Members hotrob Posted December 28, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 28, 2007 This is my story. I started feeling somthing when I was in my teens. It started in some of the old western movies when the girl would be taken by the bad guy and taken to a cabin and tied tightly to a chair. It grew each time I saw women tied in any movie and so I started tieing myself when no one was around. I noticed the tighter I tied myself the more excited I got. I always used cotton rope and tied the ropes in a neat fashion and used a slip knot around my wrists and pulled it tight by slipping the other end around my feet. When I got married to my first wife I fantisied but never told her until we had three children and the sex was getting to happen fewer times than I wanted. So one afternoon I had purchased several rolls of rope and cut them into varied lenghts and hid them in the bedroom. One afternoon I started to kiss and pet heavily and my wife said lets go into the bedroom. After we were both naked and I started doing oral sex on her I turned her over on her stomach and pulled out three or four lengths of rope and with one I brought her arms behind her and started to tie her wrists. The funny thing is she did not protest but let me continue to tie her arms above and below her breasts. I was now coming all over the bed. I then turned her over and tried to orally arouse her and she just kept moaning and getting hotter and hotter. After a few minutes I took more rope and tied her legs at the ankles, below her knees above her knees and just belew her hips. Another rope was tied around her waist securing her arms tightly to her back. After much kissing and tongue licking her vagina I put a cloth gag in her mouth and left the room for a few minutes to help slow my pulse down. I then came back and took the gag down and had her give me one of her best blow jobs she ever performed. We continued doing oral sex on each for about 20 more minutes when she had to go potty, at which time I untied her. After wards we sat and talked for hours discussing what had just happened. From this point on it was either her tieing me up, which took her several times before really tieing me securely with my help. She loved tieing me tightly and gagging me with a ball gag I made and making me wither and groan with extreme satisfaction while she was sucking on my penis and playing with my balls and delaying my orgasms until I almost burst. We both liked the oral orgasms and we loved being tied and left gagged to move as much as we could while actually mentally stimulating ouselves in the bondage and waiting for the other to come back and either keep the session going or finishing us off with the final oral pleasure.After we divorced years later I used the same technique on my girl friends all who were younger than I was and all soon acquired a strong desire for this type of sex.I have tried to get my girl friends girl friend to join us but she is a little shy about being naked with us. When Donna called her to come over one time Donna stripped and I tied her hands and feet and ball gagged her and sat her on the chair in the family room. When Janet saw her she sat down and wanted to know what was going on so I took Donna's gag off and we started making love and explaning to her what was happening. It was interesting but she still has not joined us. I and Donna are still hoping to sway her. One other fantasy we are both having is doing the bondage out doors. This may be in the near future. I now wait to hear how others got into bondage and how their partners responded. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted December 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 29, 2007 For me it was similiar to how you describe your first time. I was dating a new guy, and I was smitten with him in ways I never understood. He was so....commanding and authoritative and just so damn....interesting. We had been having sex not very long at all when one night he just placed handcuffs on my wrist and cuffed me to his bed. No complaints from me. Then he cuffed the other wrist - still no complaints. Then he took bondage rope and tied me spread eagle on the bed - I came like a thundering rocket - and he hadn't touched me yet.After hours of being teased to the brink of orgasm I was sold on bondage and all its joys. We took the bondage thing to various levels - some extreme - and I never once tied him. He was the DOM in all his glory, I always his sub. I tried the DOM role a few times with other guys, but you know, I don;t get that rush, that tingly feeling, that orgasmic bliss unless I am the one being taken and tied. that is my preference and thankfully my hubby obliges me when I want.When I worked in the BDSM club, there were many men who would cum (and that ended their session, no nudity allowed) just by seeing the rope (and we weren't allowed to do much tying there) so that is a testament to how powerful bondage and rope play can be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hotrob Posted December 31, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted December 31, 2007 Come on ropers, let's hear your interesting stories of how and when you got introduced or seduced into the great bondage life style. There must be thousands of great stories out there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MystryKitten Posted January 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 I have never tired real bondage but would LOVE to! When my ex and i were dating, I knew that being pinned down turned me on BIG TIME as when we had tickle fights, this got me really excited, (like you ropenot, I watched people get tied up in tv as a child and always had an interest in it) I'm definably a SUB, and I dont think I could really ever get into DOM, cause SUB sounds and feels so much more THRILLING, having zero control is sexy. So my ex pinned down my arms once, and I struggled for the fun of it as he pinned me down harder. I loved it, and got really wet fast! He never caught on to the idea though, and we went back to the sex we were usually having. Someday, I hope to find me a real freaky bondage guy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sarasweets01 Posted January 29, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 29, 2008 I am extremely excited about bondage and can't wait to get into it more. I'm not really a DOM or a Sub. I like to be both. I tied my guy up once and tickled him all over with a feather and he loved it. He keeps threatening to tie me up but still hasn't gotten aroung to it, i told him tonight he is doin it when he's back here, no questions about it. I don't really like the gags but I can't wait to blindfold him, he isn't too sure about it, but I know it will be mindblowing for him. not being able to touch or see the person the whole body will explode with sensation. I just can't wait to get into it more. restraints! so exciting. Just wanted to share my thoughts on that. have fun everyone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Neuroticax Posted March 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted March 17, 2008 My story really isn't too fantastic.I've been with my guy for going on 5 years, and it was up until 3 years ago we had 'vanilla' sex frequently. We would fancy scenes in porns, talk amongst forums, and amongst ourselves. We slowly started out with spankings, hair tugging.. bitting.. and it progressed. Now, vanilla sex does nothing for me. It's rough sex or bust! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Fawkes Posted March 18, 2008 Members Report Share Posted March 18, 2008 My experience started much like Neuroticax. Over the years we have tried some spanking, then handcuffs, etc. It wasn't until recently that we started putting the pieces together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Blondeandcurious Posted March 19, 2008 Newbie Report Share Posted March 19, 2008 I have to admit...I have never done bondage however the one time an ex-boyfriend of mine got rough with me it really turned me on. He bit my back, pulled my hair, and slapped me and I just continued to get hotter and hotter. I get so turned on at the thought of being sub. I love losing control and being told what to do. Howver this kinky side of me has yet to come out with any of my newer boyfriends except when I pin them down.... I just don't know if I have had the connection with them like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie autumn Posted April 16, 2008 Newbie Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 I have to admit...I have never done bondage however the one time an ex-boyfriend of mine got rough with me it really turned me on. He bit my back, pulled my hair, and slapped me and I just continued to get hotter and hotter. I get so turned on at the thought of being sub. I love losing control and being told what to do. Howver this kinky side of me has yet to come out with any of my newer boyfriends except when I pin them down.... I just don't know if I have had the connection with them like that.Bondage really turns me on too. I have a "nice" hubby. he is too careful with me. I wish he would tie me up and get a little rough with me, make me do what he wants me to do. I just don't know how to tell him that's what I want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hollybw Posted April 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 This is something we are beginning to take interest in, as well...Anyone got any ideas on first bondage toys??Not sure what to start out with other than cuffs... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members PanickedVanity Posted April 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 This is something we are beginning to take interest in, as well...Anyone got any ideas on first bondage toys??Not sure what to start out with other than cuffs...Silk ties are an awesome start. I actually have used neckties for light bondage in the past (my hubby up as a catholic school girl and I found a creative use for the tie ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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