Had a very interesting discussion about this topic in a class this week. I have never tried ID but I know some ppl who are married and happily so. I also know of a guy and girl who met on the net, came to college together, he was just arrested for attempting to meet and seduce a 14 year old that turned out to be an undercover cop. There are ups and downs, but if you are comfortable with it, go for it, just use your head when stepping into cyberspace. The anonymity is a blessing and a curse, the mystery is fun, but be prepared for the reality of it sometimes.