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I'm pretty sure I could bend my shaft that way, but I don't want to break my wife's neck. Randy

I probably would but just for the experience. The problem is that nude beaches are just like the old spandex addage, just because you CAN go there doesn't mean you SHOULD. Would you ever stop and watch if you happened upon a couple in a secluded area "entertaining" themselves?

I know I'm on the average size and am most assuredly a grower but then, I've always relied more on my tongue and fingers than my penis anyway. After all, the tongue and fingers are ever so much more diverse. Randy.

Been there, done that. It was with an acquaintance in another state and wasn't anything like I thought it would be as there was no real emotional connection. I prefer my wife. Would you ever make your own personal cheesey role-play porn video?

Before my wife I would never have thought of this question. She convinced me to shave and I keep myself bare down there and she does as well. There is absolultely nothing like the sound of our skin slapping together when things get exciting and no feeling like skin on skin when you're being slow and sensual. Randy.

I think you need to know outright that you are not the selfish one. I don't know your entire story as there are two sides and yours is only half but taking what you've written at face value I would have to say your husband is the selfish one and hasn't got a real understanding as to what it is he has in you. I get a feeling in reading your post that your husband is enjoying the control you allow him to have. You seem to bend over backwards to make sure his needs are served. Marriage is a two way street and needs to have compromise. Sex is not a gift, it is a connection, and whether it is a one night stand or the ten thousandth time you've done it in a marriage every time it is surrenduring much of what you are to another whether person you are male or female. Face it, with sex you're putting it all out there. Randy.

The best way would be just to let her know you're interested. Communication outside of the bedroom for interests in the bedroom is always preferable because it keeps the pressure of the bedroom away from the discussion. In my case I just did it one day while I was continuing to get her off just one or two more times after my own orgasm. She was surprised and pleased at my action and we talked about it after it was done. Randy.

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Welcome to this little corner of the net. Randy.

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My wife and I actually had a time in our lives when we were a roommate relationship. We hadn't had sex in a very long time, we'd pretty well started doing our own things and not really including the other in the doing. It took a conscious decision to try to make things work out. Marriage doesn't work on auto-pilot. Ruts will form and one will end up in a relationship that is not exciting and as such becomes emotionally stunted. In our case it took a near ending of our relationship, a lot of communication, and a little bit of compromise on both our parts. I answered other because I don't think that 'death til you part' is an option if both parties aren't interested in the marriage, I don't think 'fulfilling needs outside the relationship' is an option because you're just expanding on the lie that your relationship is okay and is and abject betrayal of trust, and leaving would be the only other viable choice if my own life hadn't presented another option. Randy.

Welcome to the group. Randy.

Vacation!!! Whoop!!

My wife is hugely multi-orgasmic. In fact, she will go through several before I'm usually ready to climax myself and there have been several times that I've had to finish myself off due to her exhaustion. I find that the more foreplay we have the hotter and hotter I will get to the point that it almost seems that I could explode before we even hit the point of penetration. The trick is to have the foreplay without him bringing you to orgasm over and over again that ultimately exhausts you. You need to tease the holy ol' heck out of him and bring him near to climax several times before you let him do the same for you apparently so that he is primed and ready to go. Another thing you can do is talk to him. Chances are he's learned all there is to know about getting himself off and he will know what will work for him. Sometimes a simple adjustment of angle and friction can take someone with a lot of staying power and turn them into the awkward cumming at a stiff wind teenager he once was. You need to talk and find out what he likes though or expiriment and watch his reactions to see where he's really getting into what you're doing. Randy.

The only silly or stupid question is the one that goes unasked. That being said, it sounds like this is the area where many women will find their G-spot. Basically if you are curving your fingers into yourself and are thus feeling the inner wall of the front of your vaginal walls you are working around that spot. This is the spot where some women will feel like they have to pee when it is stimulated properly and will eventually squirt. There are articles here on the G-spot and many a topic that exists around it. Take a look at some of those and see if it sounds familiar. Randy

Welcome to our friendly little community. Randy

Nope, she's already more than I can handle. Would you ever participate in a threesome if asked for it by your SO?

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Yes I am. Very tired but too early for bed. TPBM is looking for a toy that renders the opposite sex obsolete.

No need. Would you ever pick someone up for a one night stand?

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Oh hell yes!! Will it make you hot if your SO nuzzled your neck gently?