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I would say that if he voluntarily goes down on you, then he likes it. Most men don't mind, and some truly love the scent of a woman's excitement. You could ask him, either while he's down there, huskily "You like the way I smell baby?" or even when you're just sitting on the couch, relaxing, having some casual conversation. Men that don't like the taste and/or smell tend to avoid doing any oral lovin' in some way or another. Personally, if it's all good, and you don't "really want to know", or fear the answer, just go with it, enjoy it, and have fun.

Geez.....only 5??? Well, let's see.... My first one is the clit stimulator on the bullet that came with my Infinite Pleasures kit. That thing rocks!!! Second is the Doc Johnson Classic 8" dong Third is my Blue Swirl Glass dildo Fourth is my Japanese Tiger vibe And fifth is my newest addition, the Wild Thing vibe. That was really really hard!!!!

Well, first, let me start by welcoming you, and letting you know that you're not alone. Many people experience ruts, but this seems more than a rut. This is plain selfishness on your husband's part. I will second that you start by reading some of the previous posts, because this really is a well covered subject. It sounds as if you've tried to entice him to go for more, to no avail. And having enjoyable sex is a 2-eay street. If only one partner is really trying, the one that is trying gets left behind, and the other reaps all the benifits, but offers nothing in return. How fair is this?? Is your husband a lot older than you, or the same age? There are many things to consider, and, although you've given a lot of facts, it's really hard without a bit more specifics. I hate to go throwing out suggestions if they may be way off base, or somethig that's already been tried. Specifics like, how good was your sex life before? Did his view of you change after the baby? Has he always been sexually distant? Has he ever cheated/been cheated on? What is his REAL reason for not liking oral~have you asked him, or just accepted his answer? Have you ever sat him down, away from the bedroom, for a constructive sexual discussion? Have either of you discussed fantasies? Have his feelings changed? Does he have any medical issues? Also, there is one slight "scold" I will offer up. NEVER fake an orgasm. If he's not doing it for you, make him do more. Don't make him feel good, if he's not reciprocating! Yes, yes, I use to fake orgasms. But, once I discovered that I was doing myself and my partner an injustice by doing so, and plus I was missing out. I am now a fairly selfish lover. Yes, I love to please, but I also love to be pleased. And, you know what? There's nothing wrong with that at all!! If, for example, he "gets tired after 30 seconds of oral play" from you. Do the same to him. Or, if he's not doing oral for you, don't do for him. He may or may not get the point. Not only is he being selfish, but he is disrespecting you as his wife. Try and answer my questions, and we may be better able to help.

It's great to see another new "face"! Welcome and have fun reading and happy posting!!

Spooning is a great position while pregnant. Also, having him sitting up, but not leaning OVER you, while you're on your back, is nice too.

Thank you all so much! Smooches & hugs!!

Here comes the Naughty Rabbit Vibe, buzzing down my way. I am becoming a huge fan of rabbit toys. They’re so versatile, and after using a few, you really get to know why the rabbit form is used for sex toys. They WORK! Plus they’re just plain cute! Also, a great idea for a beginner, for who can be intimidated by a rabbit? This cute little blue bunny comes with it’s own 3 little batteries, a bullet, and a rabbit sleeve. Washing it off, putting the rabbit sleeve over the bullet, and putting the batteries in, were all a breeze. The easy to press button at the end of the bullet gave me 7 vibe patterns with surprising strength with those 3 little batteries. Impressive. I love strong vibes and was eager to try this rabbit out. And, did I mention, it’s WATERPROOF? You just have to love that in a toy! Playing with the settings, this little critter was able to tease, tickle, and wiggle his way into my heart, as well as my orgasms. My rabbit felt great rubbing my outer lips, nipples, and teasing me all over. The short ears provide GREAT clit stimulation. And, since the ears are so short, and not to hard or too soft, they fit right against my clit nicely. I love the direct and strong stimulation, and this rabbit wasn’t hibernating when it came to that! I loved the pulsating setting, as well as the highest steady vibe too. Good Rabbit! I rubbed the vibe all around my clit, and the vibes were so strong, that I was able to build up to a wonderfully strong orgasm in a relatively short amount of time. I almost caught my leg going like Thumper’s when I put the ears on my clit! Wow, I was impressed all the way around. This bunny can be put in your purse, used with your partner, solo, and it won’t get in the way. It’s also cute, quiet, easy, and fun to use! Get Naughty With this Rabbit

