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I'm sorry that you're getting so frustrated. But, as mentioned, your BF probably doesn't really SEE it as a biggie. Men either idolize their mothers, or they don't. Men tolerate a lot more with their mothers, then they do in any other sort of relationship in their lives. Especially if they were/are single mothers. They have the need and want to protect and coddle their mothers. Yes, it can be annoying, however, there's nothing you can to do positively change it. The only thing I would suggest is to either gently ask him to ASK her not to talk to him like a baby, or just plain ignore it. Men don't usually want to cause their mothers any sort of pain, so they just go with the flow, ignore the silliness, and really don't see a huge issue with it. She may be grasping where her youngest is not so little or "young" anymore, and that she may be feeling like she is being replaced. Yes, you've been together for a long time, and she is seeing that. He was 15 when you got together! How many 15 yr olds are still with the same person? Girlfriends usually come and go, mothers are forever. She is seeing you as a bigger part of her son's life. You are "taking her little boy away" a bit more. Of course you will never replace his MOTHER. That is a different relationship. She may be hungering for a bit of mother-son time, which I would encourage just the 2 of them to have, and also to encourage the 2 of you to have ALONE adult time too. Unfortunately, my father's adopted mother treated him like a child, minus the baby talk, until the day she died (my father was about 48 when she passed). He was the oldest of 2. He respected that she had been sheltered and that her boys were reallly all she had for a long time.

Glad to hear that it went relatively well. Hope everything is still good! Even if it doesn't happen again, at least you can say you've tried it!

Welcome welcome! Glad you found us and am looking forward to upcoming posts!!!

Everyone has a place that Mainstreamers would consider just plain inappropriate to have sex. So, where have you done the Nasty that people go too? For me, it'd be in a Catholic Church's meeting/storage room. There were plush chairs, a platform, altar, and other stuff set up there like a small meeting area, plus other religious items placed around and also stored in there too. We did it on the velvet couch that was almost in the middle of the room.

You have the rubber ducky vibe that they sell here on TT, a lipstick vibe, which I believe they also sell here, but not sure. The Cone doesn't LOOK like a sex toy at all. It could probably get away with looking like an Art Deco type item.

Mikayla is right, it is an acquired skill, not something that's learned. You've acquired the skill with practice, and yes, you should be proud of yourself. Now, your man is upset that you haven't proven this to him. It almost sounds like you're more afraid if disappointing him than anything. And he's thinking "so, if you can do that, prove it!". If that's the case, be honest with him. I'm sure if you let him know (which will probably stroke his, um, ego.....) that you've never deep throated a man as generously "gifted" as he, so you are a bit nervous taking his large soldier on. But, also let him know that you're willing to try, and do so. Slowly ease into it, just like you did when you were learning how to deep throat initially. Many women are probably envious of your ability! I know I am. I was able to deep throat a few lovers. However, my DH is also generously "gifted" down there, and, I do have a rather touchy gag-reflex, which I have yet (even after 6 yrs) to get past. But he doesn't mind me practicing either! Good luck!

We actually had a heated debate about this a while ago. This is a refreshing, different way to pose that very question though. I believe I am a more "modern-day" thinker. Or at least I hope I am. I don't see a HUGE deal about being a virgin on your wedding night. I think that this belief is archaic at best. It's my honest opinion, that, if at all possible, you should experience and learn a bit about sex, and have a couple of lovers before committing yourself FULLY to one person, for the rest of your life. I'm not saying go ball the football team, or anything, but, careful choosing and sharing (always using protection), and having a careful selection of lovers is a good way to experience what you do and don't like. It is something that I never regretted. I DO believe, however, that, when you loose your virginity (whether male or female), that it should be with someone that you care about, are friends with, and trust them. That's a big thing, and you will remember that experience for the rest of your life, so it should be as positive as possible. The man I chose to loose my virginity with, I'd known for a while, and I trusted him enough to know that he would stop if I wanted him to do so. I never regretted my choice. I was also a lot more mature than a lot of 16 yr olds that I knew. I knew it was going to happen, and I was prepared emotionally and physically to do IT. It wasn't the most romantic thing that's ever happened, but, again, I was a realist, and knew that there'd be pain, I was clueless what to do, and that I wasn't going to KNOW everything that I should do. Obviously, in a perfect world, that can't always happen. Whether, again, it be violent, and accidental ripping, or whatever the case may be, those should NOT make a woman feel like a failure for not being able or "careful" enough to hold onto their virginity. Although PHYSICALLY, a woman may no longer have her "cherry", I believe that when a woman has consentual sex for the first time, then that should be when she is considered no longer a virgin. I guess for me, it's more of an emotional thing, than physical. I respect other people's religions and beliefs. If they choose to wait, that's there right to do. This is just my opinion, such as it is.

