Newbie bluestocking Posted August 4, 2008 Newbie Report Share Posted August 4, 2008 I have been divorced one year. Abusive marriage. Got out alive and on the way to recovery. I ordered my first sex toy and it was a disaster. It was the iVibe rabbit. Used it for 20 minutes and NOTHING happened. And I mean nothing. No stimulation (the rabbit ears were too flexible and not in a good place). The little bead things were just plain annoying. I am an athletic, petite girl who has never tried anything before. Any help appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members littlefriend Posted August 4, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 4, 2008 Hi and welcome to the board. You can gets lots of good information from the experts around here!This is the first set of toys that I ever ordered. It has 3 different types of popular toys that you could use alone or together to see what type of stimulation you enjoy.I loved 2 of the items and one was just OK to me, but seems to be of favorite of others, so ya never know.white nights kitThere is also one that is called the Chocolate Vibe Kit.Chocolate Vibe Kit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted August 4, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 4, 2008 for some reason...i do not like vibrating, spinning, ect during vaginal penatration. a simple dildo or bullet works best for me. sample around...find what you enjoy. i highly suggest the mini bullet by doc johnson http://shop.tootimid.com/doc-johnson-mini-bullet.aspx it is inexpensive and quiet. let me warn you though, she might be tiny...but she is mighty!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie bluestocking Posted August 4, 2008 Author Newbie Report Share Posted August 4, 2008 for some reason...i do not like vibrating, spinning, ect during vaginal penatration. a simple dildo or bullet works best for me. sample around...find what you enjoy. i highly suggest the mini bullet by doc johnson http://shop.tootimid.com/doc-johnson-mini-bullet.aspx it is inexpensive and quiet. let me warn you though, she might be tiny...but she is mighty!!!what exactly does the bullet do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted August 4, 2008 Report Share Posted August 4, 2008 Welcome bluestocking!! It can take some exerimenting to figure out what you like as far as sex toys go. Bullets are great because you can have a bit more direct stimulation where you need it. Plus, you can use them unintrusively, when having sex with a lover.Welcome, and I hope that you find this site helpful, informational, and I hope you can make some friends here as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members its1013 Posted August 4, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 4, 2008 bluestocking,congratulations on getting out of that aweful relationship. you go girl!my first toy was the cyber skin dildo. i very quickly moved on to vibrators. so the 2nd one i ordered was the cyber skin vibe. and from there i'm off and running. you will be too. different needs, varying fantasies, etc can dictate what you want/need out of a toy. the great thing about this site is that you can return a toy if you don't like it. other sites will ding you for restocking fees if you don't return it under a "mechanically defective" reason. so GO SHOPPING for you and enjoy!sexualpeak, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted August 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Welcome to TT! All the best with your recovery and glad you plan to have some fun along the way. In addition to what others have suggested, why not try the free offers here? It will add some variety at least. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members steely Posted August 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Welcome to the forum. Im sure some of the great gals here will help you find what you like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted August 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 for some reason...i do not like vibrating, spinning, ect during vaginal penatration. a simple dildo or bullet works best for me. sample around...find what you enjoy. i highly suggest the mini bullet by doc johnson http://shop.tootimid.com/doc-johnson-mini-bullet.aspx it is inexpensive and quiet. let me warn you though, she might be tiny...but she is mighty!!!a bullet is a piece of joy that is used for clitoral stimulation only. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted August 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 a bullet is a piece of joy that is used for clitoral stimulation only.LOL AK Piece of joy... Makes me think of honey bunches of oats... "It's like a mouthful of joy"Anyway... My H bought me my first vibrator a few years back. I did not like the vibrations. I felt them too abrasive, it is a feeling you have to get used to for sure if you are inexperienced. Now I love my vibrators! Start small, I think bullets are a good idea. Probably start with a multi speed one so you can adjust to your liking. Get yourself aroused however you choose (fantasize, read a sexy novel, watch a hot movie or a porno etc) RELAX and explore! Let us know how it goes! I bet we'll have great a success story from you soon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cybele Posted August 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Welcome to the forum, bluestocking.First, congratulations on getting out of the abusive relationship. You've come to the right place where the people are wonderful and very supportive. Like you, I never had a toy before finding this site. My favorite is the bullet for the reasons mentioned above. It's discreet; it's cute; it gives stimution exactly where I want it; it doesn't leave toothpaste in the bathroom sink; and I don't have to do its laundry. I may just marry the little sucker. Take care and hope to see you again in the forum. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted August 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 The sex toy topic has many reviews that may be helpful for you. Others here have already tested them and give good descriptions about the results that they discovered. The free offers here will save you money in the process if you wish to experiment. It may take a minute but you chould be able to find something you really enjoy and things seem to take off from there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted August 5, 2008 Review Team Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 My favorite is the bullet for the reasons mentioned above. It's discreet; it's cute; it gives stimution exactly where I want it; it doesn't leave toothpaste in the bathroom sink; and I don't have to do its laundry. I may just marry the little sucker.LOL - I have a friend who is in a bad relationship but thinks she has to stay for some reason. I told her if it is love she needs, get a dog. For everything else she may "need" a man for, there are toys!She doesn't appreciate my advice! Kind of a prude.Welcome bluestocking and you will find something you like. I find that some days the toys that do it for me are different from what worked best last time. I have a variety of things in many colors, shapes and speeds. That is the great think about shopping at TT, there is a wide selection and the free offers are great! One of my favs was a freebe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted August 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 I forgot to add, be sure to use lube. It makes everything better IMO. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted August 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Welcome to TT. I glad you've found us here and know this site will offer you a wealth of info and advice if/when you need it. I agree with most all the above comments about direct stimulation to your clitoris. Start there, than add penetration.Most of all have fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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