Members shygal Posted July 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 I am newly single and have been without sex for several months now and am not interested in casual sex. I've started using small vibrator to make myself orgasm almost nightly. Is there any harm in that physically? I'm afraid my clitoris is going to become desensitzed!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted July 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Hi Shygal!Welcome to the forum. take some time to look around, read the posts, get to know some people. This question has been asked a ton of times because it is a great concern of many women. Let me assure you - it would be next to impossible to desensitize your clitoris by too much masturbation. Statistically, you would have to use your vibe constantly, daily, for years and years for this to happen.Now, what will happen is you will become more sensitive - and orgasms may be easier to obtain with a toy as opposed to, let's say your finger. I have been using vibes for 15+ years on an almost daily (sometimes more than once a day) basis and I can still orgasm via tongue, finger or toy combos. No worries, keep on enjoying! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted July 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Welcome and Mikayla is right, they can only help your body learn to orgasm easier, plus they are fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted July 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 enjoy yourself...and welcome to the forum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members shygal Posted July 30, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Thanks for replys. I figured as much but I wasn't sure! The hardest part of my divorce is lack of intimacy and affection...if I had to give up my vibe I was gonna CRY!!lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members nosleepnmesa Posted July 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Welcome to Too Timid!! I dito what Mikayla said. I have never become desensitized due to masturbation. I own quit a few toys and most always use a strong bullet on my clitoris and have yet to become desensitized. No harm in it, continue to play and enjoy your body.There is LOADS of information here, look around, post and it is great to have you aboard!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted July 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Welcome to TT shygal, I agree with all the above comments. Check out the tips and articles, I found them very helpful you may too.Most of all enjoy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members froggystyle1977 Posted July 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Welcome to the site!!!! I can't add anything to whats already been said, I would continue to enjoy your vibe and mabye get him a friend to help in case he needs a break!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted July 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Welcome to the forum! One thing about taking care of your own physical needs is that you will not seek out relationships due to desperation! BTW, the only danger is that you will learn more about your body and what you need to get to that peak! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Thanks for replys. I figured as much but I wasn't sure! The hardest part of my divorce is lack of intimacy and affection...if I had to give up my vibe I was gonna CRY!!lolWelcome! I hope you enjoy the site, and learn a lot. There are many questions answered here by some really smart people. Mikdayla's right, I've been using toys regularly for about 10 yrs or so, and no desensitizing yet! LOL You'll be fine. I KWYM about the lack of intimacy with a divorce. I think many of us do. You don't have to do casual if you don't want too either. Just take your time, learn what kind of person YOU are without a relationship. It'll make you stronger, though it's VERY hard to do! Then, when the right person comes along, you'll be ready.Best wishes~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted July 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 I am newly single and have been without sex for several months now and am not interested in casual sex. I've started using small vibrator to make myself orgasm almost nightly. Is there any harm in that physically? I'm afraid my clitoris is going to become desensitzed!!NO no no! In fact it will be the opposite I feel! It seems to me that the more you do it the more you can, and the orgasms come easier! Don't believe any of those old wives tales. Enjoy yourself! Oh and welcome to the forum, have fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted July 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Welcome! I hope you enjoy the site, and learn a lot. There are many questions answered here by some really smart people. Mikdayla's right, I've been using toys regularly for about 10 yrs or so, and no desensitizing yet! LOL You'll be fine. I KWYM about the lack of intimacy with a divorce. I think many of us do. You don't have to do casual if you don't want too either. Just take your time, learn what kind of person YOU are without a relationship. It'll make you stronger, though it's VERY hard to do! Then, when the right person comes along, you'll be ready.Best wishes~ TWO THUMBS UP TYGER! I like that last paragraph! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members shygal Posted July 30, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Wow thanks for all replys. I agree with Tyger...I don't need the diversion of a new man now...although my WANTS are different from my NEEDS!I know I need to get through this right now and it will take a long while I'm sure...focusing on my kid and our new life for now. Thanks again.Off to buy more batteries....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted July 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 (Off to buy stock in ??????) which company???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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