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Ok this may be a stupid question. I am a new poster but have been reading for a long time. O here goes...my husband and I are considering trying anal....I need convincing. My main hold out is the yuck factor. I am not afraid of the pain because I fully trust him not to hurt me on purpose and stop if he does. But what about (pardon the grossness) poop?? Does it come out? How do you make sure that does not happen???? I am blushing typing this, lol.

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I have experienced anal a few times, and never once have I seen the slightest bit of "yuckiness". I have read posts about using a condom so that clean up is quick, but I never noticed any mess in the first place.

One thing I have noticed, if he cums while in your ass, you will have some messiness from the semen coming out, and I have had some air trapped in there, so had some release of air afterward too, but it's not bad or yucky.

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Welcome!

Please remember, no question is stupid!

Yes, sometimes there is a bit of "yuckiness" when you have anal sex. It really depends on how much residue is in your rectum when you are having anal. We all know that is where poop comes out, and sometimes rubbing up in there with lubrication makes it come out a bit - but not like you are pooping yourself. You can use a condom for easier clean up, or you can take the route of doing an enema beforehand.

I would suggest you read the article on Everything Anal in the Sex Ed section and get all the information on this. It is a tentative thing for some people, so get all the info you can!

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I have seen a little yuckiness afterward but not too bad. Use a condom (and lots of lube). When he cums in your ass the first time you go to the bathroom it is a little different.

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I would also suggest that whomever is going to be the recipient of the anal play, try and go to the bathroom before hand. Maybe wait a few hours before engaging in anal play. I know you can't always "go" when you want, but I would try.

Most likely, there will be some slight "residue" on whatever you use to insert up into your anus. That's normal. It's not like it gets coated with it (unless you haven't gone to the bathroom for a while) or anything.

Remember, never "double-dip", aka put a toy, finger, or penis up in your anus, and then insert it vaginally, unless it's washed before it goes into the vagina, or the condom is removed from the toy. You don't want to get a bacterial infection.

And, as always: USE LOTS OF LUBE!!

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I would also suggest that whomever is going to be the recipient of the anal play, try and go to the bathroom before hand. Maybe wait a few hours before engaging in anal play. I know you can't always "go" when you want, but I would try.

Most likely, there will be some slight "residue" on whatever you use to insert up into your anus. That's normal. It's not like it gets coated with it (unless you haven't gone to the bathroom for a while) or anything.

Remember, never "double-dip", aka put a toy, finger, or penis up in your anus, and then insert it vaginally, unless it's washed before it goes into the vagina, or the condom is removed from the toy. You don't want to get a bacterial infection.

And, as always: USE LOTS OF LUBE!!

Thank you guys. I am definatley interested. I have been reading, having fantasy's and watching some homemade anal porn online. I am turned on and would love to do this with my husband. We have been together over 10 years and neither of us has ever done it. The yuck factor is the ONLY thing stopping me. But from what you guys have said it does not seem like a big deal. I will have to plan ahead and see how it goies. I think I am going to go the enema (gross in itself, lol) route the first time until I get more comfortable then who knows. Thanks again and I will have to keep you posted.

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I think an enema would me yuckier then just doing it. And as for planning, that kind of ruins the moment. Just know that it's a possibility, and when you're hot and wet, direct his penis into your anus SLOWLY. You'll be fine!

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