Darth Jesus

Relationships

Hi...Welcome. I love women. I dont care for men in that way, but if I need help moving furniture they are very handy to have around.

Passion

Mmmm...I do enjoy having everything done. I like your style ladies... Looking forward to meeting you all.

It's really hard to say what could be affecting him. My opinion is based on pure speculation, but I think it could be one out of two things. First, it could be that somewhere along the way he might've had a really bad experience with oral sex and now he relates oral with that particular moment in his life. Second, it could also be that he grew up in a super religious household and there could some unconcious guilt causing the lack of satisfaction. Either way I think that the best thing to do would be to flat out ask him. Assuming that you're comfortable enough in the relationship to do so. But like someone else said he may simply just not enjoy it.

I'm married to a Massachusetts gal and boy does she know how it's done...Mama mia!!

Legs

Oil

Hehehe...perverted minds think a like. Just curious...Is this something you and your wife have thought about before? Hmmm...That's a really good question. I think that it can only add to the excitement to have the other couple cheering us on with some sexy dirty talk and vice versa. But if they chose to be silent that would be fine with me too. It's all good... My wife just said to me that she really likes the idea of hearing dirty talk from the other couple...(Maybe there is a chance after all)...LOL

I certainly understand your statement, but I do believe that SOME people can change. Of course I do think that folks who are serial cheaters and constantly do it, have a harder road ahead of them because it becomes a routine of daily life. But I myself I'm an example of someone who cheated on his wife and instead of making me into a serial cheater it has completely changed my attitude towards my wife and ever since I have been faithful. I love her now more than I ever have. It's very strange to say, but in many ways it has reinforced the love that I have for her and it's made me appreciate her so much more than I used to. Believe me I don't take anything for granted anymore. But I do understand that my circumstances might be very different from those experienced by the other folks on the forum. However, it's not an easy thing at all to try and repair your marriage after it's happened and you've come clean to your spouse about everything...that's when the hard work begins. It took many months of discussions and being embarrassingly honest with my wife before she started to feel any better at all. I believe that's why a lot of marriages don't last after cheating has occurred. Because not many people are willing to put in the hard work and perseverance to make it work. And in many cases the trust can never be rebuilt. For those of you who are married and have been contemplating sex outside of your marriage, my advice is don't do it. Even an online relationship with someone outside your marriage can be very damaging. The pain and suffering that comes after is not worth the little amount of pleasure you get out of it. If the issue is that you are not happy in your marriage, then the best thing to do would be to sit down and discuss it with your SO. Maybe go to therapy together or whatever it is that you feel would help improve your relationship. But trust me that the one and only real regret that I have in my life is ever stepping outside of my marriage.

I'm no sex expert, but after 14 years of marriage I can tell you that Mikayla is right. A woman's response time definitely changes all the time. I know for my wife her response time has shortened as we've progressed in our sex life. But it used to be that she could not orgasm without some kind of hand or oral stimulation. And in some cases she couldn't reach orgasm at all. And even today sometimes she'll tell me she's not in the mood for long foreplay and just wants to get down to it. However, an hour is definitely a long period of time for oral sex. The one thing that has helped us is honest open communication about what feels good and what doesn't. This type of communication for us takes place in and out of the bedroom. My wife has expressed how in the past she was afraid to tell me what she wanted in bed because of hidden insecurities. But believe me talking about it has helped us a ton. And most of the time it's a real turn on to talk about these things with her because it gives me an insight to what she finds pleasurable. The simple act of talking about it can also can become foreplay and very stimulating. Especially if you're talking about it right before you get down to the deed. If you don't already have this type of openness with each other then it might be tough at first to develop, but through time and perseverance it will pay off. I'm sure she really does enjoy the attention down there, but it could also be that she enjoys some things more than others, and may be afraid to tell you in order to spare your feelings. I personally like that my wife will tell me what she wants during the act. For example...If I'm licking her clit and she decides that she also wants my fingers in her she'll say "use your fingers baby". Six or eight years ago she would never say that to me because she was afraid of what I might think. On a separate note, I don't know whether you have or haven't, but you need to talk with her about the fact that she does not reciprocate. This is a big issue with a lot of guys, we don't like to say anything to our wives/girlfriends in order to avoid conflict or perhaps out of our insecurities as men. If you don't say anything she might think that you're ok with it because you can orgasm from intercourse. Just on a human level alone it doesn't seem very fair that you work on pleasuring her for an hour and she is not willing to give you ten minutes of pleasure. Again it could be her insecurities preventing her from doing that. She might think she's bad at it or perhaps has other underlying issues that prevents her from returning the favor. But whatever the reason you should talk about it.