It's really hard to tell what that could be. If you don't go from anal to vaginal, I'm assuming that you do go from vaginal to anal. You may have a slight yeast infection in your vagina, that, I assume, though I am not a medical professional, to your anus. You could've also slightly torn something up inside the anus, and not known it. Now it's healing. You know how some cuts itch really bad while healing? Same idea. I wouldn't get an Rx for something that *might be*, since, if it's not, all you'd be doing is building up an immunity to that medicine, making it harder for your body to use it to work to get rid of something the next time you have it. If it was me, I'd wait a couple of days, getting something like Preperation H, to see if that gets rid of the itching. Hemroids itch like CRAZY!! You may have a slight case of those, and may not even be aware of it. Having kids, pushing too hard when having a bowel movement can cause hemroids. My best guess would say that you probably have them. Again, I'm not a doctor, so I can't say for sure. Try the hemroidal cream, before getting an Rx. Better still, consult your doctor first.

I love the consistency of new products being added almost every single month! I think it's great!!

Maybe a bee....like you wanna pollenate their flower, or a dirty old man, with a dollar taped on his "penis", for a woman to "blow some cash".

A young Chinese couple gets married. She's a virgin. Truth be told, he is a virgin too, but she doesn't know that. On their wedding night, she cowers naked under the sheets as her husband undresses in the darkness. He climbs into bed next to her and tries to be reassuring. "My darring," He whispers, "I know dis your firss time and you berry frighten. I promise you, I give you anyting you want, I do anyting - juss anyting you want. You juss ask... so... whatchu want?" he says, trying to sound experienced And worldly, which he hopes will impress her. A thoughtful silence follows and he waits patiently (and eagerly) for her request. She eventually shyly whispers back, "I want to try someting I have heard about from other girls... Numbaa 69." More thoughtful silence, this time from him. Eventually, in a puzzled tone he asks her... "You want...Garlic Chicken with steam vegable?"

I hope you love it as much as we do!

If this was a first for her, then, a lot of the time, the first few times are more about getting use to the idea and feelings of something *up there*. It also depends on the size of the toy/item put up there. Always remember to use lots and lots of lube. My hubby is the perfect example of someone being "oh, ok, I'll try it...but I probably won't like it" kinda person. Now, he LOVES it! He really wants me to find more toys for him now!!

Let's face it, we're human. Making mistakes is ONE huge things we ALL have in common! I'm not wanting to focus on the negative, this question is to see who's made what mistakes, if you've learned from it, and avoided repeating it, if possible. You may be able to help others going thru the same things! So, please, post ONE mistake you've made in either your current relationship, or past relationships. One of my mistakes that I made with my ex husband, is that I allowed him to fool me. Even with all of the signs, and "inklings" I had, I trusted what he was telling me. I wanted too. He was my HS sweetie. I thought *I* would be the one he'd never lie too! But, he did. I allowed it to happen, against my better judgements. I don't necassarily regret our overall relationship, just my ignorance. What I have learned is to really LISTEN to that little inner voice, that is sometimes not so little, and not hide from it. If I *think* something is wrong, then I address it, after I think about what it is, and how to handle it. If it's bothering me, then it's an issue that needs to be addressed.

I just LOOOOOVE glass toys too! Great to hear that this is another winner! Who makes this one? Isn't it funny how things can get translatted funny. Hence the saying "lost in the translation". I've hear a lot of bilingual people tell others that what they're saying wouldn't sound right in English.

OMG!! Too funny!

You can also get those really pretty gift wine bags that you give with a bottle of wine. A lot are made of cloth, and come in several prints. Liquor stores will have them. They're a great size, and people will remain clueless about your personals!

A nun, badly needing to use the restroom, walked into a local Hooters restaurant. The place was hopping with music and loud conversation and every once in a while the lights would turn off. Each time the lights would go out, the place would erupt into cheers. However, when the revelers saw the nun, the room went dead silent. She walked up to bartender, and asked, "May I please use the restroom?" The bartender replied, "OK, but I should warn you that there is a statue of a naked man in there wearing only a fig leaf." "Well, in that case I'll just look the other way," said the nun. So, the bartender showed the nun to the back of the restaurant, and she proceeded to the restroom. After a few minutes, she came back out, and the whole place stopped just long enough to give the nun a loud round of applause. She went to the bartender and said, "Sir, I don't understand... " Why did they applaud for me just because I went to the restroom?" "Well, now they know you're one of us," said the bartender. "But, I still don't understand," said the puzzled nun. "You see," laughed the bartender, "every time the leaf on the statue is lifted up, the lights go out."

