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I found another site that had sex quizzes, these a little more "tongue in cheek." I took one entitled "What will the porno of your life be called?" and it was The porno of Claudia's life will be called ... "10 Things you always wanted to do with a vibrator" Yep, sounds about right. Here's the link: http://www.quizuniverse.com/main.php

OK, there was a post about a C&W song about trashy women, which brings up something else I was wondering about. I am sure I am not the only one that gets turned on listening to some music. Right now it is "Your Man" by Josh Turner. The lyrics of the song are beautiful, sensuous, and that deep bass voice of his....I get so turned on listening to that song. My husband teases me because I play it so often, but doesn't understand how it can affect me like it does. And is there no spell check on these posts? I had to open up Microsoft Word to get the correct spelling of sensuous!

I have gotten two different sets from TooTimid. Again, I hope the link comes through OK for them, as once before I was told my link in a reply didn't work. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4507 Duotone Orgasm Balls This set has better vibrations, not sure why, maybe the ball inside the ball is a different size. However, they are hard plastic, and I found myself working harder to keep them in (more work with the PC muscles). That is best in the long run for me, but even though the vibrations were harder, in the long run I felt less stimulated. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=5044 RealSkin Softy Balls The texture of the skin on the balls allows them to stay in better. I work less hard and enjoy them more. I am not sure four balls of that size would be comfortable, at least for me. The double ones I have are 1.5" in diameter, and the four balls are 1.25" in diameter, so there is not that much difference in the diameter.

Why only one guy doll? Doesn't quite seem fair! These defiitely aren't the inflatable dolls you normally see!

Fun test. I was at 54%. Thanks for sharing!

It has already been suggested you read the posts on oral sex. And the part under Sex Education, too. This site is so informative. There was also a posting recently on laughing during sex. Some feel it is just an uncontrolable response to an enjoyable situation, so don't take it bad.

I have a similar pair: http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4734 (I hope the link comes through. I've been told before my link didn't come through, so maybe someon can explain what I am doing wrong, as this works in regular e-mail). I agree with what you say. I love them, wear them two or three times a week as I go about my daily routine. I don't orgasm with them, although close a couple times, but it does keep me more horny than usual and works the PC muscles. Once I am a little more comfortable wearing them I plan to try my regular workout with them, and then on to belly-dance class, too. And Howard, I also agree with what you say about the tight jeans. Especially when I am driving over some of the rough and bumpy roads in my town (one of the complaints against the city). One last thing, I do Kegels regularly, I have since I was first told about them by a nurse-practioner when I was pregnant with my daughter (who is now 28). One way to remember to do them is set a trigger, something that may happen often, to do your Kegels. One of my triggers is a red light. As I am sitting at a red light I do my Kegels. Another thing is if you are sitting watching TV, pick a commercial that is on a lot--you know sometimes you see the same commercial three times in one show. Every time that commercial comes on, you do your Kegels.

I will be anxious to see what Howard, et al, have to say on this one, but IMHO, he is being very selfish. You should talk with him, in a setting outside the bedroom and let him know how you feel. And you can also say "no" if he continues being so selfish.

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I have never withheld sex, but sometimes after a fight, the emotional need for closeness is not there--you just want time to cool down and get over the fight. HOWEVER, make up sex can be fantastic, especially if you are both truly sorry.

I just thought of something else I did once for my husband. I made him a "coupon book" that he could redeem--blow job, massage, strip tease, etc. He really enjoyed that. TooTimid has one (http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=4676), but making him one would be much more personal, and that way you can add new things to your bedroom that you might be shy about bringing up--that way you'll know if it is something he wants to try.

Hello, Nicole. I remember those days when hubby is coming back from being gone on military duty. I always said the reunions were one of the things that kept our marriage going for nearly 31 years! It's much different now with e-mail and less expensive phone calls. In our day, it took 10 days to get a letter, and we could only afford about one phone call a month. One thing I would recommend is something really sexy to wear once you get home (nightgown, teddy, garter belt, whatever). That does more than excite him--to me it always makes me feel really sexy, too. Also, wear a dress or skirt when you go to pick him up, and no panties--and let him KNOW as soon as you can you are not wearing any panties! Even when I would go pick my husband up from work and do this, I'd usually end up getting fingered most of the way home. Many answers are good, especially Howard's. Just don't be shy. Especially if he wants you to take charge. He may be asking for just what bondagejunkie recommended. Or he may just want you to start making the first moves. My husband always loves when I make the first moves. Whatever you decide, just make sure that you let him know he is your HERO and you are PROUD of him.

I read those already, didn't help me any with the size. I was hoping someone had bought them and could tell me the size. Thanks for your reply--I'll keep checking back.

How large are these Ben Wa balls? I have the Futurotic Natural Feel Weighted Pleasure Balls which are great, but want something smaller to work those muscles, as well as providing pleasure. However, my husband bought me a pair of Ben Wa balls that were too small--at least right now. I'm working on it with Kegles. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3305

I've been trying to come up with an answer, and really don't have one. For years I used a massager for clitorial stimulation, just recently getting into all the fun toys. But like I said, I look for things that I have fantasized about. Because I have used a massager for so long, I need one that is powerful. I had bought one toy with a bullet that can be inserted, found out how much fun a bullet could be alone, too, but probably would have not bought one individually. Now I'm getting ready to order one that Mikalya (I believe) recommended was really strong. If this makes sense, I pick my toys with the "tingle factor." When I read the description, does it make me "tingle?"

I have been reading through some of the old posts while I've had some free time--we are getting inundated with rain, the gym is closed, and no belly-dancing class tonight due to Labor Day. It may be coincidental, but I started taking Chinese Dong Quai Root for problems with my period due to menopause. Due to a thyroid problem, I try to avoid soy products. The Don Quai almost immediately stopped the problems with my period, and has regulated the other menopausal symptoms--no hot flashes, no dryness, etc. About a month after I started taking it, my sex drive started increasing and now it is through the roof. As I said, it might be coincidental, but with the other benefits from it, I'm not going to stop taking it!

To answer your questins (from a beginner's point of view), I have not seen any other site as professional and educational as TooTimid. But then, after searching through four or five websites before hitting on TooTimid, I haven't looked any more. When my husband and I decided to bring some toys into our bedroom and I started looking online, some of the sites were not helpful. Then there was one site that I started an order on, but had to stop to do something, can't remember what, and before I could get back to finish the order they were CALLING ME to see if I needed assistance!!!! That made me feel a little violated, and I did not finish the order, and a couple sites later came to TooTimid. A lot of things have gone into the decisions I have made about the toys, although I have to say the biggest decision is what may meet some of the fantasies I've had. I purchased a dual action and the Clitoral Pump based on that. Both have been great! I try to go by the reviews as well, and I also have to look at price, and must admit some of the toys I want are a little out of my current price range, but there is always anniversaries, Christmas and birthdays, and I've let my husband know which ones I'm interested in. Haven't purchased any of the glass dildoes. I'm still buying items that vibrate!

Your reviews are most helpful. I have just recently started my toy collection--before that always used a hand held massager--and have appreciated the insight.

I was just looking over the new goodies for September, and have been wondering about the clitoral stimulators that strap on, such as this month's Erotic Butterfly Vibrator (http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=5045). I am overweight (but working on it--down two-three dress sizes already) and was wondering how far the straps adjust. Can anyone give me an idea? Thanks in advance!