ToyQueen

I agree with Thurisas. I think there can be a propensity to cheat. I have had several counselors tell me that if it happens more than once, there is a pattern, and the cheater will cheat again. But once doesn't always mean forever.

My favorite is also the TooTimid pleasure gel!

I thought about this for a while. I had no plans to respond because I have never had anal sex, but I have to make a comment. A rectal exam is done with the doctor's finger or fingers. A colonoscopy is done with a small scope. They are totally different. If your doctor said no anal sex, I would either go with no penetration, or I would question him further. He knows what kind of repair was done. He should know the extent of the damage done when you tore.

I have found that using Coochy Spray after shaving, and once or twice a day, really helps keep the irritation to a minimum.

Excellent job!

WOW!!!

I have the Hustler "Real Man" Cyberskin Dildo. At 2 1/2 inches in diameter, it's good size for me. It is 7 inches long.

Welcome! We look forward to hearing from you.

I do not have a partner per se, but the only man I have been intimate with lately knows that I am on here. We talk about the things I read. It makes for some interesting IM conversations!!

I am wondering if she has been in an abusive relationship, or was molested at some point. This could affect her self esteem, self image, and her sex drive. The point that really made me think of this was when you said she is refusing to allow you to look at her pussy, and doesn't want oral sex. HUGE red flags in my book.

Oh, my gosh, Tyger. The visual... LMAO!!!

Squirting is a female ejaculation, usually from g-spot stimulation. Mikayla has written a wonderful article on this. Look under the sex education tab on the top of the page. There have also been numerous threads posted here in the forum. Maybe a search would work. Or just go through old posts. Good luck!!!

Several other questions come to mind here. Is her religious upbringing a factor in her lack of interest in sex? Was she molested or abused when she was younger? Could she still be afraid of getting pregnant even though she is on the pill? One thing that comes to my mind when you say that rubbing her clit hurts. The clitoris is sensitive tissue. Some women like a firmer hand, but some prefer a very light touch. Just a couple of thoughts...

Good for you, Vix! I am so jealous. I'm still working on that. Keep up the good work.

Okay, I see this in a different light. I grew up in a very religious home. Sex was NEVER talked about. I was told once that anal and oral sex were immoral. I HATED giving my first husband a blow job. He told me I wasn't good at it. I couldn't get past this thought that I would go to hell by doing this with my husband. I didn't like receiving oral sex either. There were a few times that things just evolved. Once he was giving me a backrub. Suddenly we were in a 69, and it was incredible! But if he pushed me to suck his cock, I kind of froze. He had to fight me to give me oral most of the time. Anyway, my point is this. Don't push her. Don't give ultimatums. Let things happen naturally. Talk to her about it, but don't make her feel bad if this is not something she is comfortable with. It could take time for her to do this. I think if you all enjoy 69s, go for it. Things change. I recently had an incredible encounter with my best friend. Let me just tell you that I loved sucking his cock, and he says that I am very talented at it. What a change from the man I married so many years ago. Please be patient with your wife, and let things evolve. Do what you are both comfortable with.

Welcome, Babe. I hope you can enjoy the time you spend here. By the way, I had a coworker who was named Bunny. So Babe isn't that bad.

If you use cornstarch on your Cyberskin toys rather than talc, there shouldn't be a problem.

Way cute, Meg! I LOVE it!!!

Good one Tyger!!!!!

My best guy friend and I have talked about the whole bald pussy thing at length. His comment to me was, " I’m not sure what it is about it; probably something totally sick about being with a “virginal” partner, but shaved pubic areas drive me wild." Now, I know him well enough to know that he is NOT into molesting young girls. I don't think it's an issue if you know that he isn't interested in young girls, but IS impressed with your efforts.

Mikayla has written some really interesting articles about positions. Some of them have illustrations along with a description of how to get into whatever position is of interest to you. To get to the sex education articles, go to the top of the page. Second tab from the left is sex ed. Just scroll down to whatever article you may find interesting. Good luck!!

It takes 2 C-cell batteries. I LOVE this toy! It is my favorite toy to use for clit stim while I use a glass dildo for insertion. SO much fun!!!!!

Excellent idea!!!!!

Good one Tyger! Thanks for the funny!

For me it was horrible. The pain was intense, and I hemorrhaged afterwards. I actually ended up in the hospital for a D & C.