With Luc Wylder directing once again, here come 6 more girls joining the Amateur Angels ranks, as some famous porn stars help break them into the business a bit more. Stars like Evan Stone, who was wonderfully attentive and seductive, as always. As well as Kurt Lockwood, and Billy Glide, to name a couple more. Most of the girls on this video have done several videos before going to Amateur Angels, but they still seem a bit on the nervous side. The only true Amateur, was Betty Sue, who was perky, cute, and pretty relaxed, in her first scene ever. She did a great masturbation scene. The director even had to cop a feel at Betty Sue’s beautiful, yet small, breasts as she got down and dirty with a dildo in a bathroom. To be fair, I’m not a huge fan of the Amateur Angels series. Maybe because I am more of a “just get down and dirty” kind of gal, and I like to see action, and less talk. I also like larger chests, and plots, no matter how loosely they may be followed. Amateur Angels is known for their mini interviews at the beginning of each scene, introducing each up and cumming starlet, where they’re from, their experiences, how many films they’ve done, what was the dirtiest thing they had done, and so on. Plus, most of the girls are either small chested, or boyishly flat. Not my cup of tea. I want a lot less talk and a lot more action! The sex scenes were decent, but kind of stiff. But the last scene made me go “what?” It started out as a possible girl on girl. The director even asking the girls how they practiced safe sex, and both were insistent that they did so. However, the director made it sound like that if they had a guy pull out, that was great safe sex practices, and the girls were all for that. I found that very misleading. Then, it turns out, we’re going to have a 3-some with a male porn star. OK, even better. But, the 3-some wasn’t overly equal, leaving one girl to play with herself while looking a bit on the bored side for a long time. All the while, the other girl and man were going at it like rabbits, but with NO condoms. To me, it was hypocritical, and disappointing. Watch these Angels

Well, I'm use to using my hands. I don't have any harness toys (yet). Years ago, however, I did have one, called a Golden Butterfly, or something like that. It was a gold color, and came in a black box, with a blonde on the cover (it has the same packaging today too), and I didn't like it at all.

Hell, I'm female, and only 34, and I fantasize about having sex with a 20-something guy every so often. So, I would hazard a guess that that is pretty normal.

Welcome and I hope you have fun reading & posting!

AUSTRALIAN COURT DOCKET #12659, CASE OF THE PREGNANT LADY A lady about 8 months pregnant got on a bus. She noticed the man opposite her was smiling at her. She immediately moved to another seat. This time, the smile turned into a grin, so she moved again. The man seemed more amused. When on the fourth move, the man burst out laughing, she complained to the driver, and he had the man arrested. The case came up in court: The judge asked the man (about 20 years old) what he had to say for himself. The man replied, "Well, Your Honor, it was like this. When the lady got on the bus, I couldn't help but notice her condition. She sat down under a sign that said, 'The Double Mint Twins are coming' and I grinned. Then she moved and sat under a sign that said, 'Logan's Liniment will >reduce the swelling,' and I had to smile." "Then, she placed herself under a deodorant sign that said, 'William's Big Stick Did the Trick,' and I could hardly contain myself. BUT, Your Honor, when she moved the fourth time and sat under a sign that said, 'Goodyear Rubber could have prevented this accident,' . . . I just lost it!" "CASE DISMISSED!!"

The first thing I thought of when I took this toy out of the box is the song, Wild Thing, picturing Charlie Sheen on the mound with this big grin on his face. Even now, the song is stuck in my head. Then I really looked at this “back to basics with an update” vibe. The basic shape & color of the vibe is exactly like my very first vibrator I ever had! The difference, of course, is the nubbies at the end. We all know I like da nubbies! I was excited to try this baby out. Hubby’s away, so it’s time for solo-luvin’. I washed it off, patted it dry, then dug thru my dwindling battery inventory for the 2 C batteries needed to operate this vibe. Inside the vibe, is a cardboard “sleeve” indicating which way the batteries go, and says it helps insulate noise. Well, after pushing the batteries in, which was snug, I twisted the dial a bit, and was amazed at the strong vibes even on the lowest setting! Turning the dial up, the vibes got mega-strong! Just the way I like it (uh huh, uh huh). However, the cardboard sleeve did nothing to help the noise level. This baby is very loud, no matter what. But, oh, soooo worth it!! I used the lowest setting to tease my nipples a bit, working my way down, I turn the vibes up, ever so slightly. Teasing my lips a bit, I started to warm up, my clit started throbbing in anticipation. I finally let my clit have some attention, and wow!! Was it happy to have the vibes & the nubbies. Hungering for more, I turned up the dial, started rubbing the nubbies a bit harder on my clit, and almost shot right out of bed!! I came so hard and fast, it startled me! And that doesn’t happen often for me! Wanting more adventure, I slowly eased in the vibe inside with ease. The smoothness of the vibe, and the fact that I was soaking wet, felt awesome. The strong vibes and the full feeling I love were spectacular as well! Tipping the vibe up just a bit, I was able to get my g-spot easily, the nubbies, and the firmness of the vibe really made me panting and soaking my sheets in no time! This is a definite 5 paws WAY up for this vibe in my book! Basic, easy to use, fun, and not intimidating at all, this will sure to please most anyone! Wild Thing!! You make my body sing!! You make everything soooo tingly!! Wild Thing! Do you wanna do the Wild Thing?

What a great idea!! Seeing everyone's favorite toys to help people really get an idea what's out there and really works, besides our reviews, of course!!