I don't even know what she does back there....

LOL...Inapropriate is my middle name.

A while back I was at the supermarket, and I was wearing these work pants that just kept rubbing up against my penis just the right way. It caused a pretty bad arousal, but luckily it was winter time and I had my trusty coat to hide the evidence. "Hard on isle 5!"...

It's either that or sneak out the bedroom window after she passes out in a Cheeto's coma on the couch.

Hot Blond...(Damn!)

I live an hour away as well. And as long as my mommy says its ok I would be glad to hang out and show you around.

This is really more of a detailed explanation of my fantasy rather than an actual story. Thinking of this was tricky for me because my wife and I have a really fantastic sex life, and she has already made most of my fantasies come true. One of my few remaining fantasies is a voyeuristic one. My wife, who I happen to think is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, is a little insecure about herself in regards to her looks. And so she is not very comfortable with the idea of other people seeing her or myself naked. But I always thought that it would be really hot to have other people watch us during sex, and not just on video, but live. And also not infront of complete strangers, but actual people who know us. Let me prefice this by saying that I am very jealous man and I love my wife more than anyone in the whole world. So there's no way that I would ever feel comfortable with any man touching her or vice versa. I picture it happening this way more or less. We go away for a weekend with another couple, stashed away up somewhere in a hotel or cottage. We go out for a really nice dinner, maybe see a band, have some drinks. After the bars close we decide to head back to the hotel for some more drinks and friendly conversation. As we're sitting there talking and laughing, my wife and I start to get a little frisky infront of this other couple. It begins with a little back rub, maybe a little kiss on the lips, a little kiss on the neck...nothing major...as we both get more and more comfortable she starts to caress my thigh and it slowly evolves from her hand on my thigh to heavy kissing and tongue. Her hand now begins touching my cock over my pants and following the contours of my shaft. I get more and more aroused and without even blinking I pull her really tightly towards me and begin to feel her ass. While all this is happening I remember that the other couple is sitting right there staring at us the whole time. I take a quick glance out of the corner of my eye, and I can see that they are not bothered at all by what's taking place. In fact it seems to be having the opposite effect, so we both decide to continue. Her and I both realize what's about to happen and we become more aroused by it. I start to tear her clothes off and mine in the process, and I get on top of her and start kissing her naked breasts, licking her nipples and rubbing my cock on her naked pussy. At which point I decide that it's time to take it to the next level. We do it in as many possitions as we can possibly imagine for as long as we can. Oral, missionary, doggie style, her on top of me, 69...the works. When it's all done, the other couple is so turned on that they decide to do the same thing and now it's our turn to relax and watch. And as we sit there and watch them go at it we become turned on again and just decide to keep having sex, all night, for as long as we can, and as hard as we can.

This is a very interesting topic. My personal opinion is that there is no right answer to this question. I believe that it just simply depends on the individuals making the decision. I've been married for over 10 years and sexually it's worked out great between us, and we did live together for a little while before marrying. But at the same time I know couples who barely kissed before they got married and they're doing great. On the other hand there are a number of folks on this forum who have experienced both sides of the spectrum and are apparently unhappy with their spouse. Living together with someone is not a guaranty that things will work out afterwards, it's very hard work being married and doing it successfully. But the pay off is great, you get to live with your best friend and have great sex together. BTW...In my opinion if you can't think of your girlfriend or boyfriend as your best friend, then you have no business marrying that person. In the end I think the main thing is to communicate with your partner and be open no matter what the situation may be.