Or a gal that can squirt...... A LOT!

New Rules: New Rule : Stop giving me that pop-up ad for classmates.com! There's a reason you don't talk to people for 25 years. Because you don't particularly like them!? Besides, I already know what the captain of the basketball team is doing these days--mowing my lawn. New Rule : Don't eat anything that's served to you out a window unless you're a seagull. People are acting all shocked that a human finger was found in a bowl of Wendy's chili. Hey, it cost less than a dollar. What did you expect it to contain?? Trout? New Rule : Stop saying that teenage boys who have sex with their hot, blonde teachers are permanently damaged. I have a better description for these kids: lucky bastards. New Rule : If you need to shave and you still collect baseball cards, you're a dope. If you're a kid, the cards are keepsakes of your idols. If you're a grown man, they're pictures of men. New Rule : Ladies, leave your eyebrows alone. Here's how much men care about your eyebrows: do you have two of them? Okay, we're done. New Rule : There's no such thing as flavored water. There's a whole aisle of this crap at the supermarket, water, but without that watery taste. Sorry, but flavored water is called a soft drink. You want flavored water? Pour some scotch over ice and let it melt. That's your flavored water. New Rule : Stop screwing with old people. Target is introducing a redesigned pill bottle that's square, with a bigger label. And the top is now the bottom. And by the time grandpa figures out how to open it, his ass will be in the morgue. Congratulations, Target, you just solved the Social Security crisis. New Rule : The more complicated the Starbucks order, the bigger the asshole. If you walk into a Starbucks and order a "decaf grande half- soy, half-low fat, iced vanilla, double-shot, gingerbread cappuccino, extra dry, light ice, with one sweet-n'-Low, and one NutraSweet," ooh, you're a huge asshole. New Rule : I'm not the cashier! By the time I look up from sliding my card, entering my PIN number, pressing "Enter," verifying the amount, deciding no, I don't want cash back, and pressing "Enter" again, the kid who is supposed to be ringing me up is standing there eating my Almond Joy. New Rule : Just because your tattoo has Chinese characters in it doesn't make you spiritual. It's right above the crack of your ass. And it translates to "beef with broccoli." The last time you did anything spiritual, you were praying to God you weren't pregnant. You're not spiritual. You're just high. New Rule : Competitive eating isn't a sport. It's one of the seven deadly sins. ESPN recently televised the U.S. Open of Competitive Eating, because watching those athletes at the poker table was just too damned exciting. What's next, competitive farting??? Oh wait!? They're already doing that--It's called "The Howard Stern Show." New Rule : I don't need a bigger mega M&Ms. If I'm extra hungry for M&Ms, I'll go nuts and eat two. New Rule : If you're going to insist on making movies based on crappy, old television shows, then you have to give everyone in the Cineplex a remote so we can see what's playing on the other show.

Welcome! We love fresh....um.....meat! LOL Just kidding.....hope to see you on the board!

As far as what I've gone thru, I've been on both sides, SUB & DOM, but extremely light, IMO. I've been bitten, bite, tied up, gagged with a sash, blindfolded (and sometimes all at the same time). I've had my lover lay completely still, and didn't "allow" him to move at all, then tell him what he was allowed to do. If he went too far, he got "punished" lightly (left to squirm or tortured some more orally). I've been "forced" to do a few things. No safe words, since, there is NO question when I want to either not do something or I want whatever is happening to stop. I would consider myself a lightweight.

:lol:Yes Thurisas (see, spelled it right this time ), you have said that before, and it's worth repeating. A lot of "online drug companies" are really hard to regulate online. So, you may think you're getting what the FDA has approved for dosage, when you're not. It may be a much higher dose than the FDA allows. Also, it's hard to know whether or not that the meds your getting are the ACTUAL meds. It's kinda similar to the whole toothpaste scare that happened not too long ago, some lowere ranged retail store was getting a particular brand of toothpaste (Colgate, I think), but the kind they were getting was made in either China or Japan, something like that. It was making kids sick cuz of some ingredient that was higher than what the FDA allows here in the U.S. So, if you're getting some medications online, and are wondering or kinda nervous, I would suggest going to your doctor, see if (s)he has samples, or, if not, if they know of a reputable online source.