Chris4u

They sell dildos with the suction cup at the base...however these are not electric, or at least I've never seen any that were. That way you can do as Kate suggested and stick it on the washing mashine, no glue or adhesives required.

Those are some really kind words Kate. I may be the type your heart seeks. Perhaps you'll have to visit me one day to find out. From your replys to various others, I gather that you and I are very similar. By the way Kate, that pic of you bending over...there should be a disclaimer on the bottom saying "Do Not Operate Heavy Machinery While Viewing." Wow! Well it always warms me to hear others reply with such positive thoughts towards my expressions. I love this site, for it offers so many to ask questions they might otherwise not express so freely, but instead with greater hesitation. For that reason I think it's only proper to extend the same compassion in my replies.

Very nice Kate In some ways less and more revealing than your first pic

Your hormones are just going outa wack. Get a girlfriend and you'll be okay. Until you do, just go and look at free porn and masturbate to it. Just keep those thoughts suppressed and keep your family intact.

As for me, I keep my crouch trimmed, not shaved. If I wanted to look like I didn't hit puberty then I'd shave it all off to baby smoothness, but for now I'll keep it cut low. As for girls, I like it either way, but too hairy is a bit of a problem. I had one pussy with long hair and it tickled my nose. However, and I found that it depends on the ethnicity or even hair color, that short hair can be kind of course, not smooth and graceful like stroking your girlfriends head. I prefer her with it shaved, but a patch above is more sexy to me that being completely bare.

Well if he's young and not too experienced then that's a huge factor. However if he's been active for a long long time, then he's just very sensitive and you can buy him some prolonging cream/gel or desensitizing ones too. I never tried them because they don't condition you to control and prolong sex yourself. If your in the middle of penetration and he feels the climax feeling coming up then slow down, way down. He should limit the trusts, just go slowly until it goes away or most of the way and continue on. What I used to do was that and/or pull out and do oral until the feeling passed. As long as you don't stop the sexual acts, because you want him to please you and not ruin the moment by taking a break. After time he'll last longer and longer, you'll see. For fast results, use the products, but they wont give him the experience to hold off in future sex acts. They just delay that.

Yah hot-pants-kate, I'd never stick my tongue up there. Rimming, yes, but definetly not tongue penetration. Rimming is safe since you can see if it's clean. With anal sex, I pull out and see faint residue of feces and that turns my sexual drive off somewhat. I have to pull the condom off with my eyes closed and toss it away, refraining from looking. Your bad experience was probably due to a bunch of the factors listed in my last post. If you gain the nerve to try it again, just make sure you have those 4 basic things checked-off. I didn't write it in the last post, but thickness of the penis is a factor. If he's thick, like me, you have to condition your girlfriends anus. The Julie Ashton's anal kit that you can buy I believe off tootimid.com is what I'd recommend. I'm sure there are girls out there that even with such preparation still wouldn't find anal to be their thing. It's not mine. I do it with my gf once in a while to keep things diverse and interesting. The cleanliness factor is what keeps me away, because as hard as you try, they're always be a tiny bit left in there. If you douche, which I strongly don't recommend, then you can be spotless. But like I said, refrain from douching, unless you do it once in a long while.

People have many ways of explaining virginity. If you break the hymen during sex, then obviously you've lost it. However, some go with anal sex all the way up to marriage, because they think it doesn't count. My definition is that once you engage in "sexual activities" your no longer a virgin. I classify virgins as those who haven't experimented in sexual acts. Otherwise you could say bjs, 69, anal, muff diving are not part of sex. So many girls do anal because they want a "white wedding" since they think since their hymen's intact or no penis has broken it, they're virgins and virtuous in the eyes of God. That's to relieve their concience after performing erotic acts. I don't know if your religious and how strongly you hold the faith, but if your very religious then you may want to wait till marriage. Otherwise start with vaginal, please. Vaginal can be a little discomforting at first, for some girls. Anal can be disasterous if your partner is inexperienced or has no idea what he's doing and if your not mentally prepared. Anal isn't something you just dive into, especially if your both pretty green. If you choose anal then: 1. have him use a condom (for his sake and yours to a degree) 2. use plenty of lube...prep. not only his penis, but also your anus with it 3. don't start off with doggy...this is a popular position you see in pornos, but they're experienced and you aren't Try spoons first, because your more relaxed (doggy your muscles are contracting) 4. Relax! That's about it...good luck and make him go in slow. Some have a bad first experience and are traumatized afterward.

