Lusting For Women

[daisy1966mae]

I am a 46 year old married woman who has, for a few years, found myself wanting to be with a woman....desperately. I have had one experience a couple of years ago, but unfortunately was a one time thing. I have good sex with my husband but he is not so much into exploring new ways to pleasure, despite suggestions. Sex has gotten a little predictable. I fantasize about sneaking out and meeting up with a woman and engaging in all kinds of carnal pleasures. The part of the fantasy that really gets me hot is that hubby would have no clue. I love the feeling that this dirty little secret would be all mine.(hubby was fully supportive of me exploring this side of myself in the past)

Anyway, I am ready to start making fantasy a reality. I would love to meet someone, but am having a hard time knowing where to start. Meeting someone like myself would be ideal, but short of crawling lesbian hangouts or creepy on line sex sites, I don;t know where to look. Any suggestions? Soo getting tired of masturbating to girl/girl videos...I need the real thing. Is this normal for a middle aged woman to experience this??? Lots going on here, I know...but just have this itch that nothing else can seem to scratch!!

[WendyNY]

Hi Daisy,

Yes--everything you are experiencing is normal. I have been with a woman as well. If you have read my Swinger thread I describe it on there. For me, it was enjoyable but I realize that it's really men that turn me on. Being with a women is nice every once in awhile for me but it would not be my "main course".

Would your husband be up for experiencing this with you--as in watching you with another woman ? My girlfriend is very much BI. She and her husband meet women and her husband watches them together. You should talk to your husband about it. There are lots of single women on some of the Swinger sites as well as couples like my friend who are only looking for a women for her to "play" with.

Good luck

[daisy1966mae]

Thanks Wendy. Hubby and I did have an experience with another couple where it started with us girls playing. It's not that it wasn't exciting but here was a feeling of 'performing' for the guys. That's part of the reason why I would like if to be a solo expedition. Like I said, part of it is also the clandestine nature of the meetings. " Hey,Honey, see you in a bit. Just going to grab a coffee with my new friend Jane" but Jane and I would be doing more than sipping coffee and nibbling on scones . Then after a few of those meetings, I would love go get hubby alone and say, "Hey, guess what Jane and I did today?" Would love to see the look on his face and the subsequent bulge in his pants! Think hot sex would follow? I do. Again, part of the issue is where to find a 'Jane'. Any suggestions?

[Tyger]

Anyone else relate to this post? It popped up as similar to another, more current post, so I reread this. Thought I'd pop it back up here. Thoughts?

[michelleddd]

It is a fantasy, not sure if it will ever present itself but I'm pretty open to it. I have had women come on to me but in hindsight I don't seem to notice till the moment has passed or I'm already home. lol

[Ernie]

I had a bi girlfriend and she went to a strip club to get her fix of new experiences! It was a safe way to get compy with being touched with a stranger! It was cool to watch but she abused my body later ! Never watched her play with others but she loved to give me details!

[12GAUGE]

Well in an effort to meet more people that might hep me reach new levels of carnal delights I followed the advice of a smart lady here I think highly of. I'm over on FetLife and met someone there. It's kinda like a scene from Murphy's Romance. When the pipes are backing up I call a nice lady and take her out to supper. The next morning she makes me my mornin victuals. The coolest thing about is, it was her ideer of having a FWB relationship. She's as kinky as me and in some ways I suspect more so for now it's fairly perfect.

 

For Daisy Mae (GREAT HANDLE BTW) join FetLife for a girl to love on. That's the best thing I kin think of. I personally LOVE queer girls. One in particular Jiz Lee oh my word first time I saw her with a cute lil Italian gal somewhere in that vid I shot my load and it was a humdinger!!!

I'm not much on promoting cheating for married folks but cuz well I got morals. But I ain't judging here cuz as I see it you're really in a predicament here.  Had I been raised in a swinging family in Japan in a commune full of gay girls none of yall wooda ever heard of me...I'd STILL BE THERE all loopy eyed and extremely well fucked.  Rats...I was born in Murica...

Anywho talk with your hubby tell him you wanna get cozy with another girl. He may wanna watch then join in...Hell's bells I'd be all OVER THAT. It's on my Bucket List to be with 2 ladies or 3 or 300. OR go to a Munch. FetLife has these Meet and Greets where folks agree to meet in social settings like restaurants and nice cocktail lounges. I've been to 2 and I had a great time both times. Showing up in regular clothes is generally the #1 Rule.

If you're within driving distance of a Sex Positive Living Center or a place called The WET SPOT like the original place in Seattle WA sometimes these outfits hold campout type seminars. I went to one local to me 9 or 10 years ago. The ONLY MISTAKE I made was not bringing my tent and sleeping bag. If I ever get to go again I'll take my entire rig the whole shebang and camp for as MANY NIGHTS AS I CAN. I got pictures of my tent and gear {unfortunately  nary a one is **digital**} so picture this... google Fort Nisqually Encampment  WA or Mountain Man Rendezvous or Civil War Skirmishers. My tent is white (well...it was in 1987) canvas. I use wood poles. It has NEVER LEAKED.

 

Daisy Mae I wish I was a hottie gramma with a purse fulla gold and tequila and was raised poly. I'd put my BEST Redneck girl moves ya

[12GAUGE]

On 4/29/2016 at 9:57 AM, Ernie said:

I had a bi girlfriend and she went to a strip club to get her fix of new experiences! It was a safe way to get comfy with being touched with a stranger! It was cool to watch but she abused my body later ! Never watched her play with others but she loved to give me details!

