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Good job on doing so much better! I know while I was sick of my husband, I didn't want to have sex with him unless it was an all out pornfest. When I'm in that mode, my mind is on one thing and it isn't love. I see that your wife isn't like this though. I see that isn't your wife's problem though. I know I was not interested in sex AT ALL when I was severely depressed. She definitely needs to see her doctor though. Just remember that it isn't your fault. Try not to let yourself feel bad about it. It will just take some time.

Those were awesome! I had to stop a couple times to take care of myself. Please keep writing these. They are great.

I'm sure someone else can say this better but the best way I can describe an orgasm is an explosion of the best physical feeling you can think of accompanied by a muscle spasm. As far as your number goes, I have often thought that mine is too high as well. I know that I used to think that even though most of the guys I was sleeping with didn't care about me, at least I was the most important person in their life for the few minutes it was happening. I wish I hadn't let myself just be a, excuse my language, "fuck" to so many guys. Don't let that happen to you, it feels like crap.

I personally LOVE it, giving and getting. Usually after a long, hot bath together. My husband doesn't let me anywhere near his ass so it has been a while but I always loved how soft it felt on my tongue.

If you're a hot as Aladdin (isn't that your avatar?), I'm sure that percentage is way higher. I got 91%. I have my trainer to thank for that.

Well, I talked to my husband. He usually just blows me off but I made him understand that I was serious. I pretty much stopped talking to my friend. I still talk to him some but not like I was and I told him we probably shouldn't talk about our marriages. I can see that my husband is trying really hard for me. In a way I feel like it's too little too late but I am going to give it a chance. I saw his point of view in a post from a man on the other side of the fence and it really opened my eyes. I love my husband but if he goes back to his old ways, I'm not sure I can stay with him. We are going to start counselling in the next few weeks. Thanks to all of you for your advice. I forgot to add that my husband cooked my part of Thanksgiving dinner and cleaned the whole house while I was shopping on Friday. I was so proud of him and he was GREATLY rewarded.

Whenever I feel like I'm dealing with too much crap in my marriage, I make a list of the good things and the bad things. If the bad ever outweighs the good, I'm gone. There are a couple of deal breakers; if he ever lays a hand on me (hits me) or if he ever has an affair (has sex with another woman without it being my idea), I'm gone. I've been having marital trouble lately and I have decided to work on it because my husband responded when I talked to him. If your boyfriend is checking these dating sites, even if he thinks it's harmless, it will eventually lead to trouble. Maybe try talking to him one last time and tell him you will leave if this continues. Let one of those women from the internet deal with his selfishness. You can always find someone better. Beyonce' said it best, "I can have another you in a minute"

I am really glad you posted this. I can't give you any advice but I can tell you this, I think I understand how your wife feels. I have been in a similar situation lately. I talked to my husband about it and he is trying very hard to do better but my feelings have already changed for him. I turned to another man for the emotional support I should have been getting from my husband and it only made things worse. At first it was better but then I started thinking maybe I would be happier with him. I had to put that out of my head ecause I love my husband. I know that for me to feel the same for my husband, it will take a while and I will have to be sure he isn't going to go back to his old ways. Reading your post made me see his point of view though and I will try to be more understanding of what he is thinking. Good luck, I hope everything goes well, you sound like a nice man and you deserve to be happy. Just because you messed up, doesn't mean you should have to spend the rest of your life paying for it. Please keep us posted on how things are going.

I was like that when I was your age. I had to be led into self-pleasure. Don't feel bad about your inexperience. There are lots of tips here for giving good bj's. Besides, I'm not sure that there is a wrong way to do it. The folks here are very helpful in answering any question you may have. Don't hesitate to ask, no one ever makes you feel stupid here. I've gotten answers to wquestions I would have never dreamed of asking in person. It's really great here.