The rock-hardeness I think goes away with experience. I rarely get as hard as I did back in my early days of high school. In those days my cock would get so hard you could use it as an ice pick. Sometimes it would want to elongate farther than it could and would cause mild pain, as it felt my skin was splitting. The bad thing about such cocks inside a girl is that it doesn't provide us guys with much flexibility. In that event, doggy was the best way to go. I can only get that hard if it's been a while and I'm horny as hell. Even then it's a challenge, but I don't like getting that hard anyway. Of course it would hurt to bend it if it's that hard.

If your hit there often, then yes, you could build up scar tissue that could cause your erectile arteries to clog and cause you to be flacid for good. I'm studying to be a doctor, so my advice to you is not to get hit there OFTEN. If that's unavoidable then get a bigger cup and add some insulation inside to lessen the blows. If not, maybe in a few years it may be impossible to get a hard-on. However, I doubt your in any trouble if you get hit there once in a while.

I have to agree with all the resoponses up to this point. I've considered myself to be a promiscuous in the past, but I'd never go with a girl who was either engaged or married. It just wasn't fair to her and the one she was cheating on, especially the cheated one. I'm not engaged, but have actually been comitted to my girlfriend now for about 5 months (that's the longest I've ever been in one). I don't know what I'd do if I found out she was seeing another guy on the side...but I know a girl who was seeing a married guy and it wasn't a happy ending. At one time my dad had a fling with another woman, who had recently divorced. He tried to keep it a secret and I don't know if my mom knew, but my relationship with my dad isn't what it used to be at all. I feel that this guy wont leave his wife and child. If he had no child, the chances may have been greater, but to abandon his child would make him out to be a greater pathetic jerk than he already is. He wants you to get this procedure so he wont have to worry about explaining to his wife that he's the father of another child. For him to ask you to do this is awefully selfish on his part too. Oh, and if you suspect he's seeing other girls, then why do you think he'll stay faithful to you if he leaves his family. I think you should leave him...do it over the phone if you think he'll physically hurt you. The fact that he gave the impression that he'd rape you shows his true nature. Your just a toy for him, nothing more. Not only because he's a terrible husband and father, but that your selfishness might cause him to leave them. He has a wife and KID! He has a responsibility to that child. Every kid wants a dad to play ball with them and take them on family vacations. Why do you want to ruin that for the child. A divorce is hard on the kid for the first years, I grew up with 3 friends whose parents divorced before they were 8 years old. Then everytime that kid comes over for his weekends with his dear-old-dad he/she wont even be able to look at you, because you sabatoged their childhood happiness. Just rid yourself of these selfish plans for a future for just the two of you and leave him. Don't you watch tv or movies...your character is more dispised than the cheating husband. My sympathy goes out to his kid. It's horrible that he has such a father.

There's a site, I cannot remember it off the top of my head, but it shouldn't be hard to find. It's all about the penis (length, girth, curves, etc.) and the statistics of all these features. To my surprize, the majority of guys don't have an erection that doesn't curve in some direction. Some bend downward, upward, to the left or right.

change your diet perhaps...cum reflects what you eat

I know when I was first experimenting with sex I would come once and only once. The second would either be a blank or very very little. It all depends how much the body produces and how much is stored for the first ejaculation. Sounds like he was like me, had it all for the first shot but no others. It will go away with experience.

I've wanted to, but always back away at the last moment. What does it taste like...well does it taste like the natural lube guys produce or does it taste bad? I don't know why, maybe it's the look of it that makes me queezy when attempting to lick it.

I always prefer sexy over hot. Some people thing that the two are one and the same or closely related. I've been with totally red hot girls and they can be just plain boring and self-centered. The term hot can be used in so many ways, but for this forums sake I'm going to keep it to physical appearance. You see, I think you can be sexy and move to the level of hot. It's all about body language, and sexy girls know how to use this to drive the guys crazy. I've found at times that an above average and even an average looking girl can transform themselves, in my eyes, to one of the hottest girls in the room, just from the pouring of raw sexuality. Hot can't compete with sexy, only if the girl has both.

Public sex for me was fun, yet scary at times (due to the getting caught factor). The first time was when I lost my virginity. That was at the school dance, in the courtyard, by a fountain. Other times ranged from an elevator, a ferris wheel, in a pool (but that was at night), while driving, on the beach, in the ocean and several others. Funny thing is that they all were with the same girl. She was the wild, adventerous type, willing to take risks and the thought of being caught made it even more enjoyable. Public sex can be real great, but places like the elevator and ferris wheel were too stressful for me. I think the best public sex I've had was in a row boat. The sunburn I got from it was not very pleasant though.

