......whereas women's physiology is inwards so you have to start "inside out" lol. Then again.....women like porn as much as men so you never really know. Sometimes I think gay men have more sex because you have two men with testosterone shooting through their brains.....The whole thing is like a science because arousal can take a million forms.