I had to open this post out of sheer curiousity with the heading!! WTG CGM! Luckily, when I was introduced to anal sex, for the very first time, years ago, the man suggesting it, had me go get a beginner's butt plug. He gave me the $$, and told me to go to an adult toy shop, and look specifically for an anal toy for beginners. He wanted me to go alone so I could choose what I would like, without any pressure from him. I thought that was pretty cool. Even though that guy could be a bit on the selfish side a lot of the time, he was a real good teacher when it came to first time anything, sexually. I too, suggest something small going up there first, instead of a man's penis. Slowly easing into anal is the best way to get yourself or your partner ready for a possible penis, or larger toy up there.

I'm panting just reading about it!!!

If I'm remembering correctly, I believe (though I could be wrong) that it twists apart in the middle for battery insertion? Try unscrewing the "middle" of the vibe to open it. I believe its similar to the Rock It, so try that. Hopefully, that works. I know this wasn't part of your original question, but I'm sure many people are unsure of some vibe inner-workings, so.... with some vibes, keep in mind, that when you actually figure out how to open them (some of them can be quite tricky to even get open!), there may be a clear piece of plastic over one of the contacts of the battery compartment. Be sure that you really check inside to see of there is any, and gently removing it, if it's present. Please DON'T feel stupid! Some of the adult toys out there can be a biatch to open, and then some don't even have battery directions labelled, so it's a guessing game. The only way you know you got it is by the rewarding BUZZZZZZZZZZZZ! Plus, most don't even COME with directions for any of that, so it's a "go figure it out for yourself" kinda thing. There have been a few that have baffled the best of us, so, don't worry! Good luck, and let us know how you got it open.

Thank you darlin'!! Same to you!! I hope everyone has a great Mother's Day, and Mommies are shown appreciation & pampered beyond belief!!

Well, I was helping out a friend with a drive in liquor store, and was getting paid to help out. So was my roommate/FWB, and we did it there, a few times even, behind the coolers, on top of a chest freezer, or even standing up. The floors were cement, so that was out of the question. We did get interupted a few times by drive ups, but, we were able to continue after they left. It was very exciting. Plus, there was a beeper for when people drove thru the doorway, so we heard them, and were quick enough to be able to almost pull ourselves together. The one on shift, would go to the window. I just "helped" out when he was working, here and there. As far as any other place of work, like professional, no, I didn't, just because I valued my paycheck. Plus, I could tease and tease, have fun, and just wait til I got home.

I will be sure to tell some of my friends up there in Maine! Maybe sometime I will be up that way again, visiting friends and family, and stop by! Congrats on the new store!!!

I guess that's better than that Frontline Plus commercial (and having fleas LMAO), with the puppy singing "There ain't no bugs on me. There ain't no bugs on me. There might be bugs on some of you mugs, but there ain't no bugs on me!"

Great reply from one of America's finest!! AND a MAN!! It was very thoughtful of you to put your wife's health first, even in your, um, state? I bet the waiting made the first time after, that much more awesome too!

I respectfully disagree with Howard to a degree on the abuse statement. It's hard to get over any sort of physical and mental abuse. And, being forced to do something you don't/didn't want to do. That can leave lasting mental scars that are hard to overcome. I've been there too, and I understand that completely. It's a hurdle to overcome. Whether you do it alone, or talking to someone, a friend, priest, doctor, or counselor, is up to you. Coming to terms with what happened, accepting it, and trying very hard to move on takes a while, and self-esteem. Plus, understanding that you are in control of your body (of course, unless it's rape). If you don't want to do something, it's OK to say "NO", and MEAN it. Howard is right though, your current BF is NOT your past BF. Your ex is an ex for a reason. Thank goodness you're out of that relationship from your past. Unfortunately, sometimes you can't help put your bad experiences in your head, even when you KNOW that he's not the one that did it. If you haven't told your current BF about your issues, and WHY, then it's time you do so. If he does know, he should be comforting you and helping you thru as much as he can. As far as the original question, alcohol can DEFINITELY affect a man's erection. Alcohol slows reflexes, and that's one of them. I would suggest a healthy dinner before, and no alcohol, the next time you get together. Lots of foreplay, and have fun!

Most women need clit stimulation to get off. You may not be hitting it right. Or, you may not be one of the women that get off that way. For me, I found that I needed a strong vibration on my clit to get off, and WHAM-O!! *WOOT* I REALLY get off with a combo of either my hubby inside of me, or a big dildo/vibrator, for that full feeling, AND my clit having some extra attention! Pocket rockets are great, as are bullets that have clit ticklers on them. Plus they can be used on other parts as well. Just type in Clit stimulators on the Product Search box, and find a bunch of stuff. Keywords are a wonderful thing!!

Is this item waterproof, and quiet? It's definitely an interesting looking toy. Were the vibes really strong? I loved the domestic comment!! Very cute!! I hope you've at least put a dog run out now!!