Yes I have had sex with a gay male, one of the best friends I have ever had. It happened About two years ago. My fiance passed away a year earlier and he broke off a four year relationship soon after. We were visiting each other one weekend and were talking about how we were in the same situation as far as being single and not ready for a relationship yet. We had been drinking and talking for several hours and the subject of not having sex for almost a year came up. He decided that we should watch a porn and masterbate. I thought he was joking , so I asked him if he would have sex with a straight guy. This was my first time having sex with a man and give a blowjob.