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Then my dirty secret would no longer be a secret. And my secrets definitely need to remain secrets. Besides, secrets are more fun when they are secret.

Never been to a glory hole, but it's near the top of my list. For me, completely anonymous sex like this is somehow very appealing. No names. No faces. No history. No Phone Numbers. No drama. Just raw, unadulterated sex for the purpose of sex.

I see nothing wrong with being submissive to someone I'm sexually interested in. Why would you not want to provide sexual pleasure in any form necessary to make someone close to you feel sexually satisfied? The scenario you mentioned above is particulary compelling because that request (or I guess demand) makes me feel attactive, knowing that I am able to satisfy him sexually by simply opening my mouth.

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Yep!

Not sure, but there needs to be more guys like you. So pass the word to all your friends on how much fun oral pleasure is!

I've know a few guys that were into it. I think it's becomming more common, so I rarely go two weeks without a visit to the nail salon (pedicure and manicure).

The way it was introduced to me the first time we were watching a porn video. And before long he said "hey would you like to try that? It looks like fun". And it was.

Rarely use lube to masturbate, unless I'm using a toy. Which I guess implies most of the time I'm not using a toy. And I think the reason I don't use lube with my finger(s) is because I rarely start a masturbation session when I'm not already naturally lubed to some degree.

Not sure I could masturbate in the woods. I prefer to be comfortable so I can take my mind off of everything except my imagination. And "woods" and "comfortable" just don't seem to go hand in hand (or fingers in my case - again, pun intended). Bugs, snakes, rocks, poison ivy, etc. Nope, I prefer my bed or couch.

Now I can understand that. I've never watched a group of guys masturbate in person (only in videos), and it does sound like it would be fun! And also use it as a learning experience - watching what each of them were getting off to.

I'm generally happy with any kinda "O". Rarely am I able to achieve a big "O" on my own. But when it happens, now that makes my day! 😄

Sounds like you ran across "professionals". Regarding women you meet at bars, you have to make friends with them first. Very few women are gonna say yes to that invitation from a stranger, including ME. So you need to SINCERELY try to get to know women you meet at a club. I can always spot someone who isn't sincere. Always. Once you do, then before you know it the subject of sex will arise (pun intended), and you'll have a FWB.

Done it a few times. Twice when I was by myself - curiousity got the better of me I guess.

Often in my bed in the mornings. My mind and imagination starts racing and one thing leads to another.

Not "to" them, but yes "with" them.

I've experienced it. Didn't enjoy it at first, but I was learning to. He didn't really enjoy it all that much - at least not as much as other forms of sex (vaginal and oral). Not sure if he was typical of most men, but I don't understand how guys could prefer it to doggy style vagina sex or a great blow job.

I've done it a couple of times when asked. Not sure why that turns guys on, but I guess it does. I enjoy swallowing cum, but watching a guy eat his own does not turn me on.

Exactly. If there isn't total healing, isn't the bond between the two diminished to some degree? And you really can't have true love without complete trust and a concrete bond.

Not sure, but not complaining. I hear everything is bigger in Texas.

I think that whole squirting thing is made up. I've had some great orgasms over the years and no squirting. Maybe he's doing something wrong? 🙄

Yes, as long as love isn't killed first.

If I'm restricted to the dressing room at Victoria's Secret, I can do that. 😃

These days, ballroom. 😉

Ask him if there is something HE wants YOU to do that would excite HIM. Not many men would say no to that (but there are some - more on that below). If he says yes, that should improve your sexual encounters, and at some point, unless he's a real asshole, he should return the favor and ask you the same question. That's your chance to tell him what you want. And don't hold back! The only way this could fail is if he does say no to your initial question, . If that happens, your only hope is to find a new sexual partner.