triedntru

"5) ADD. While I don't think I have real ADD, my mind does bounce around a bunch and sometimes I lose focus" I'm so glad I'm not the only one with that problem. I feel bad cause like at the bar the other night. I was dancing and all of a sudden realized my mind was somewhere out in la la land...lol. Makes for a poor first impression...lol

lol, that works

So, off all the ladies/guys around here. What are your criteria that must be met before you start seriously dating someone. Mine is 1. Career (or steady good job) 2. Have his own car and insurance 3. Lives in his own house (buying or renting) can have roomate, but not living with family 4. Drinks responsibly 5. NOT A MANIPULATOR

Can't make up it's mind here. Cold, then warm, then cold again....and all in a day!!! LOL

So, as everyone knows I'm going through a divorce. But now I'm pissed off to high hell. I was supposed to go to work today...you know, where I earn my money... But my daughter couldn't go to grandma's cause she has the flu and I"m not exposing my 84 y/o grandmother to the flu! So I asked my STBX if he could crash here and watch kids so I can work. I may not like him much now, but normally he is ok with the kids. So he said yes (bear in mind, he has no home cause he got kicked out of his brothers...long story). Now, I have to be up at 4-430 to get ready, when I got up, he wasn't here yet, so I called, he finally shows up with alcohol on his breath. Ummm NOOO!!! So when I asked if he could get my daughter her medicine at 630 he said no. We're talking tylenol here to keep her fever at least somewhat down. Now, Is it too much to ask that you come back at a decent time WITHOUT alcohol on the breath to take care of your kids?!?! I'm sorry it's so long, I"m just so pissed off!!! Then he has the balls to ask me if it's a bad time for a booty call yet? WTF!!!!! Sorry, I'm just extremely pissed off. I'll quit ranting for now. Thanks for listening TNT

I absolutely loved it!!!

So, anyone who has read, knows pretty much what is going on in my life at the moment. Well, now I'm wondering if my STBX(soon to be X) is having an affair (cyber). And the worst part is, is that she is REALLY young. He informed me last night, right before I was going to sleep that he now has his self-respect back and that I have been treating him like shit for our relationship!! HELLOOOO!!! WTF!! We have been married almost 10 years and he decides this NOW! The reason I say I think he's cheating, is cause the timing is too wierd. Like, this all comes out of nowhere, and he can't make up his mind of the reason. I think he's just trying to alleviate his feelings of guilt. I acknowledge the fact that I am a self-centered person, (although I try not to be). He told my 6y/o daughter that I won't buy or give him money to eat!!!! That pissed me off. But, okay, whatever he feels. Right?! I'm bout to tell him to not wait on a payday for him, get the fuck out now!! This is too stressful him being here. All he's doing is drinking as soon as the kids go to bed and talking on the phone to his "friend". She used to be our friend even though she's young, she is mature. I think he's talking to her because she takes his side and noone that really knows me and the situation will take his side cause HELLOOOO!!! you don't work and have the nerve to tell me I treat you like shit when all I ask is that you keep the house picked up?!?!?! And occasionally have something for the kids to eat!! Oh no!! I'm asking too much now!!. Sorry so long, I'm just really irritated and pissed about the whole deal. I will move on I promise. Any advice or should I just keep doing what I'm doing and ignore his outbursts. TNT

LOL, that's great!!!

It sounds similar to stress headache except for the intensity. Does Ibuprofen or tylenol work or do you have to go get a shot (similar to migraines). I'd definitely find a doctor if nothing else, you will have one. After you see one, you can always go to medline.com(I think right address) and get more info on what the diagnosis was. Good luck, TNT

That's not something to "accidentally" do. If you do that, and she is unable to, she won't trust you not to "accidentally" do it again. Then, consequently, she won't give you as many blowjobs. Just a thought. Sounds like ya'll are really happy, congrats and welcome to site. TNT

I'm not sure if this will come out the way I mean for it to, but here it goes. What would you say to your daughter if she came up to you with this exact problem? I say that because we all want the best for our kids, but we are willing to settle for being treated second best. Just a thought, TNT

I'm so laid back, I don't think I really have any OCD things...unless you count my deal for pens...LOL. My hubby however is the one with severe OCD He can't eat after anyone (including me and kids) He counts his steps on any surface and they have to be in sets of 3. He has to have laundry done a certain way (which is good since I hate laundry) Everything has to be in 3's or something to do with it. The poor guy has the bad end of the bargain, cause I'll screw with him (only if he's ok that day) Like, if he's picking on me, I'll lick him if he has me pinned down...lol. Or, I'll offer him a bite (but only if he's seen me take a bite, I won't let him actually eat after me) See, I'm mean, but he knows I love him. I do tell him if something is fixing to happen that will set him off though...so I'm not all mean...lol

That is absolutely AWESOME!!! CONGRATS!!! TNT

My son is not cut due to the fact that I found it medically unnecessary. I realize some people say cutting it helps prevent certain kinds of infection and cancer, however, as long as you keep it clean, there should never be an issue with that. TNT

Cat...the other white meat. Hubby wants that one cause he's severly allergic...lol

OK OK OK!!! LOL! I'm one of the people that annoy you by going out in my pajamas. Now, I'm not talking all the time, I DO have clothes...that I even wear occasionally...LOL. But I will go to the convenience store after taking the kids or whatnot. Now, I'm all with you on people not taking care of their kids behavior. That drives me batty! What irritates me more than anything is when a friend comes over, and doesn't even watch their kids. Umm, excuse me, but my kids are old enough, that my house isn't babyproofed anymore, therefore, when you bring your kids over...WATCH IT YOURSELF!!! I'M NOT YOUR DAMN BABYSITTER!!! Ok, much better...lol.

Gee, guess if the word mouth is in it, that makes it porn!!! LOL!! That was great!! You definitely have some talent!!!

Honey, I know you've seen alot of GREAT information!! Let me tell you something ( may have been said before in the other posts) You are WONDERFUL!! You have some VERY BAD things happen, but you are a WONDERFUL woman!! You have a child who idolizes you because you are mama! Most importantly you are a Child of God! He doesn't want this for you. Please get out of there and get couseling. You are loved!

Most definitely!!! I had sworn off getting romantic when I ran into my now SO. We were both young, and he was a "player". I knew this very well and decided that I wasn't going to get involved with him except as a friend. Fast forward 10 yrs and now we have 2 kids and are best friends, lovers and husband/wife.

I would oh so love to see an attorney take the case probono and nail thier ass to the wall!!! That is crap. I'm with you Pappy, WTF!!! I don't know about you, but I have better things to do with my time then stand there and water my grass every day, I wouldn't have done it as a point. Oh well!!!

My dad had his guns out and was cleaning them when my first boyfriend (that I let dad meet anyway) came over. Now, my dad had my son his gun (which he bought when he was born) and is getting my daughter a pink gun. Let someone mess with my babies....LOL. Plus, I have my own that he is holding for me just till I get a safe for it.

One other thought that I haven't seen (or may have missed). Have you talked to your doctor about this, or ever been diagnosed with depression. Dealing with depression myself, I can see how you feel an inability to make a decision or do something on your own. However, you may need to look into getting on something for it. Sometimes, that will help clear your head and you realize that it IS able to be done (leaving him or at least making a decision.

Very effective advertising...won't be forgetting that one soon...lol