You'll never know how you compare to his old girlfriends. The only way to know if he really likes it is to read his body language and facial expressions. Your new at it, so you may need more practice. Be creative, don't just go in and out. Glide your tongue on it's sides, suck his balls, lick with the tip of your tongue the spot where the penis meets the scrotum...the more things you do, the more you can be assured he's really liking it.

I like it as long as it's not the dominant form of conversation during sex. Actually, I just like it when it's right for the moment(s). Once my girlfriend tried it for almost the entire session, and quite frankly it was the least enjoyable sex I've had, including when I lost my virginity (and that's when I was really young and had no real idea on how to perform).

I think some are just born with that, some must gain it (took me almost 2 years), and some will never get it. Most guys I know can't hold an erection right after cuming. That's probably due to a great lose of sexual drive.

You kind of answered your question, partially. I can think of several reasons why you have a problem, of course they may all be wrong or some may hold true. I wanted to say lack of experience right off the bat, but you've been married for a year, so you may get it often enough. Your attitidue towards sex may be holding you back. It seems that perhaps you find sex to be a burden you perform for your husband and not yourself, for you have established in the back of your mind that he cannot make you climax. With this lingering in your mind, you hold yourself back from allowing your body to feel such pleasures and thus have a poor sex life. This is all purely speculation, I'm not saying you are definetly a victim of these, but it's possible. Perhaps you need foreplay, infact if you don't already, then I strongly recommend it. Some suggestions: 1. postitive attitude (this will make you feel better and your husband will sense it and may feel better about himself) 2. foreplay 3. watch a porno with each other, see what feelings take over you 4. experiment with many positions, not just the basics 5. oral before and afterward (if needed or so desired) Some girls need more or different techniques to climax. You'll get there sooner or later, just be patient and once you do experience it I think you'll have a much easier path towards it in future bedroom encounters.

Well it has some kind of an Oedipus complex to it, but I read somewhere that there are many brothers and sisters who have lost their virginities this way. Obviously they were very close and curious sexually. I read it a few years ago and don't remember the site, but I'm sure you could google sites dealing with this. I don't know how it may effect your relationship and even if your sister is up to it. I wont say that it is right or wrong to persue her for sex. If BOTH of you wont have regrets or harm your close relationship, then go with it. I know it sounds really strange to people there are those out there with such thoughts. Most would view this to be repulsive. There are so many realms towards sex out there that this just adds to them. It's not for all, but for some... Find out what she thinks about it and go from there.

The story has an almost Oedipus complex to it. Your young and your hormones are going out of wack. I was there and still am to a degree. I don't have a sister, but I read somewhere that it isn't as uncommon as one might think that brothers and sisters loose their virginities to each other. I'm not saying this a 1 in 1000 ratio, but guys and girls have written about. I can't remember where I read it, it was a long time ago. This is of course if their age difference is very small, which it is in your case, and that they are very close. These were virgins, though. I don't know if you are. They were sexually curious and didn't have anyone or at least anyone they felt comfortable loosing it to. I'm not going to say that you should or shouldn't try it. Hey, decades ago threesomes were viewed badly, but now they're common. Maybe it'll make your relationship with each other all the more stronger. It may not, but I don't think it'll hurt it either for too long. It's a mutual agreement with each other, so if it goes badly, then there isn't one of you who is soley to blame. You must find out if she's up to it. Don't do it if it will have repercussions on your relationship and if you may have any doubts or future regrets.

69 has to be one of my favorite positions and rimming contributes to that fact. At first I was nervous about performing it, for the thought of bad taste, odor, becoming infected crossed my mind. I'll never perform it if it hasn't been washed. I don't know how many guys have been rimmed, but the pleasure is indescribable. I don't know, but I think due to porn on tv and the internet, couples perceive that the girl is the only receiver of such treatment and never the guy. If couples can get past this perception, then the guys can understand why their partners love it so much.

Well it all depends on whether he thought that night was a stand. A guy giving his number doesn't mean he wants to see you again for something other than sex. I've had far too many one nighters and the exchange of numbers never was meant to imply that I'd or she'd like to meet up for drinks or coffee. It's an easier means of getting sex, instead of going to bars or using internet sites. I think he gave you his number because he enjoyed the sex so much that he wouldn't mind getting back together for seconds. Either that or he can't get sex easily or often and you look as easy action. I could be wrong though...maybe it could be that he really likes you. Take it from me, a semi-retired one-nighter who has had well over 40-50 stands, he isn't looking for a relationship with you. There's less than a 1% chance that he does. I know it sounds kind of aweful, but those nights are for no-stings-attached sex. You can call him and see if he's into the dating thing, but I don't want you to have false hopes. I know this wasn't the answer you probably wanted to hear, but it's best you take it so you aren't harmed later on.