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Thank you for your concern, haha as a matter of fact when I first noticed it my mind automatically went to the worst possible thoughts, but thanks for the input. Yes the doctor will know for certain at that point what it may be, its kind of hard to even get a good idea of what it is myself, it doesn't hurt or anything like that... its just... there '_' hahaha

looks like i left again for a long period of time, wella blog is a place like myspace.com or greatestjournal.com i also seem to have a slight medical scare, posted it on the anal sex forums

Its been a long time since I was last here, but I do know that when I can not find help esewhere, yall are reliable. Now I have always been big on anal sex, and being clean about it. I have only been with one person who was willing to have analsex with me, I was the one receiveing in these instances, both of us clean so forth like that. And its been over a year now since we last did anything, basically abstinent(sp?) ever since, got checked up once eight months after, came off as clean, and now a concern. Slight bump on the lips at the entry to the rectum appeared suddenly two weeks ago, about two millimeter by two millimeter I believe, so fricking small. I have done research on what I figured it could have been (going to doctors next week), but have already checked out some things, such as information regarding genital warts, HIV infections, so forth, and it still does not quite fit the bill on either of those items. Any ideas before I go to the docs? *edit* as extra information to assist with... well assistance; never had any problems with pain no bleedage ever condums used always except for when he rimmed before anal lots of lube used always (few times with silicone based lube) and only did it about 8 times, i have always been big on anal masturbation so handling him was easy

hello, its been a while... long while since i was last on here so i decided to check out the posts and review things before jumping back in. his point is pretty valid yep, i do swallow when i'm with a guy (so far only one and that was last year and lasted for a while), but as to reasons why, for me i see it as part of it, part of the fun of it, personally didnt notice much of a taste tho but thats me. only concern i ever really had though was to make sure he was clean (tested as i was), the transmission of S.T.D.'s and anything relating to sucking works me into a knot, i dont want anything disrupting my fun.

for me pain was never there until i tried the real thing, we used same old same old stuff, condums, lube (my fav cherry flav warming gel heh heh), i just had to get used to the diference from my vibes, although i still strictly prefer vibes... and an understanding lady hmmm i sure havent been around for a long time, this place looks different

haha i like doing household chores more than my girlfriend *_*; ...... ; haha, but i do see what your speaking of, what works well for my gf is sucking and licking of her nipples and gently massaging her clitoris. works for us like that. jeez i havent been here in a long while...

aye, it broke up rather quickly. her words went soemthing along the lines of 'your too much for me.' also we had some differences that may have been a bit big for her, i'm republican and shes liberal. and meanwhile she is a somewhat experimental individual, i found out rather quickly that underneath that tough act she had on the outside, underneath she was soft... that wasn't what i was wanting. so she broke it off after two months and that was the end of it. oh well, onward in the search of someone else... yeah i realized it was you after a while of thinking about the email address in the notif. coouldn't figure it out for a while yeah im back, im revisitng a lot of sites i had been hanging around but then classes came and swallowed life up for a while. i'm active once more in 5 blogs (here, tspa.com, gj.com, gaia.com, lj.com) its the social life for me now, gotta go find a new girl in town...

Hey 12gauge sure been a long ass time since i was last in here. i got an email notif that i had a reply out here somewhere, said it was from you, but i dont remember exactly. did you send me something? just asking, i deleted the notif. too soon ; as to country61 my advice would be basically the same as 12guages *thumbs up*

Man I have not posted here for months now, phew. Cleanliness is important, your right about the turn off I know that for sure With me I have always used this one little saying, be clean, be safe, and have fun, it all starts from there. Now as to anal prep work, I adjust my diet if we are going to do anything anal on myself, I also play in the shower before doing anything anal, jsut how I prep *shrug* Hmm, starting positions, yeah don't really want to start off with doggy for anal, now that I'm used to it, I like it. After several hours and completely wiped out muscles in there actaully will have had a work-out (then I go off to karate practice and wonder why doing chinese splits starts to irrate me). But yeah, douching, not something I'd really want to do... Oh well its nice to be back, met alot of wonderful people at the university I started at. Think I wrote too much again...

very good story indeed. ur absolutely right about the anal orgasm also! i put that first when im playing around, normally i go for the entire night, lots of fun there lots of anal orgasms.

I SAY SEXY! hehe, i mean hell i dont have a porn star's body, so ill go with sexy because i believe that so long as she knows herself then it will be good for us, or something like that..

yeah ur right, it could just be that everyone is different, who knows mine curves similarly to urs, never had a problem withit not looking like some porno guy's dick but thats that, one that curves just right could make it easier to reach the lady's g-spot, neat stuff...

good question, never really thought about it much myself good luck finding an answer tho theres plenty of people here who can help

yea guys get it too. the one time i ever tried anything with a guy, we went with him giving me head and him licking my asshole, a little bit of licking, tonguing, and nibbling and i loved it. and of course i had showered before the whole event. man i havent been here in a while, got a new girlfriend, happier than hell..

Neither for me, I know what I want and according to my friends what I want is neither. There are these ladies i have found in which i see as absolutely the most wonderful peope to around even to just stand next to, and they are what my friends consider to be: average, dont like her hair, dont like her eyes, why isnt she a blonde man? and so forth like that... but for me i dont think i could compare hot and sexy when it comes to women.

I have heard of a problem raised by some of the ladies on here about doing their guy with a strap-on. some felt it was like being a lesbian. but as to us guys, i never thought of it as being homosexual. some how i have since starting to play anally two years ago, connected it to my thoughts on masturbation, in how much more i do it, and how much kinkier i can get...

You know what? After I have anal sex I never get gas, nor does anything come out looser, better is how things do come out though. who knows...

In some of the earlier posts over a girl not being able to climax i saw that some of the ladies talked about prefering dildos, Lisa_Perez has good advice on it. as does jen of course. and then theres oral sex, if you find a guy (like me) who'd be willing to do that you can probably get almost the same reaction from your body as when using a dildo or vibe.

Man lucky you to have a wife like that! I only have ten toys for my ass, but finding a girl that open and willing in my home city is difficult, now as to movies, ive seen a lot of hentai with that, but not very many movies with live actors.

I believe the name of this place is Tootimid.com, dont worry about it, this place is here to make things better. from what i hear from most of the ladies on here some prefer dildos some prefer vibes some prefer anal and some do not... it really depends on what you see in the toy store, perhaps go with something of a color that sticks out to you (for some reason purple sticks out to me and greens my color), or size is big also, waterproof? many more things.... just look for something that you think youd like!

If I get a girlfriend as open minded I'll be sure to at least ry it with her

I used a sock once, but since then I use a lube and my hand, making my hand fall asleep then doing it is something i ahve never heard of.. funny....

Sorry to hear such a thing happened, gotta suck (bad way). I'm with ya on the part about enjoying the dildos but not the actual thing tho.. im using my toy that i mentioned in a short while along with some of the tips provided by analplay4u i think is his username on here...

I did and it was very good advice! Made things so much easier and funner just after the first 5 times doing them...