now my ex wants to watch it while we are doing it, and he will go limp on and up and is on the remote fast forwarding or rewinding it, which is a real mood killer for me. now its getting to the point where he has to have porn on every time we have sex ok is this question re:you and current boy friend or ex what i would do is tell him how you feel and express your concerns, does he know that you feel this way and if so what is his reaction when you bring to the subject up