Our friends visited again this weekend. Our husbands have become great friends. We've been working up to anal using tips from you all. My husband and I watched "Tom" fuck "Leah" in the ass. She was bent over my bed. She looked up at me and asked "how wet is your pussy?" I was wearing a tank top and panties. Her husband said "don't you want to taste it baby?" so I lay down in front of her and she licked the hell out of my pussy. At first she had two fingers in, then three, then four. My husband was going insane. I'm not sure when Tom pulled out of her ass but he kept his erection. She told me to sit up and she slid her whole hand into my pussy. I was so dripping wet. I rocked back and forth on her hand until I came harder than I had ever come before. She then bent me over and prepared my ass for my husband's huge cock. First licking it, then inserting one finger and then two. The lube was so warm, I almost came just by her fingering me. She then guided my husband's dick to my ass. Before she helped him put it in, she lubed him up really well. When he got the whole thing in, it felt so good. I started to eat her pussy but there was no way I could concentrate. When my husband came, she sat on my face. Her pussy tasted so sweet. Last night, my husband and I lay in bed recounting the time we had. We masturbated ourselves to sleep. Every other weekend, our life is one big porn.

You just made my day!

EVERYTHING is better from behind. It doesn't matter if I'm gettting fucked, my pussy licked, or using a vibrator, bent over getting it from the back is the way to go. She doesn't know what she's missing.

Great story! I printed this out and had my husband read it to me while I sucked his dick.

You folks are awesome! WifeMomSlave, you didn't seem rude at all, I appreciate the honesty. Howard, I've been reading these boards for a while and I knew you'd have some good advice. I know I'm not perfect but I try to do everything to make him happy. I often feel like hired help. His upbringing has a lot to do with it. His dad is the same way. He has always been this way to a certain extent, it just gets worse every year. I think a counselor is where we're heading. As for my friend, it's probably a good thing that he lives so far away.

My husband wants to do this to me. In my pussy, not my ass. It just doesn't work for us. I'm not very big but I've seen some small women do it in movies. Is there a trick? I get really wet and we tried using lube.

Poor guy! That sounds horrible! It sounds like Thrush. My son had that when he was a baby.

First let me give you a little background. I've been married for four years. Second marriage for both of us. We have children from our marriages and have one child together. I keep myself up, go to the gym four to six times a week, run 10 miles every morning, I wear makeup and fix my hair. I do this because he had a problem with me wearing pajamas all day after our son was born so I try to always look good. I keep the house fairly clean. As clean as I can to have six kids running around all of the time. I get up and cook him breakfast every morning and have supper waiting on him when he gets home. I give him manicures and pedicures and facials every Sunday. Our sex life is AMAZING, when he wants it to be. I show up at work once a week or so and give him a little afternoon delight. I keep my pubic area however he wants it (he likes to switch up) sometimes it's waxed, natural, even dyed it blue once. Even with six kids, he still gets some kind of sexual pleasure every day. I listen to him gripe about his job and tell him he is the most handsome man in the world every day. He, in turn, takes care of me financially, kills bugs for me, he fixes my car, takes care of the lawn. He is not, however, emotionally "there" for me. He's selfish, he won't listen to me when I have a problem. He says he doesn't care if I do all of these things for him or not but the one day I didn't cook his breakfast in four years, he was so mad at me, he spent the night with his mom and dad. When i talk to him, he always says "Oh, I'm so awful! How can you stand to be with me? Why don't you just go file for divorce." About two months ago, a boyfriend from high school contacted me. We've been talking a few times a week ever since. We haven't seen each other and don't plan to, he lives on the other side of the country. We don't talk about sex or anything like that. We talk about our lives and our children and our marriages. His wife wife is a lot like my husband. This guy listens to me. He actually asks how I'm feeling and is concerned when I feel bad. He was always like that. He says nice things to me without it being sexual and he makes me feel good about myself, like I am actually worth something ouside of the bedroom. He has actually made my marriage better because he is filling a need my husband has no desire to fill. My mom says I'm having an emotional affair. Is that what this is, and if so, why is that so bad? Sorry this is so long!

