Uncircumcized Man

[ginshreve]

Hello all,

I've been busy lately and not on the boards much, but when this question came up I knew exactly where to search for answers!

I am getting involved with a wonderful irishman - I get turned on just listening to his voice, as the irish accent is the hottest thing imaginable. When he calls me "me darlin' ", well, that's enough to get me going. We've had some really hot conversations, and through them I have learned that he is not circumcized.

I've had my share of sex partners in my life, but I have never run into this. I know that sounds ignorant but I have just not ever dealt with this. I've seen some u-porn with uncircumsized guys, so I think I know what I might see, but does anybody have any advice for oral and vaginal sex? I hardly know what to think. How do you work the condom??? I think irish is excited about me being a "virgin" to that, but I have to admit I'm a little (maybe a lot?) uneasy.

He seems like a really exciting guy, and I don't want to delay our physical relationship more than I ordinarily would in the course of dating - but I have to say I'm hesitant, partly because I'm not sure what to expect and partly because . . . well, I guess I'm scared. What if I don't like it? What if it seems gross or unclean? What if . . . what if . . . I really need help and advice from both women who have been in my situation and especially from uncircumcized men. What to do??????

Thanks so much -

[angelkisses98]

My hubby is from Norway and is not circumsized. Now, my husband is on the larger side, so there is not a lot of "extra" skin. The one thing that I found is during oral is that he does NOT like the be deep throated. It pulled the skin under his head. Also, if giving a hand job basically the same applies. Grab his shaft more in the middle rather then towards the top. To close to the top pulls at the skin under the head. I had no clue how do deal with this when we started dating. . Took some time to learn what he likes and doesn't. It's really not that big deal. Just start out slow at first, get a feel for the way his skin moves over his penis, where the skin starts to pull ect...good luck and ENJOY!! And yes, an Irish accent is damn sexy!!

[ginshreve]

Thanks, angelkisses - I am so happy that someone can help me here! I would have not thought of any of this. So.... the skin is attached near the head? See, I just have no idea how this works.

Have you and your hubby ever used condoms? How does that work?

[angelkisses98]

Thanks, angelkisses - I am so happy that someone can help me here! I would have not thought of any of this. So.... the skin is attached near the head? See, I just have no idea how this works.

Have you and your hubby ever used condoms? How does that work?

briefly we did., not very well lol..they were to small...so we just 86'd 'em ...and I know what you mean...I wish I knew about this place, to help with some of this stuff.

[blueberry]

moontide - I believe you will realize you were worrying so much about nothing once you get close and personal with your sexy Irish guy:) Problems with oral and vaginal sex? Problems with condoms?? Why do you think there will be any problems because he's not circumcised? All my partners were uncircumcised and I've never had any problems/difficulties because of that (just joy, joy, joy:) ). About it being gross and unclean - if he's a normal guy who pays attention to his personal hygiene, that shouldn't be a problem. About how to physically handle his excitement...well, luckily, he will be there to guide you (if you need any guidance at all). If you're unsure about something, let him take the lead or ask him what he enjoys. Easy, no? I'm sure if he whispers instructions into your ear you won't have any difficulties following them Good luck & have fun!

[ginshreve]

Thanks, for the reassurance, blueberry - you are probably right; maybe I am worrying too much about nothing - I just can't figure out how these practical things will work!! I have no experience with that body part - but I guess he's had experience with it before, LOL. And like I said before, I don't have any experience with this and it is waaaayyy outside my comfort zone. I guess I've lived a pretty white-bread kind of life up to now- spicy in the bedroom but all within a narrow type of man, I guess. And Irish is different on so many levels.

I appreciate ALL responses and experiences with this -

[ginshreve]

briefly we did., not very well lol..they were to small...so we just 86'd 'em ...and I know what you mean...I wish I knew about this place, to help with some of this stuff.

Were condoms problematic because he wasn't circumcized or did it have to do with his size to begin with?

