Newbie arielofthenight Posted December 23, 2007 Newbie Report Share Posted December 23, 2007 Hi, thought I would drop in to say HI....HIStarting over after losing my husband to cancer, and scared and kind of worried I can't get back into the swing of seeing guys again. You know the older you get the scarier it gets out there, cause I am still young on the inside, but will the guys see that and look passed my age? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted December 23, 2007 Report Share Posted December 23, 2007 Welcome to the forum! I'm sorry to hear about your husband's passing.Men will absolutely look past your age! It all depends how you put yourself out there as well, but there are many men that LOVE older ladies. You are known as a "Cougar", which is a sexy older lady that younger guys will flock too, and won't care about your age at all!! More experience, more knowledge, and more self-esteem all are carried by older ladies. Plus, less drama! Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted December 23, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 23, 2007 As is most typical here Tyger has hit the nail on the head. One other thing I might add is for you to watch yourself out there. This is a totally different generation. Mostly made up of users and losers. Do not allow your loneliness and fear to create a victim. You are a strong woman and deserve to be happy. Just be alert!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members krisleightate Posted December 23, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 23, 2007 Welcome and good luck and so sorry to hear about your husband *hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie arielofthenight Posted December 24, 2007 Author Newbie Report Share Posted December 24, 2007 Thanks guys for your Hello's and your advice. I like the thought of being a Cougar.. and I will be careful. Will see you around the boards and...Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jesso Posted December 24, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 24, 2007 Welcome! I have to agree with my fellow posters.You've reached cougar status! And thats a gem in itself. Remember, dating is supposed to new, exciting and fun! Don't worry about the age thing. It really shouldn't matter. Personalities and interconnections are what count. Just be careful and I'm sure you'll have stories to share soon enough! Welcome to the board Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members brandyfan411 Posted December 24, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 24, 2007 Hi there, welcome to the forums!! It sucks to hear that you lost your husband to cancer. But I'm positive that you will be able to get some stares from men. If you can sell the candy right, the boys will come a runnin' lol. Age usually doesn't matter. Just go out there and shine and you'll be fine.Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!! Peace and One Love!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted December 25, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 25, 2007 Hi there, welcome to the forums!! It sucks to hear that you lost your husband to cancer. But I'm positive that you will be able to get some stares from men. If you can sell the candy right, the boys will come a runnin' lol. Age usually doesn't matter. Just go out there and shine and you'll be fine.Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!! Peace and One Love!! Did I detect a hint at Bob in there girl? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bazil323 Posted January 3, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 Sorry to hear about your husband. Welcome to the site! I'm sure you'll find great advice and great people here! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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