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When you are (or were last time) in a long-term relationship, how many times in a period of 4 weeks do you:

a) have sex with your partner

b) masturbate

Usually the amount of sex is asked as times per week, but due to the break possibly caused by menses, I think it is better to count times per month. In that case the correct answer would be 3 weeks amount of sex, and 4 weeks amount of masturbation, if menses cause a break in sex life, but not in masturbation. And so on. Depending on if there are menses, and if they cause a break in your sex life and/or masturbation.

 

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2 hours ago, Wannerer said:

When you are (or were last time) in a long-term relationship, how many times in a period of 4 weeks do you:

a) have sex with your partner

b) masturbate

Usually the amount of sex is asked as times per week, but due to the break possibly caused by menses, I think it is better to count times per month. In that case the correct answer would be 3 weeks amount of sex, and 4 weeks amount of masturbation, if menses cause a break in sex life, but not in masturbation. And so on. Depending on if there are menses, and if they cause a break in your sex life and/or masturbation.

 

USED to be sex, probably 7or 8 times over that span. NOW it's just masturbation probably 27 times over the span

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13 minutes ago, Wannerer said:

You don't care to tell, why the situation has changed so dramatically?

Some have seen it before. But my wife has had several medical issues over the years. Surgery has left her unable to have vaginal sex. She has also always been strictly vaginal, not interested at all in oral, anal or mutual masturbation. She has also turned 80 and has not desire for it if she could. "When you get our ages, you don't need it".  

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1. hubby and I are working on our marriage. Our appetites have never been close to equal, mine always much higher. However with that discrepancy and our opposing schedules we were lucky to have sex once a month (if at all for king king stretches of time). We have decided to make it a priority to have some type of sexual interaction once a week. Whether it’s sex or just “helping each other out.” It isn’t perfect and I’m still not satisfied but it is a huge compromise on his part. And to go from over a year without to once every week-ish is a good start. 
 

2. Now this is another story. Probably 5-6 times a week, and many times twice in one session. I am alone in bed all week and usually a weekend evening since he has trouble going to sleep when I do. So I “TCB” a lot alone. I also have some sexy chat buddies whom I like to play with. That is a lot of fun! 

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With a partner, maybe once every couple of months. A variety of sex acts though. If she's on a tight schedule, a naked blowjob followed by her getting eaten. Or if the girl can stay, it's sex games, sex, more sex, morning sex, mutual masturbation, etc.

Masturbation is daily. Usually in the shower but fairly often in the middle of the night. Rare for me to NOT masturbate daily. Love it. I'd obviously prefer someone else there doing whatever they want but I do have a great imagination.

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In the past month my wife and I have been intimate a grand total of ZERO times. In fact we have not been intimate in close to 2 years. And I have no idea why.

Masturbation today is the 4th of February. So far this month I have Masturbated 7 times.

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Lucky if we have sex 1-2 times in a month. 

Masturbation is daily...sometimes more than once a day. It's usually in the middle of the night when I can't sleep. She's had medical issues all her life and maybe that attributes to her lack of sex drive. 

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have a partner but no sex   ,health issues with her 6 months ago found out she has congestive heart failure  oxygen hose not very sexy,  masturbate not enough,

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On 8/17/2022 at 5:11 PM, Katie Did It said:

1. hubby and I are working on our marriage. Our appetites have never been close to equal, mine always much higher. However with that discrepancy and our opposing schedules we were lucky to have sex once a month (if at all for king king stretches of time). We have decided to make it a priority to have some type of sexual interaction once a week. Whether it’s sex or just “helping each other out.” It isn’t perfect and I’m still not satisfied but it is a huge compromise on his part. And to go from over a year without to once every week-ish is a good start. 
 

2. Now this is another story. Probably 5-6 times a week, and many times twice in one session. I am alone in bed all week and usually a weekend evening since he has trouble going to sleep when I do. So I “TCB” a lot alone. I also have some sexy chat buddies whom I like to play with. That is a lot of fun! 

Katie you're SUCH a hot woman. 😁

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i love to masturbate solo and with the wife i am just about to rub one out

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would love to watch u masturbate ur pic on ur profile page u look sexy well done

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Don’t have a partner so when I get the urge,retired, I browse thru xhamster, find an unusual one, get my new p spot rotating anal and go to town. Never rush. 

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On 4/9/2023 at 4:33 PM, Sweet69 said:

I don’t have a partner but I do masterbate a lot day and night. I can’t get enough 

Me too!  One of my favorite things to do is lock myself in my home office, launch several hot Sucking and/or Fucking videos (sometimes Cumshot videos), pull my shorts down to my ankles, lube up with AstroGlide, and just stroke my stiff throbbing Dick while I watch... Without fail, I soon shoot a big wad of cum all over the place, enjoying the sensation and how it siezes up my whole body for about 30 full seconds... I do this at least 4 or 5 times a week... Like you said, I just can't get enough! I LOVE to cum, and this scenario is mine to enjoy as often as I want...

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I would also enjoy a situation where I am part of a Couples sucking session, me and another dude having our Cocks sucked by 2 hot girls, then they switch, and when we're ready, they beg us to cum all over them, faces, hair, tits, asses, etc...

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We like to have sex 2-3 times a month, on the weekends.Weekdays we just  dont have the time to really enjoy ourselves.It might last an hour it might last 4 hours its all depends on how we feel.My wife had a operation awhile back so she still has pain from time to time.As for just me ,i will j.o. 2-3 times a week or more if the wife would  like to do me.

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My wife and I usually have sex on sundays. I don't know why. I guess that's one day we can really relax and not have any other things to do. As far as masturbating, usually do it three to four times a week. And after reading all these posts one of those times I masturbated was just a few minutes ago

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Depends how often I see my girlfriend. But I would say that we have sex ten to twelve time a month. 

As for masturbating at least once a day I guess. But most of the times I masturbate in the morning. Just because I like it and for the rest of the it depends how my day works out. But most of the time I need to give myself some sexual attention during the day. It's not that I have a porn acteur stigma but I can't complain either. I just love the feeling 😁

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Log term relationship....thinking back.....

a) between 25 and 28

b) between 0 and 3

Now, in short term relationships....

a) 4

b) 28

 

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