MsUnexprncd

go seek help.. he is not a man.. alcohol or not.. no woman deserves to go thru that...

I was going to say the same thing as Thurasis, my guy is always telling me he loves pleasing me. When I am enjoying he is too. Just trust that he's enjoying it as much as you are. If not more. I was always thinking about this in the beginning of our relationship too, but when he and i discussed one night, he told me that he loves to pleasure me, and thats more enjoyable....

Don't get frustrated. Once you do, you will find that things will not happen the way you think or the way you want them to. Once out of my long term relationship, and now in my new relationship, I found that I didn't know much about sex, and I came here and read articles and well my man and I experiment. I am not for masturbation myself. I do it from time to time, but i personally prefer the real thing. You need to relax and enjoy your partner when you are with them. Don't worry about is it going to happen, or anything, but how good it feels, and of the person. I found this to work wonderfully for me. And my man doesn't complain about performance. And I dont cum every time that we are together. Its all in how you relate to the situation, how you handle yourself and your partner. Also listen to what these members say, because they've helped me immensely, I'm thinking I need to change my name to something else nowadays Good Luck. MsUnexprncd.

Mikayla, After I posted this, I did just that, it helped. LOL. I forgot to come back and post NM, I followed the tabs on the site LOL. Thanks

I'm having issues knowing if I have cummed or not. I know that sometimes women don't every time but should I atleast feel something? Its not like that all the time, just sometimes, I dont know if I have or not. I know he has, but not me. One of his goals when we make love is to have me cum, and sometimes it just doesn't happen. I know I am wet, but is that the same? or am I doing something wrong?

Well I am not as good with my words as all of you are, but as time goes on, I hope to be able to help someone else like you've all helped my bf and I.

I had a question tonight but I didn't want to repeat, so I went looking through the other pages, and found questions that I have and now I got my answers. I just wanted to say Thanks to all of you, that answer our posts, and help us out. I may not post often but I am coming to the site daily, to try and read and check things out. As I am in a new relationship, and I wanted to make sure that I was able to pleasure my man, like he does me (note the login name of mine) And without going into full details, I'd like to say, that after reading things on here, the last 2 visits from my boyfriend, have us speechless, and smiling ear to ear, and wishing we could go on and on. And sometimes we do. Someone actually asked me one day, what can they do to please their gf, I told them to just do what feels right and what satisfies the both of them. And most important. Relax and Have Fun. Its truth. Thanks again everyone for making my sex life, grow into something wonderful Unexprncd

I'm with Trista ! LOL I want that too LOL

My personality (does that count?) lol, if not hair, and then lips, then hands

yayyy ! Congrats Hope it continues for you and your hubs.

Well the thing I am interested in changing isn't him but me. And we are working on that. Note the We. I would like to be more active in bed, my past relations were kinda boring, so this new man in my life, is a big change, and we are always talking and trying to figure new things out. So I guess nothing change, since we are working on it LOL

Ohhh yes, Love the accents on men. Drives me crazy.

Nevermind. LOL I found it in another part of the forum

Both the above have given good advices. You need to communicate with your boyfriend, and make sure that he understands you and your body, as well as you too. I have found that men like odd things, but if we give it a chance, we just might like it too Good Luck and Play safe

This is a good question. And like new again, in some ways. I am new to the dating scene as well. I want to make sure to have protection for when the moment happens. I am not sure what to get. I bought Trojan-Enz, spermicidal lubricant condoms, but then I have read where its not a good thing, not as good or something. I would like to know what to get. I have never bought any to begin with, so its new to me. Thanks in Advance