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Looks great, Rob! Thanks!

Aargh.. I had this all typed and then I lost it. Fun question; shouldn't take me too long to recreate my list. *chuckle* Hustler Rock-It (x2) Silver Bullet Glow In The Dark Jelly Penis Vibe Masagi Glass Dildo Tera Patrick's Heart-On (cockring with bullet) TooTimid Lube Sparkling, Vibrating Egg Tie the Knot restraint kit 2 DVDs 14" blue rubber whip Erotic Butterfly Doc Johnson's Go Vibe (actually in my purse, not the toybox) Meta-Gel Heart-On Pleasure Beads 2 G-spot vibes Blue Man Corkscrew Astroglide WET! Cherry flavored lube antibacterial wipes (actually in the bathroom, not the toybox) Viva cream

Sounds awesome! These look so funny to me, but I've really been wanting to try one -- the Clit Lick's been clicked to the wishlist! (not quite the tongue twister - no pun intended - but still tough to say *chuckle*) Great review!

I'd been looking at this and wondering how good it was! I think this'll be added to my wishlist, matey! Aargh! Great review!

Welcome and congratulations on your openess to experiment! Your first shopping experience sounds like mine was: I was looking for our first toy that wouldn't be too intimidating and scare my husband off to the idea of something new to add to our love-making. The egg you mention was the special of the week, so I ordered it. It was simple to use, FUN to use, and definitely not scary in the least. I think it's one of the best 'first toys' there are. It also led to more shopping, be warned! Hehe! This is a wonderful place to share your experiences, get friendly-but-straight forward advice and just feel comfortable doing so. "Clean" is an excellent description. Welcome again and can't wait to read your review!

Mine, too, was messed up when I first started, but then soon after became VERY regular... and blessedly, only one day long. Give your body some time to regulate itself and get used to the changes you're asking it to go through. As always, if you don't feel comfortable about something, ask your doctor -- that's what they get the big bucks for!

I'm no longer on the pill, but I was for about 15 years. I was on Ortho Novum 777 for most of that time, then was switched to Ortho Low when that came out. It didn't happen right off, but after a few years, yah, my sex drive went down the toilet, too. *chuckle* Once I got off the pill, I think it wasn't long (A month? That seems to make sense, anyway.) before all systems were go and my husband was also a much happier camper. Because I was on the pill for so long, I did ask my doctor that question, about if I needed to give my body a break period and get off the pill for a while. I don't remember exactly what she said, but she told me that because pills have been changed over the years, there's no longer a need for women to do that. They're much 'better' than they used to be. Obviously, I suggest asking your doctor (or, preferably a pharmacist, because as previously mentioned, they are schooled in the drugs, their interactions and make-ups, whereby your doctor isn't to that extent and may have to go by what an outdated drug guide has to tell them)!

Congratulations all around! For your up and coming new living arrangements, for her successes and for yours! As Mikayla said, "you are truly a man among men!" It's wonderful you were so patient and loving and didn't give up just because it was a less-than-perfect situation, and it's wonderful that she allowed herself to be more open and learn. Right on!

Yesterday, another magical box with the return address of "Atlantic Innovations" (AKA TooTimid) arrived in the mail! One of the items was the Tera Patrick Heart-On Wireless Lovemaker. Hubba Hubba. This stretchy, jelly ring has adorable little hearts around it for a "textural delight." At the top (or bottom, depending on how you wear it!) there is a second ring. This ring holds a small bullet and has a bigger jelly heart shape set juuuuust right for hitting a woman's clit. There was no scent to it, but as always, we cleaned it real quick with soap and water and an antibacterial wipe. Then we inserted three of the six free, commonly found watch batteries (gotta love that!) and placed the bullet in its holding ring. A side note about the bullet and its holding ring: You may or may not need to use lube to push it in there. I had grabbed our TooTimid lube, thinking it might need it, but my husband slid the bullet in with no troubles. After a lot of fun with foreplay, my husband slipped the ring over his erect penis and turned the bullet on. We’ve used a couple cock rings before, and they were a NICE addition to our love making. Usually at orgasm, we’ll just make sure the bullet-piece of the ring is against my clit, and the vibrations there are perfect to increase my orgasm. But last night, I tell ya... we may have been in the traditional missionary position, but pretty much all that man had to do was enter me and hold himself up!! I was grinding and rolling myself against him and that jelly heart, screaming nonstop from one long orgasm. It was incredible! My legs weren't working for a while after we were done. *chuckle* I asked my husband what he thought of it. Not being one for a lot of words, he said it was ‘okay,’ then reminded me that it was the amount of noises I make that drive him wild, so in that respect is was great! I caught him musing over turning it around for ‘next time,’ too, so I think he liked it juuuust fine. My family always says I wear my heart on my sleeve, and now I can yummily tease my husband that he wears his Heart-On his penis and I wouldn’t have it any other way!

*laugh laugh laugh*

Congratulations!!! I'm always so happy and proud to hear of women, especially mothers, who've gone back to school and completed a degree they've wanted. Also, as Tyger said, it's great to hear of other successes in each other's lives! Good for you!!

