Back in the Saddle Again

[cirrus20]

I've posted before that my wife has not been able to become aroused for many years.  It was something that happened slowly as she wanted sex less and less.  And, on the occasions we did have sex she would "turn off' in the middle and ask me to please finish.  She has had some medical issues so I was pretty much resigned to masturbation as my only release.  My wife was also resigned to no sex and feeling guilty about it.  But we made it work, though difficult at times, and lived the best lives we could.

Recently, we took and extended trip to visit her family and I came back a couple of weeks before she did.  The day after she returned we went for a swim in the pool and after a  bit she playfully pulled down my suit.  This wasn't like her as she is usually a little concerned if a neighbor see so I decided to call her bluff and took it completely off.  Then I pulled down the bottoms of her suit and to my surprise she took them off!  Then she told me she had a nice surprise.

My wife got me hard and started pulling me to rub the head on her pussy and get me inside.  I couldn't believe it, she was horny and wanted sex!  She told me that after I had left she started looking at porn sites, reading sexy stories, and sexual desire started returning.  We decided to get dressed and head up to the bedroom where I had my cock buried in pussy for the first time in about 27 years!  We went for about an hour and she was wet, wild and insatiable.

My wife (and the rest of the family) has had problems with her mother for many years because her mother is a real drama queen that is very controlling.   For my wife this really hit a peak when her father died and she wouldn't speak to her mother for a number of years.  Her mother is still alive but now in a senior care facility and starting to do poorly.  My wife said that on this trip she was finally able to let go of her negative feelings and essentially cut loose from all her mother's bullshit. 

It seems pretty clear that some deep-seated mental aspects played a role in my wife's sexual problem.  But boy is she trying to make up for lost time now and I'm loving it!  So for the others here that are in the same situation, there is a chance things can get better.  It might be difficult but finding the root cause of the problem is the key to fixing the problem.  Don't give up.

[tiger48]

1 hour ago, cirrus20 said:

I've posted before that my wife has not been able to become aroused for many years.  It was something that happened slowly as she wanted sex less and less.  And, on the occasions we did have sex she would "turn off' in the middle and ask me to please finish.  She has had some medical issues so I was pretty much resigned to masturbation as my only release.  My wife was also resigned to no sex and feeling guilty about it.  But we made it work, though difficult at times, and lived the best lives we could.

Recently, we took and extended trip to visit her family and I came back a couple of weeks before she did.  The day after she returned we went for a swim in the pool and after a  bit she playfully pulled down my suit.  This wasn't like her as she is usually a little concerned if a neighbor see so I decided to call her bluff and took it completely off.  Then I pulled down the bottoms of her suit and to my surprise she took them off!  Then she told me she had a nice surprise.

My wife got me hard and started pulling me to rub the head on her pussy and get me inside.  I couldn't believe it, she was horny and wanted sex!  She told me that after I had left she started looking at porn sites, reading sexy stories, and sexual desire started returning.  We decided to get dressed and head up to the bedroom where I had my cock buried in pussy for the first time in about 27 years!  We went for about an hour and she was wet, wild and insatiable.

My wife (and the rest of the family) has had problems with her mother for many years because her mother is a real drama queen that is very controlling.   For my wife this really hit a peak when her father died and she wouldn't speak to her mother for a number of years.  Her mother is still alive but now in a senior care facility and starting to do poorly.  My wife said that on this trip she was finally able to let go of her negative feelings and essentially cut loose from all her mother's bullshit. 

It seems pretty clear that some deep-seated mental aspects played a role in my wife's sexual problem.  But boy is she trying to make up for lost time now and I'm loving it!  So for the others here that are in the same situation, there is a chance things can get better.  It might be difficult but finding the root cause of the problem is the key to fixing the problem.  Don't give up.

Happy for you both. I have a similar situation, but she's 80 now and unable to even if she wanted (which she doesn't). Colosomy bag and both rectal and vaginal surgeries. So, I'm still stuck with masturbating.

[cirrus20]

21 hours ago, tiger48 said:

Happy for you both. I have a similar situation, but she's 80 now and unable to even if she wanted (which she doesn't). Colosomy bag and both rectal and vaginal surgeries. So, I'm still stuck with masturbating.