I've never actually paid or been paid but I have asked my husband for things while I'm riding the hell out of him or he's pounding me from behind. He'll agree to anything

My husband always puts it on when he's fully erect. You should try the one that you can put a silver bullet in. The vibration on my husband's "boys" makes him CRAZY!!!

I don't think you have anything to worry about. One, it's a good thing that the wife doesn't know about you. She might turn into a real beyotch if she finds out about you too soon. Especially before the divorce is final. When my first husband and I got divorced, we had Thanksgiving and Christmas together with our babies and I went to several of his family functions with him, some even without him. Even though it was over, it was difficult to not talk. Eventually we stopped talking as much but we do have a great relationship as far as our children go. I might be worried if your b/f and his ex were confiding in each other about personal problems but it doesn't sound like this is the case. You don't want him to think you are trying to come between him and his kids (we never know what these men are going to think ) so give it a while before you say anything. It isn't ALWAYS true that if a man cheats once, he will cheat again so don't get paranoid. Take care and I hope everything works out.

Pretty much the same thing here, had a period every two weeks for the first three months. Finally my doctor said they weren't strong enough and gave me something else. After that, I could set a clock by it.

That is so funny! I bet you'll never be able to look at a chili dog the same again.

My first marriage ended because of my depression. It is a horrible, helpless feeling to be so sad and know there is no reason at all for it. When I tried to kill myself, my children lived with their dad while I was in the hospital and then I saw what I was going to lose. I had to be at my lowest point to get back up. For a long time I could not understand why he would leave me when I needed him so badly if he loved me. Now I do. He had to take care of himself. I have been on several different meds and the side effects are crappy. Maybe Prozac isn't for her. It made me violent. Your girlfriend needs someone to love her and it is obvious that you do but you have to take care of yourself. Maybe if you just take a break, the two fo you can see how things will be without each other. If she isn't doing all she can for herself, maybe this will make her. You can see how you feel away from that situation and if you decide to part ways, it might not be as hard as breaking it off all at once. Do you have a relationship with her parents? Maybe you can talk to them. I know it's stressful and you are a good man for sticking around. Don't feel bad for feeling the way you do. I almost drove my poor ex-husband to a nervous breakdown. He's better off without me. If your girl loves you like you love her, she will understand that one day.

I'm really sorry for you. Thank God I have never been cheated on (that I know of!) but if I ever was, I'm pretty sure I would not be able to stay with him. It's one thing to have an affair and feel bad about it but it a whole other thing to finger write her name on your back during sex. It makes me so angry I could twist his balls off. Now for the more important issue. Please do what you need to do to get the thoughts of suicide out of your head. I have three inch scars on my wrists for trying that so I know where you are. The first thing my mother said to me was "What would have happened to your babies if you had succeeded?" You don't want that psycho in your son's life. Please see a therapist. No man or sorry excuse for one is worth your life. If you have to leave him, you will eventually get over it. Your son will never get over your death and you will have no control over what will happen to him if you are gone. I might be a freak in the bedroom but I do pray and I will absolutely pray for you tonight. Things will get better.

I'm really sorry for you. Thank God I have never been cheated on (that I know of!) but if I ever was, I'm pretty sure I would not be able to stay with him. It's one thing to have an affair and feel bad about it but it a whole other thing to finger write her name on your back during sex. It makes me so angry I could twist his balls off. Now for the more important issue. Please do what you need to do to get the thoughts of suicide out of your head. I have three inch scars on my wrists for trying that so I know where you are. The first thing my mother said to me was "What would have happened to your babies if you had succeeded?" You don't want that psycho in your son's life. Please see a therapist. No man or sorry excuse for one is worth your life. If you have to leave him, you will eventually get over it. Your son will never get over your death and you will have no control over what will happen to him if you are gone. I might be a freak in the bedroom but I do pray and I will absolutely pray for you tonight. Things will get better.