I LOVE to talk dirty to hubby, but I do not get much back. I know this is because he is shy. He likes to hear me talk and tell him what I want or how much I like doing things too him, he does not say much back, he would rather sit back and enjoy the ride. I LOVE all things dirty and tabbo. I would love to get into bondage with the whips and all of that. I think most of our issue her is he is SOOO afraid of hurting me, that is took years for him to be comfortable pulling my hair and slap my ass. We are getting over this though. He is slowly coming over to my dark side!! I just have to be paiteint and let him come to this in his own way. Do not get me wrong, I LOVE our sex life the way it is, and I only want to do thing that get us both off. However, if he wants to tie me up and tell me whata bad girl I am while spanking me, then who am I to disagree!!! AAAHHHH....someday!