The teddy is a great suggestion for you to become more comfortable. Maybe even try a lil cami with crotchless panties. However, the sooner you realize he's in to YOU and that you need to concentrate on the nature of the event (the big O) you'll have a much better time Don't get caught up in your body position. And as far as moving your hips, that comes with practice! Good luck! Let us know how it works out! Ginger