I am sorry but I see a red flag here. I think you are very new in this relationship, if I am reading it right, and if that is so it's already headed the wrong way. no pun intended. This guy sounds to me to either be very selfish or untrained in the art of "love making". Please, no I did say sex, thats something you get from a pick up or a prostitute. There is a difference in sex and "lovemaking" and some men don't understand that difference. You must talk to him and explain your needs and desire, guide him, show him, teach him what pleases you. Some men JUST SIMPLY DONT KNOW HOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Talk, explain, instuct, teach and love. I want to warn you though if he is the selfish type of a guy this WILL ONLY GET WORSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He will not get better he will continue to be only concerned about himself and his needs!!!!!!!! Time, love, training, pleading, or begging will NOT change him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!