Thanks Tiger.  Here's to you and happy masturbating. 

[marka09]

Very happy for both you and your wife!!  A good news story!

[cirrus20]

37 minutes ago, marka09 said:

Very happy for both you and your wife!!  A good news story!

Thanks very much Marka.   It certainly is good news, lucky circumstance, and completely unexpected.  It's like when we first got together because we now have to get used to one another again.  Strangely, I got so used to masturbating that I now have to re-learn the feelings and rhythms of her pussy again.  

The good thing is that practice makes perfect!

[marka09]

41 minutes ago, cirrus20 said:

Thanks very much Marka.   It certainly is good news, lucky circumstance, and completely unexpected.  It's like when we first got together because we now have to get used to one another again.  Strangely, I got so used to masturbating that I now have to re-learn the feelings and rhythms of her pussy again.  

The good thing is that practice makes perfect!

Here's to Practicing as much as possible!!💥🥂  And remember,  only Perfect practice makes perfect.  

 

[michelleddd]

That’s so wonderful you get to explore each other again like newlyweds. ❤️❤️❤️

[cirrus20]

21 hours ago, michelleddd said:

That’s so wonderful you get to explore each other again like newlyweds. ❤️❤️❤️

Thanks.  It's been a lot of fun learning again! 

[cirrus20]

So just an update, we're still both enjoying a newfound sex life again and my wife managed to have one explosive orgasm after buying a couple toys.  However, she's taking anti-cramping meds to treat her Dystonia and one of them is also used as an anti-depressant.  These meds make it difficult for her to cum though she still feels intense pleasure that she can keep going for a very long time.  We are thankful for the one breakthrough orgasm she experienced though and hope she'll have more in the future; particularly if she can reduce or eliminate some of the meds.

I did come home one day and found her playing with a toy which was amazingly exciting!  I watched for a while encouraging her then got naked and joined in (so hot!!!).  Tonight she wants to watch some good porn and go from there (maybe get some new ideas).  Something she hasn't done in the past as she's becoming more adventurous. 

Women are like a fine wine; they really do seem to get better with age.

 

[Rio]

Sounds like to both you have found some new found pleasures. Congratulations to both of you. Keep enjoying one another

[Lonely and divorced]

1 hour ago, cirrus20 said:

So just an update, we're still both enjoying a newfound sex life again and my wife managed to have one explosive orgasm after buying a couple toys.  However, she's taking anti-cramping meds to treat her Dystonia and one of them is also used as an anti-depressant.  These meds make it difficult for her to cum though she still feels intense pleasure that she can keep going for a very long time.  We are thankful for the one breakthrough orgasm she experienced though and hope she'll have more in the future; particularly if she can reduce or eliminate some of the meds.

I did come home one day and found her playing with a toy which was amazingly exciting!  I watched for a while encouraging her then got naked and joined in (so hot!!!).  Tonight she wants to watch some good porn and go from there (maybe get some new ideas).  Something she hasn't done in the past as she's becoming more adventurous. 

Women are like a fine wine; they really do seem to get better with age.

 

I’m very happy for you two Cirrus.Although I can’t speak for all women but I know I am aging like a fine wine. My libido is like a twenty year old.☀️

[Katie Did It]

1 hour ago, cirrus20 said:

So just an update, we're still both enjoying a newfound sex life again and my wife managed to have one explosive orgasm after buying a couple toys.  However, she's taking anti-cramping meds to treat her Dystonia and one of them is also used as an anti-depressant.  These meds make it difficult for her to cum though she still feels intense pleasure that she can keep going for a very long time.  We are thankful for the one breakthrough orgasm she experienced though and hope she'll have more in the future; particularly if she can reduce or eliminate some of the meds.

I did come home one day and found her playing with a toy which was amazingly exciting!  I watched for a while encouraging her then got naked and joined in (so hot!!!).  Tonight she wants to watch some good porn and go from there (maybe get some new ideas).  Something she hasn't done in the past as she's becoming more adventurous. 

Women are like a fine wine; they really do seem to get better with age.

 

Sorry to hear about her health issues but glad she’s still enjoying herself through them. And yes, at least for me, sex feels better than ever!