shdowulf39

more like if I walked into the room and you had on a leather collar and leash and you were on your knees. would it make you hot.....if I walked into the room with my leather wrist and ankle cuffs in my hands carring your favorite toy

forget the fur coat!....just the high heels and the bustier. wouldn't it make you hot....if i (in a deepky voice) said i want to tie you up spread eagled to the bed and have my way with you.....

just for the record kus2 you are not a freak!everyone has their own likes and dislikes.some are of the mild variety and some are of the more adventerious variety.for years I thought something was wrong with me also,because i had these fantisies.just out of happenstance I met a friend of mine who was into bdsm.he and his wife introduced me to it and I found out all the people who were also into it.now these people were from all walks of life and all different professions.we are even talking about lawyers,cops,business owners,truck drivers,secretaries,etc.so no you are not a freak.just someone who is more open,and likes something a little different than just everyday sex. hope this helps.

very enlightening picture

now my SO has a nice set of 34DDD.only problem is I don't share .they are mine to look at and play with.....sorry!!!!!

at least it brought something to this board.don't you g4t tired of the same old threads all the time?there is 4 of themn on here all the time that I would like to see eleminated.

the easiest way is to just ask.I do oral for you why don't you do it for me?you know how much I like oral sex both giving and receiving! then the ball is in his court.....and don't settle for a wimpy answer either.make him tell you why he doesn't.easiest way to find out.without beating around the bush.

this is my SO favorite position.She can most always get satisfied in this position.while I too like it(it puts certain areas of her body with easy reach)sometimes I too find it hart to get datisfied.not because of weight or anything like that.more it's hard for me to get the spots I need stimulated to be able to be satisfied.so we compromise.she gets satisfied in this posittion first. then we shift(same position)just a little for me to get the spots I need stimulated to be able to be satisfied. just a thought as this works for us.

what works for me is time.give yourself plenty of time to heal.be with friends,and family.do things with your friends.do things for yourself.things that you might not have done with your ex.sometimes I forget about some of the things that I like to do when I'm in a relationship.I strive to do them for myself after a breakup. don't get emotionally involved with anyone for a good long time.I can't say how much time you should let go by.for everyone it's different.for me I usually take at least 6 months to a year before I let myself become involved again. other than that.....you know the old saying.....time heals all wounds.......give yourself plenty of time to heal

we may make a comment like you said.does that mean we want you to look like her?NO!!!!we may think her hot but who's bed do we sleep in every night?who do we make love to?who do we come home to? don't blame all this on us (guys).blame it on all the sex we get shoved in our face every time we turn on the TV.sure we have actresses we like.don't you have actors you think are hot?doesn't mean we want to go to bed with them.sure the hell doesn't mean we want them rather than you.besides we wouldn't put up with all the BS they come with. it's more of how a woman thinks as opposed to a man.no offence ladies,but you all are alot more selfcouncious then we guys are.we mostly accept ourselves the way we are.doesn't mean we wouldn't like to change things.but we MIght get to it.guess it just goes with the different way of thinking between a man and a woman. sit back relax and chill.try looking at it from a guys point of view for a change.

let me ask all you ladies a question.is your husband perfect?is he loosing hair?does he have the same shape as he did when you both first got together?are there more wrinkles around his eyes?you all can answer yes to most if not all these questions.but, does he wory about it?probably not.just not that important to most of us guys.don't get me wrong we still want to look good.or as good as we can.but we just don't stress over it as much as you ladies do.we have more important things to think about.like football,or whatever. tv has thrown everything out of character.sure if you had the monitary resourses and the time that most actresses have you too could look like thay do.but you have something far more beneficial to us guys than they do.YOUR REAL!!!!!!they are not.and your our SO!!!!!

comming from a mans point of view.you women see yourselves completely different than us men see you. if a man is truly in love with a women than she is ther most sexy, sensual,and appealing woman on the face of the earth.all he sees is beauty.he doesn't see the streatch marks or any other imperfections.and remember most men are not into the type you see on tv every day.

I'm with ladylove.I don't think anyone on here has the qualifications to be of much help.really think you should see a professional.

at least with sex workers you get what you pay for......you also know who is getting screwed.

peaches

you answered your own questionby saying"its killing me".

most men in their 20's have the sex drive of an energizer bunny.I said most.not all.you just might have found one of the few that doesn't.and like sunflower said he might have outside pressures affecting his libido. try being creative to get him in the mood.take a bath together.after dinner excuse yourself and get all dolled up in something real sexy.if you have a monopoly game grab some of the play money and say lets role play"hooker john".do a sexy strip for him.something to get his mind on you and sex other than what he is focusing on.

I like that one TopCat

and who gets to pay for all the services that illegals are getting?if you work you do!!!!!it's called taxes. it's also time that we recind a law on the books.if an illegal had a baby in this country it is NOT an Amertican citizen!!!!!

Try Missouri in the summer.95+ with 85% humidity.And if your lucky it will go down into the 70's at night.Also you in tornado alley,just for good measure.

plum

thought they had female voices because;when they give wrong directions you don't beat on them on you dash board.

now just think if that was lightning!!what a jolt you would get

How about fruit?Strawberries,cherries,bananas,grapes.watermellon.Any of those would do.Might also try plain old ice.Now that could be interesting if you use your imafgination.

I knew there was alot of cheating going on in this country.I had no idea there was as much going on as there is.It seems to be the national passtime now. Before I met my SO I had been single for awhile.So I joined several online dating sites.Boy!What an eye opener!I couldn't believe all the married women(don't know about the guys as I had no reason to check them out)that were on there,looking for a little side action.Maybe it's just me but I really don't understand all this.What is the big kick out of cheating.You have to deal with all the guilt.Worry if your going to get caught.Worry if you might get her pregnant.Worry if you might loose your house,kids.and friends.To me the rewards(what ever they might be)just doesnt' add up to all the things you have to be concerned about.Not sure I understand all this,but don't really care either.I'm happy!I have a wonderfull woman who satisfies me in every way.AND I DON'T AND NEVER WILL CHEAT ON HER!!!!Just not my thing or way.