[dscn]

i am uncircumcized and I think that it's normal the skin won't be a problem once he grooms himself and wash it when he showers and even before some when i know I am going to have sex I would go to the bathroom to check and make sure it is clean. Once he is hygenic and it will be ok and the skin thing it should not be a problem

[ginshreve]

i am uncircumcized and I think that it's normal the skin won't be a problem once he grooms himself and wash it when he showers and even before some when i know I am going to have sex I would go to the bathroom to check and make sure it is clean. Once he is hygenic and it will be ok and the skin thing it should not be a problem

Thanks, dscn - I have done some more research and come to that same conclusion - I am not sure why I was so freaked out initially, I guess because it was a new thing to me - and it just looks so different from what I am used to.

But help me with this: Do condoms just go on right over everything? Have you had any problems with them? Thanks so much -

[ladylove]

**I have never had a uncircumcised man, does it feel any different?**

[BradlyDD]

I used to be uncircumsized...in fact, it wasn't until I was 16 before I had the surgery to become circumsized. the sex before and the sex after is night and day. I'll give a bried rundown of how it "feels".

Before circumcision: You have to use a totally different technique to jack off, and receive oral sex. When I use to masturbate uncircumsized i could not use lube or make long, full strokes. There is a lot less feeling when receiving oral sex because the head of my cock was covered by a layer of skin. I never did get off to oral while being circumsized! Just be careful when masturbating because it can hurt very badly!

After circumcision; WOW! It is totally different. I guess since the head was covered up for so many years it grew sensative? IDK, but the difference is noticeable immediately. The sensation is greater and it also opens doors to different, better ways to cum. When I used to watch porn I wondered how the women would jack the guys and it not hurt! After the surgery, and I was all healed up, my gf could get me off in less than 2 minutes!

Only downside is the sex doesnt last as long as before, but the orgasm's feel much, much, better!

jr

[dscn]

for me condoms is it ok I just put it on like anyother guy and it's no difference to me. yeah it takes awhile to get off from oral but i think it depends on how horny you are. and what jr345 says about jacking off i have no problem doing it it takes no time when I want to the forskin does not bother me at all that is just me.

[ladylove]

I used to be uncircumsized...in fact, it wasn't until I was 16 before I had the surgery to become circumsized. the sex before and the sex after is night and day. I'll give a bried rundown of how it "feels".

Before circumcision: You have to use a totally different technique to jack off, and receive oral sex. When I use to masturbate uncircumsized i could not use lube or make long, full strokes. There is a lot less feeling when receiving oral sex because the head of my cock was covered by a layer of skin. I never did get off to oral while being circumsized! Just be careful when masturbating because it can hurt very badly!

After circumcision; WOW! It is totally different. I guess since the head was covered up for so many years it grew sensative? IDK, but the difference is noticeable immediately. The sensation is greater and it also opens doors to different, better ways to cum. When I used to watch porn I wondered how the women would jack the guys and it not hurt! After the surgery, and I was all healed up, my gf could get me off in less than 2 minutes!

Only downside is the sex doesnt last as long as before, but the orgasm's feel much, much, better!

jr

That in itself is a huge argument for circumcision. Did your partner feel a difference too?

[ginshreve]

I used to be uncircumsized...in fact, it wasn't until I was 16 before I had the surgery to become circumsized. the sex before and the sex after is night and day. I'll give a bried rundown of how it "feels".

Before circumcision: You have to use a totally different technique to jack off, and receive oral sex. When I use to masturbate uncircumsized i could not use lube or make long, full strokes. There is a lot less feeling when receiving oral sex because the head of my cock was covered by a layer of skin. I never did get off to oral while being circumsized! Just be careful when masturbating because it can hurt very badly!

After circumcision; WOW! It is totally different. I guess since the head was covered up for so many years it grew sensative? IDK, but the difference is noticeable immediately. The sensation is greater and it also opens doors to different, better ways to cum. When I used to watch porn I wondered how the women would jack the guys and it not hurt! After the surgery, and I was all healed up, my gf could get me off in less than 2 minutes!

Only downside is the sex doesnt last as long as before, but the orgasm's feel much, much, better!

jr

That is somewhat different from what I had read when I was trying to get a handle on this. The articles I read said that the penis was more sensitive when usually covered by the foreskin, and that orgasms were quicker and more intense. Without the foreskin, the articles said that the head would be less sensitive since it is continually exposed to sensations.