My husband recently surprised me by doing this! He was totally driving me crazy one night... tongue-pleasured me for a while, then entered me... kept 'all of a sudden' switching back and forth like that... tongue, penis, tongue, penis. I was going nuts! When he finally came, I was on overload, still wanting more orgasms, and I think he knew this, so he pulled out and went down! I was shocked he did it, but he enjoyed himself, and I REALLY enjoyed myself! I just asked him about it.. of course he blushed, but he said, "It was fun. ...Shouldn't it be? " He says it's a completely different taste altogether, when his and my juices were mixed. It's not like he was purely swallowing himself!

Sexyeyes... reading your last post infuriated me. I can't believe a man would treat his wife that way. Takes your hand and pushes it away...? Points out places you need to lose weight DURING sex? Oh honey, that's a man I wouldn't want or let touch me! My opinion: he sounds like an ass. Like Howard mentioned, I wonder how he treats you the rest of the time... doesn't seem like it would be too good. I'm proud of you, though, for one thing in particular that you wrote: "It is his problem not mine." That shows me that, even with how shittily he's treating you, you still have good feelings about yourself. Keep 'em, girl! You should be happy with yourself and don't let him ever make you feel otherwise! If you actually get him to some sort of counselling, bravo and I hope it works, but if you can't or it doesn't... 10 years is a long time of crappy treatment, darlin. Get out and regain your life, be happy with yourself, and maybe someday find that 'right person' who wants you to be happy and pleasured! Please keep us updated!

Well... I'm gonna first hope that your post wasn't a blanket statement about women in general, but maybe in regards to something that happened either in your personal life or someone else's that you know. My husband and I are very often not on a same 'sexual schedule.' Sometimes it gets frustrating, of course, if I'm horney to beat the band and he's not, but I 'suffer through it,' either getting myself off, or just waiting until he's in the mood -- it kinda makes it that much of a better release when that happens. Knowing that I, too, say, 'not tonight, honey,' makes me remember that when he does it, it isn't cuz he's had his fill elsewhere, it's cuz he's just not in the mood! No biggie, at least in our house.

Oi, now you KNOW I can't remember back THAT far!! Although, sitting here thinking back as much as I can is giving me a big smile. *sings* Thaaaanks, for the memories... Hehe. Also, I wanted to let you know you've been coming up with some GREAT questions for us to contemplate! Fun fun!

Thanks, Tyger... now I have 'Coin Operated Boy' stuck in my head. *laugh* On a more serious note, I agree with the others... good luck.

Oh my gosh, it's adorable! Hehe! I love it!

He may very well love you and you him -- I won't even try to dispute that -- but he certainly doesn't respect you, and no offense, it doesn't seem you respect yourself or your son, either. If he respected you and your son, he wouldn't have had the affair in the first place... he wouldn't have had that woman at your house, especially with your son there... he wouldn't write her name on you or bring her up... and he'd have apologized and be thankful every day that you allow him to remain in your life. If you respect yourself and your son, you need to show that boy that what his father is doing isn't right. I don't think that young children need to know the dirty business of their wrong-doing parents, but where he already knows (to some extent) what's going on, he needs to know how to fix it. Hard lesson, but it will help him in his relationship with you as well as with how to treat women in his future. If she's stalking you and your family, you need to find out if your husband is egging her actions on. If he is, that'd be strike two (with many sub-strikes) in my book, and he'd be outta there. If he's not, and her actions are such that the police should be involved, get them involved. The final thing I'll comment on is your 'fantasy' that you mentioned... quite frankly, even though I don't know you, it scared me. I NEVER like hearing people talking of taking their own lives. It's never the solution, especially when you think you have a son to consider. He needs his mother to be a strong force right now. He needs you to take care of both you and him. Please take that into consideration, if nothing else. My basic opinion of your husband: I'd kick his ass to the curb, honey. Please take care of yourself and please pardon my bluntness... apparently I have strong views about this. Let us know how you are.

If you click on the 'sex education' tab up at the top of the page, you'll see some wonderful articles, many of which are about different types of sex play. I'd encourage you (and her, if you could get her to) to read some of these articles that have interest to you. Conversation is the key, though. Away from the bedroom, have a talk with her -- gently, so as not to scare her off further -- and find out her likes, dislikes, what she's maybe thought of trying but is too nervous to, etc. Also share your likes, dislikes, light fantasies. Start simple, work up from there. Hopefully she's agreeable to go this route. Good luck!

*chuckle* That's a great name for it! Like Sylvina, I've used my lips to brush across, and even the flat of my tongue. I tried the palm of my hand last night and he jumped from pleasure! *giggle*

Great to know! Thanks for asking, CL, and for answering, Howard!

Have you read any of the articles on this site about anal sex? They are fantastic and quite educational. Click the 'sex education' tab underneath the TooTimid logo at the top of the page and the article listing will be right there. Have patience, go slooooow and use lots and lots of lube. It can take time to build up to the point where you can take a penis back there. Good luck!

I'm another who prefers girl/girl porn. Yum yum!

Well worded and fully reciprocated.

*rofl* YOU came up with the subject header and WE'RE the pervs? Stay safe, stay dry, and stay connected!