I, masturbate quite regularly since my wife's sex drive has gone down over the past couple years. We have never masturbated in front of each other. I, have on occasion played with myself in front of her when we are getting ready to have intercourse. At first she was surprised because she had never been with a man who did that and was comfortable with it. I, asked her if she masturbated before and she said yes but never in front of any body. I, have got her to play with herself while we were having intercourse but, she only does it when she is really horny. My wife knows I JO quite regularly but doesn't know I have started to play with myself anally or with toys. I, am constantly looking for new ways to get off since plain old jerking off has gotten boring which has led me to the toys and playing with my ass. And by the way I am "cut".