I think that you are doing the best you can. I also understand your SOs point of few, being that I am on numerous medications for BP and a heart condition, along with Thyroid disorder. It is hard for us to accept the fact that we need medication to help us. to be honest though like you said, it isnt effecting your sex life but the way he feels I felt the same way when the doctor told me I needed to take medication for my Bp and numerous other things. There are lots of different BP medications out there. I agree with all the other posters, and I am glad to hear that if the DR says he needs to stay on his medication that he is going to. Tell him I said, "His health is more important!!!" Take care Best wishes!!