I guess we'll see! I am also interested in the question of whether sex feels any different from the woman's perspective - anyone with experience both ways care to share?

[ohshelly]

Alright, I will add my two cents, too!

Some of you have heard this before, so I apologize.

All my partners where circumcised until I met my SO.

He isn't cut.

I was probably as curious about my new play thing as you are!

An uncircumcised penis is interesting, and you will enjoy the differences if all you are used to is the other.

The skin is attached right below the head. I suggest a medical website for clear detailed pictures if you want a closer look.

They're not nearly as scary as they sound! ha~ha

This is my/our experience.

As my guy becomes more aroused, the head of his penis starts poking out, and when he is fully aroused, the head is totally exposed.

He loves it when I start a blow job lightly running my tounge around under the skin and gently licking him. Drives him crazy!

As far as durring sex, the skin is retracted, but does add some extra 'girth'. He has been able to make me squirt when all others have failed!

From what I have notice between him and other partners, My guy's penis seems much more sensitive. I think because the head doesn't rub

on his clothing all day.

Unless he is unusally large, condoms fit exactly the same way.

Personally, I LOVE my guys penis, and now wouldn't like one any other way.

When the time comes, do some playing, up close kissing and touching. Watch his penis change

and read his reactions. Ask him what feels good and what might not. He will appreciate your candor, and the

idea that you want to learn about his body and please him.

In all your new exploration. don't forget to relax and enjoy your own body and its response to him!

That is, after all what it is all about.

Best wishes and enjoy!

[ladylove]

Did you discover the uncircumcised yet? Tell, us. Inquiring minds want to know. Seriously, I'm curious if you thought it was that different.

[ginshreve]

Did you discover the uncircumcised yet? Tell, us. Inquiring minds want to know. Seriously, I'm curious if you thought it was that different.

Thanks for the follow up, ladylove and especially thanks to ohshelly. Ohshelly reinforced much of what I had learned through independent study on the web.

Haven't met my irishman in person, yet - our planned meet this month got postponed, and he's in ireland for the summer - it will have to wait until he gets back in August/September.

I promise a full report!!

[ladylove]

Thanks for the follow up, ladylove and especially thanks to ohshelly. Ohshelly reinforced much of what I had learned through independent study on the web.

Haven't met my irishman in person, yet - our planned meet this month got postponed, and he's in ireland for the summer - it will have to wait until he gets back in August/September.

I promise a full report!!

I'll be waiting waiting bated breath!

[sexlesshousewife]

husband is uncirced...we didn't know it (he even wanted our son circed) until one day I said "are you sure? cuz you have a lot of extra skin" and I really don't think he is. I always thought something was different about his penis! lol. no scar, and feels a lot better, and when erect, looks 99% like a circ'd man, except this is no scarring!

uncirc is the way to be - and most of the world IS that way, thankfully our son was not circ'd - too brutal of a practice and too unnecessary for me to allow him to be taken into surgery at only a few days old just for cosmetic reasons!!

[ladylove]

I used to be uncircumsized...in fact, it wasn't until I was 16 before I had the surgery to become circumsized. the sex before and the sex after is night and day. I'll give a bried rundown of how it "feels".

Before circumcision: You have to use a totally different technique to jack off, and receive oral sex. When I use to masturbate uncircumsized i could not use lube or make long, full strokes. There is a lot less feeling when receiving oral sex because the head of my cock was covered by a layer of skin. I never did get off to oral while being circumsized! Just be careful when masturbating because it can hurt very badly!

After circumcision; WOW! It is totally different. I guess since the head was covered up for so many years it grew sensative? IDK, but the difference is noticeable immediately. The sensation is greater and it also opens doors to different, better ways to cum. When I used to watch porn I wondered how the women would jack the guys and it not hurt! After the surgery, and I was all healed up, my gf could get me off in less than 2 minutes!