Yeah Ernie you GET IT!!!!!!! There is a website I found many years ago. Setup BY WOMEN and it's FOR WOMEN and girls just beginning to explore their sexuality and exploring that sexuality. Sometimes with their peers in the bathtub or on the sofa when they are alone. Early masturbation stories when they found if they rub *here* they find great joy they never felt b4. Stuff like that and it gets better and hotter.

Well IDK 2 weeks ago I sent the site owners a carefully worded email asking them on bended knee if I could join their site. After much begging on my part they agreed. Believe it or not I have not been back. I am also on an ***Enema*** site. Enema play is my big thing. Fairly misunderstood in the world of sex and sensuality whether vanilla or depraved extreme sadomasochism enema play is a hidden behind locked doors and windows covered by blackout curtains within a soundproof building hehehe... I found on XHamster the Japanese bless their hearts are ALL ABOUT extreme enema play along with vibrators and bondage. Five or 6 men plying a young womans private parts twisting her nipples reaming her drooling swampy snatch with adildo of BBC proportions while another man is stretching her backdoor with a speculum and copious quantities of lube while another man is touching her everywhere with a new toy called an E Stim. Short for E Stimulator. I know very little of this subject other than the equipment is obscenely expensive. Anywho. . .

Daisy Mae I feel ya girl. I been there. Several times I had the BEST SEX OF MY THEN YOUNG LIFE with a man or boy my age. Talk about confusing.  On top of all that I'm over 60. So what sez some young whippersapper out there reading over his boyfriends shoulder while he gives his boytoy a nice reacharound. I grew up during the 1950s and sixties. Communism was alive in 'Murica but the forces of Good were searching for it and putting it in a HURT LOCKER when they found it and Homosexuality was a Sin and Against The LAW pert near worldwide. So yeah I'm still in the Closet. I'm OK with that. 

Daisy Mae I found a nice enuf old gal like me on FetLife. Tehya...where are you?? I just outted you tehya. Thanks tehya. You told me bout FL i joined and I have a fwb.... Ya Daisy Mae everytime I say your name out loud or type it it's a HUGE TURN ON for me. Watching women fuck and suck is what I jerk off to most of the time. And your name conjures up YOU in a Marilyn Monroe Natalie Wood  Dixie (from Emergency) and Barbara Eden and the Beaver's mom) BODY. Daisy Mae on that TV show with the RED MUSCLE CAR with the CONFEDERATE FLAG on top. All I can cum up with is Lynnard Skinnard. They ran moonshine for their grandpa. Luke and Bo? IDK. Tennessee was it? And Daisy Mae strutting around in her Daisy Dukes her tits half falling out as she often bent over in a MOST UNLADYLIKE WAY thank you berry much.  Yeah Ginger Lynn boning you Daisy Mae with your favorite Big DILDO reaming you realllllll good that's what I'd wish for you little Lady. I've got 6 XHam flicks should be loaded up. Time for me to rub one out. See y'all lator  Gators!!!! 

Edited June 3, 2016 by 12GAUGE
I LOVE those details too Ern Boy HOWDY !!!

[12GAUGE]

I'm basking in the AfterGlow. Never seen 2 Futanari girls (REAL GIRLS) before. Lil Red is soaking in hot water. Huge cum. I eat lots of fruit so my cum is sweet. Both had huge cocks complete w/sac. Both are drop dead gorgeous. Ya gotta watch this vid. It's 29 minutes. Cat goes by *dispencer* he likes what I like so I joined his circle. Writes stories too. The cocks these 2 were sporting were horse cock fire hose thick. First half is torturous like Japanese porn. 

I gotta back on outta here. Sky looks promising for tractoring yard today. Hows a rib eye w/eggs shrooms and onions and taters sound? Yeah does sound delightful donit?

 

Rob needs an Emoticon with big grin and bib with fork and spoon. I'd git alotta miles with it!!!!! Yehaaaaaaa

[Tyger]

On 12/22/2015 at 6:06 PM, WenWitch said:

I can relate with the idea of not "performing for the men". You want your first time or some subsequent times after the first time to be soley you and her. My ex eventually found out about my interest in women ( I told him) and immediately his thought was "awesome a 3-some! Um, no. I'm sorry but this is something I need to do on my own at first. That's how I felt. It's nervey enough to be with a woman for the first time but then to have an audience. How do I know this is what I really want? The fantasy was there but was it just that? A fantasy? A little off reference but imagine you fantasize about sky diving. You get in the plane. It takes flight. Next thing you know you're standing there with parachute and all on and someone's there telling you "jump!" It's at that moment when you truly realize whether or not you're going to do it. Talk about pressure. When there's that extra person waiting to see you perform, all the intimacy goes out the freaking window. You're put on the spot. At least that's how it would have been for me. Some people do get turned on by an audience. And there's nothing wrong with that. Just not my thing.

I totally understand this! My ex husband told me randomly one night that he'd be ok with me being with a woman. Then, when I told him that if it ever happened, he wouldn't be there for the first meeting or 2 because 1. I'd be nervous enough, and 2. I don't understand the way of thinking that if a woman wants to be with another woman, and men think that it's a GO for a 3-some.

[12GAUGE]

Hay Tyger thanks for the traffic. One of the things l'd like is to be with 2 gals at the same time who are already together and into each other. I'd start out just watching then at the opportune time I'd join in.  My pipes are backed up so I plan to make a night of it tonight. It's on my Bucket List. Ideally from here on out I'm just out with bdsm lovers and Goth girls. Everything I missed the last 40 years I want it all dished up on my plate now. I'm ready. I LOVE spanking vids and fucking machine vids.

I'm gonna have sum fun here tonite.