We've been practically having sex on a daily basis for the past 6 months or so. It's always fantastic, but I find that when we've taken a day or two in between it's damn near spectacular. This is one of those times... Last week we talked about taking a day or two break from having sex. This is very difficult for the both of us since we like it so much and so often. That week we had purposely taken two days in a row. Which for us lately is a long time. After the second day all I could think about was her. Bending her over and feeling her soft supple ass against my groin while I slammed into her from behind. While I was at work we kept teasing each other over the phone and email. Later on that day she logged onto yahoo IM and we started talking dirty to each other. "So what are you doing later on?" I asked..."YOU" she said. The conversation got so hot, that if I had been called away from my cubicle there would've been a piramid sticking out the front of my pants. Anyways... When I got home, we kept giving each other the look..you know that look... Once in a while she would walk by and I would grab her ass or vice versa. She was standing infront of the kitchen sink and I approached her from behind and pretended to need something from the counter in order to rub up against her, and she knew it too and it turned her on. Couldn't wait to put the kids to bed and just get it on! Well after a painfully long couple of hours we were finally by ourselves. We started slow just caressing each others hands and arms. We then started kissing and I could feel every inch of her lips on my face. It was as if I was kissing her for the first time, her mouth on my neck, it just felt great and I was getting really turned on. I then started kissing her more passionately and harder. She reciprocated and began to moan and make sexy noises, as did I. I remember just slowly putting my hands on her face and neck, slowly bringing them to her beautiful breasts. We were both very excited at this point. She climbed on top of me on the couch and began to slowly grind herself against me, and it felt so hot and soft. I lifted her night gown and put my hands on her ass while at the same time pulling her towards me and heavily kissing her face, breasts and neck. Her nipples were so hard and sweet, I couldnt get enough of it. After a couple of minutes she told me in her very sexy low voice "I'm cumming". I got even more excited than I was. I could barely control myself. I then layed her down on the couch and got on top of her, grinding my hard cock up against her, making her moan even louder. I couldn't take it anymore I had to have her at that point. I took her clothes off and proceeded to do the same. I stood up infront of her strocking my cock and just staring at her sexy body as she also played with herself. I approach her and she began to slowly suck my cock, feeling every bit of her with every stroke, every lick and every touch of her soft hands. At the same time I began to caress her clit, and it was at that point where she took my penis deeper and deeper into her mouth. It felt so good, I immediately grabbed her hair and pushed her towards me as I basically began to fuck her mouth. It was during that time that I also grabbed the lube(we always keep it handy)...I put some on my hand and began to rub her clit up and down slowly bringing my fingers inside her. I would go back and forth between rubbing her pussy lips and clit to fucking her with my two middle fingers. She really enjoyed that...every time she came I could feel the inside of her pussy putting very intense pressure on my fingers. She was so wet and swollen and I couldn't get enough of it. I love to hear her cum and the look on her face when I know she's really enjoying herself, there's nothing that turns me on more than that. Little while later I just couldn't take anymore. I had to be inside her...I moved to the other end of the couch where her legs were, and I possitioned myself in between them. I lifted her legs up with my hands and I began to rub the outside of her pussy with my very hard cock. She was so wet and warm it was oh so nice and instinctively it worked out very well. A minute or two of that and she said "Come on baby please put it in". I was happy to ablidge...I teased it a little more and then I slid my cock in very slowly. I could feel her pussy palpitate against my cock. Slowly increasing the rate of every stroke. I could feel every little bit of sensation, every breath, every touch, everything was just right in synch and we were as one at that moment. We then moved on to doggie style possition, one of my favorites. I like to bend her over couch and take her from behind while I stand. I love just watching her ass giggle a little bit as I move forward towards her. I love grabbing it and just separating the cheeks oh so slightly. I was really giving to her hard, and the harder I did it the more she liked it. Once in while she would talk during and that just brought me over the edge. At that point I was ready to explode and I was really slamming it hard, she then uttered the words "Come on baby...give it to me...I want you to cum so hard inside me." I was feeling so much pleasure I thought I was going to pass out. It was at that moment she told me she was going to cum again, and I was able to time it just right so I could cum with her. When it finally happened I felt as if my heart had literally stopped. The pleasure was so intense and so powerful I lost all control. At that moment nothing else mattered. The next day we did it all over again.

I enjoy it once in a while...I have to be in the mood for it, my wife is always more than willing to ablidge. I do have to admit that it's more of a visual thing than the feeling itself. I get to see my penis in between my beautiful wife's breasts while at the same time looking at her beautiful face. What's not to like.

Howdy, New to this forum stuff. Just introducing myself. Seems like there's lots of good topics being discussed here. Looking forward to taking part in some of the discussions. DJ

All I'm sayin' is that if he treats you nice, you treat him nice. Luckily I have a great woman who really knows what I like and want. So I can relate to your stories. You like my avatar huh...i like yours. You show me yours I'll show you mine

Hey Sun_Flower...Sounds like you have quite the guy there. You just make sure to bring him his slippers once in a while. btw...Sun flowers are my favorite.