Only downside is the sex doesnt last as long as before, but the orgasm's feel much, much, better!

jr

husband is uncirced...we didn't know it (he even wanted our son circed) until one day I said "are you sure? cuz you have a lot of extra skin" and I really don't think he is. I always thought something was different about his penis! lol. no scar, and feels a lot better, and when erect, looks 99% like a circ'd man, except this is no scarring!

uncirc is the way to be - and most of the world IS that way, thankfully our son was not circ'd - too brutal of a practice and too unnecessary for me to allow him to be taken into surgery at only a few days old just for cosmetic reasons!!

If done correctly, the actual circumcision is not a brutal practice and some feel it is more hygienic. Also JR345 makes a very fine point.

[sun_flower969]

If done correctly, the actual circumcision is not a brutal practice and some feel it is more hygienic. Also JR345 makes a very fine point.

Except that he was also pretty young when he had it done. Who knows if things would have changed anyway, you know?

I have had experience with both and I can honestly say, although it has been awhile, it did not feel any different internally.

[ladylove]

Except that he was also pretty young when he had it done. Who knows if things would have changed anyway, you know?

I have had experience with both and I can honestly say, although it has been awhile, it did not feel any different internally.

He was 16 which is much older than most of the population who have it done. Sunny I have to say there are time when you can feel the every ridge, vein every everything. With the extra skin is it a non-issue while the man is erect or does the skin still have movement which may impede some of that?

[sun_flower969]

He was 16 which is much older than most of the population who have it done. Sunny I have to say there are time when you can feel the every ridge, vein every everything. With the extra skin is it a non-issue while the man is erect or does the skin still have movement which may impede some of that?

No but I meant that he was young and dint have much sexual experience at that point I am fairly certain. So things could have still changed from there on out despite having a foreskin.

When an uncircumcised man is erect the skin gets stretched out... think of an accordion. When it is collapsed it is all folded up but when you stretch it out the folds expand. You may feel slightly more texture there but not a lot. Again I was YOUNG when I had this experience so take that into consideration.

[ladylove]

No but I meant that he was young and dint have much sexual experience at that point I am fairly certain. So things could have still changed from there on out despite having a foreskin.

When an uncircumcised man is erect the skin gets stretched out... think of an accordion. When it is collapsed it is all folded up but when you stretch it out the folds expand. You may feel slightly more texture there but not a lot. Again I was YOUNG when I had this experience so take that into consideration.

Thanks Sunny

[Still learning]

Hello all,

I've been busy lately and not on the boards much, but when this question came up I knew exactly where to search for answers!

I am getting involved with a wonderful irishman - I get turned on just listening to his voice, as the irish accent is the hottest thing imaginable. When he calls me "me darlin' ", well, that's enough to get me going. We've had some really hot conversations, and through them I have learned that he is not circumcized.

I've had my share of sex partners in my life, but I have never run into this. I know that sounds ignorant but I have just not ever dealt with this. I've seen some u-porn with uncircumsized guys, so I think I know what I might see, but does anybody have any advice for oral and vaginal sex? I hardly know what to think. How do you work the condom??? I think irish is excited about me being a "virgin" to that, but I have to admit I'm a little (maybe a lot?) uneasy.

He seems like a really exciting guy, and I don't want to delay our physical relationship more than I ordinarily would in the course of dating - but I have to say I'm hesitant, partly because I'm not sure what to expect and partly because . . . well, I guess I'm scared. What if I don't like it? What if it seems gross or unclean? What if . . . what if . . . I really need help and advice from both women who have been in my situation and especially from uncircumcized men. What to do??????

Thanks so much -

When you get going I hope you also take the time to stimulate your man's penis whether oral or by hand - I can be very happy by hand - so in the play, just enjoy the fact you enjoy having his penis in your care and control, you make him hard and feel good, and when fully erect the skin over the head should not be too much of an issue anymore.

Instead of focussing on that extra skin be a bit selfish. Feel proud you make him feel good and you make him hard for you, feel his hardness for you. Also take pleasure in how good it feels for you.

Take the time to uncover the head to stimulate it as he grows hard and swells under your care, enjoy the fact he is enjoying your attention. Sounds cheesy? I don't care. While I am circumsized I loved receiving the loving as well as giving it and no shame saying so.