Well I know I have talked to Tyger, along with Whiskeywomen in depth about this. I am leaving Thursday night to MO, for my daughter to meet her real father's side of the family. Her father commited suicide when she was 2 months old, recently she started asking alot of questions about him and certain things came up. I made contact with them after 11yrs and needless to say her grandmother on that side is still a heartless,mean person. She kidnapped my daughter when she was 2months my daughter is aware of this etc. I have also been in touch with her uncles and aunt on her fathers side. This whole situation makes me sick, the things we do for our children. A little back round her father was a very abusive man, his family was into drugs etc. His mother was a horrible person not only to him but others as well. Since my daughter keeps being persistant I have decided to drive to MO and meet her aunt there along with her older sister who she has never met. I am returning Monday sometime. My husband is concearned for safety issues but also relizes that this may be not only what my daughter needs, but a way for me to close that chapter in my life and deal with it instead of stuffing it for all these years. We will be going tot he cemetary to, which of course I have not been to since the day of the funeral. I am scared and extremely nervous, without knowing what they will actually do. I am praying for the best and for a safe drive I am going to drive straight threw since this needs to be a quick trip. Keep us in your prayers and thoughts I think I am gonna need all the positive energy I can get. I am sure my husband will post alot while I am gone and I know that you all will keep him smiling. The things sometimes we do for our children. Even after her biological grandmother on that side left a horrible message to her she still doesnt seem to believe the way that family is so off we go .