Members Sunday Posted August 5, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 Is this poor guys wife some kind of religious prude?? It says in the Bible its a wifes duty to honor her husband. As I see it honoring her husband means loving him in the most carnal manner. She needs to put her selfishness aside and take care of her hubby.Wouldn't it have made life a whole lot easier if instead of saying, "its a wifes duty to honor her husband." it had said, "It's the wife's duty to bend over and spread 'em 3 times a week, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted August 5, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 Wouldn't it have made life a whole lot easier if instead of saying, "its a wifes duty to honor her husband." it had said, "It's the wife's duty to bend over and spread 'em 3 times a week,Only 3x a week Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sunday Posted August 5, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 Only 3x a week Maybe there could be a special religious order for women of your high level of religious commitment LL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted August 5, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 Maybe there could be a special religious order for women of your high level of religious commitment LL. :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mark924 Posted August 5, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 I am a new member here and this is the 1st thread that I have read in it's entirety.For those who think that it is OK for Joes wife to refuse to have sex with him, what would you think of Joe if he didn't feel like talking or listening to his wife for months, or even years at a time. No talk, no listening. Not one word, just becuase he doesn't feel like it anymore.Would that be ok?Mark.(A formally refused husband) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted August 5, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2009 I am a new member here and this is the 1st thread that I have read in it's entirety.For those who think that it is OK for Joes wife to refuse to have sex with him, what would you think of Joe if he didn't feel like talking or listening to his wife for months, or even years at a time. No talk, no listening. Not one word, just becuase he doesn't feel like it anymore.Would that be ok?Mark.(A formally refused husband)You have a good point, neither is right. If the man is at fault I would assume he was cheating, because what man wouldn't want sex? But rationally I know that doesn't have to be the case. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ManofHerdreams Posted August 6, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 6, 2009 Only 3x a week For some of us that would be a 300% increase over what we are getting now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted August 6, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 6, 2009 For some of us that would be a 300% increase over what we are getting now you need to slip your wife some female viagra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ManofHerdreams Posted August 6, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 6, 2009 you need to slip your wife some female viagra If I had some I would Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted August 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 If I had some I would well man what are you waiting for.... christmas? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ManofHerdreams Posted August 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Well it's not like I can run to the convenience store and pick some up!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted August 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Well it's not like I can run to the convenience store and pick some up!!!!!!!!!! Cant you get a free sample? LOLhttp://freeviagrasample.net/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted August 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 Cant you get a free sample? LOLhttp://freeviagrasample.net/You are to much fun Sunny! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted August 7, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 7, 2009 You are to much fun Sunny!LOL! Thanks! I hope so!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mark924 Posted August 12, 2009 Members Report Share Posted August 12, 2009 You have a good point, neither is right. If the man is at fault I would assume he was cheating, because what man wouldn't want sex? But rationally I know that doesn't have to be the case.Yes, exactly. Both are wrong.In my example I was trying think of something that was as important to a wife as sex is to a husband.BTW. I have a friend who refused her husband for abouit 25 years. She has since changed her ways.Her blog can be found at http://passionwithinmarriage.blogspot.com/ and I highly recommend it.Mark Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted September 15, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 15, 2009 Yes, exactly. Both are wrong.In my example I was trying think of something that was as important to a wife as sex is to a husband.BTW. I have a friend who refused her husband for abouit 25 years. She has since changed her ways.Her blog can be found at http://passionwithinmarriage.blogspot.com/ and I highly recommend it.MarkI read this blog it's kinda' interesting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mark924 Posted September 16, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 16, 2009 I read this blog it's kinda' interestingI think so too.I also think it is relevent to this discussion since the blogger Gemma was a refusing wife for 25 years, but is not any more.Mark Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted September 18, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 Mikayla, what ever happened to this couple? are they still together or have they split? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted September 18, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 They are still together. They are in counseling, but my friend says she is resistant to listening to the counselor. The counselor explained how sex is intimacy; and is important in a relationship. His wife simply says, 'but I don't want to have sex.' Then the counselor goes through why, and it is a giant cycle. My friend says the counselor pretty much said, 'if you don't want to be helped here, as in, be receptive to ideas, than nothing will change.'That is the truth of every relationship, if you are not receptive to at least THINKING of ideas and compromising, then there is no or very little hope, right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted September 18, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 That really to bad..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted September 18, 2009 Review Team Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 ...My friend says the counselor pretty much said, 'if you don't want to be helped here, as in, be receptive to ideas, than nothing will change.'...It's sad, but I have learned the hard way many times that a person has to want to change or nothing will make them change. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mailahn97 Posted September 18, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 It's sad, but I have learned the hard way many times that a person has to want to change or nothing will make them change.Exactly...no matter how many times you talk to them, do things to spice things up or whatever it isn't just going to magically change them. Unfortunately though people still stay in these situations even though they are not completely happy. Yes they may love the person but I think the romantic love eventually is replace by more of a love out of friendship. They just haven't opened their eyes and realized that transformation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted September 18, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 Well, the thing is, now he is really resenting her and they really don't even talk, none-the-less have a relationship or friendship. I can't say it is unrealistic. IF you loved someone who continually turned you down, I guess eventually you would have enough and just want out. That is where he is now, and I don't blame him one bit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted September 18, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 It's obvious she wants nothing to do with putting any effort for fixing the marriage. And at this point, I don't think anyone would blame him for leaving. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted September 19, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 19, 2009 It's obvious she wants nothing to do with putting any effort for fixing the marriage. And at this point, I don't think anyone would blame him for leaving.Yep! Life is too short to live "without". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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