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Agree as always Mik <3! ..and SS!! Sorry for your battle I hope you will update us a little bit! I have to take breaks also, some nights I am just not feeling it, depression, stress, fatigue... all those things definitely affect my sex drive. The number 1 thing for me though is relaxing!! If I am uptight about something I have to literally take a moment and physically calm down and relax... and "turn off my brain" as you say! I try divert my thoughts to the present and whats happening. Usually it helps! Some days though well I just need a break! Hope things work out!!

I totally agree, though not my absolute favorite I do love it... I don't use my toys all that often but when I am going to through the drawer to grab one and come across the glass one I always say to myself... "Oh yeah, that guy, he's fun!" Definitely does not disappoint!... LOL This is the one I have, it is different on either end which I find pretty cool for variety! Its like 2(or 3)in one!! Click the pic to see the details!

YES I HAVE!!!!!

Welcome back!!

I worry about that ALL the time! We recently moved into an apt and now I am petrified that our neighbors can hear us.. or hear ME as it be... LOL Their office is right above our bedroom and I swear he has some weird habit of bouncing a ball while he is on the pc... you know like a small super ball, I can hear it and we always say to each other, "what is he doing, what IS that??" So anyway we were "doin" it the other night and right in the middle I hear the ball noise again... BUZZKILL! We were like oh GOD did he hear... who knows we got ever it!

LOVE it you are awesome.... and damn!

A bunch... Honestly I can say I have been in love 4 times for certain... a few others are sort of questionable. Like maybe it was infatuation ya know... Miss you MAN how are you??!

last night... "That pussy needs to be fucked so hard"

Um I have written a few stories that are my real life! I have been married for almost 15 years!! Hardly a newlywed!! Here is my most recent entry... Click here!

"Oh baby, I fucked you so hard I think I broke a nut..." (yes he really did say that!)

I remember when we used to be so in love, you and me... Every waking moment, thinking of you. infatuated, thoughts of us two... I believed I would never, gaze upon another and feel the same fire, as with you, my sweet lover... Now after trial and test, betrayal and pain I wonder if I will ever, feel it again... My best friend, my partner, my everything, my heart now it is faded, all broken apart... I remember the longing, the desire, the need, counting the minutes until we could meet... I'd miss you every second. not one day would go by. And when we would part, I couldn't help but cry... So what now my friend? Is it all over, do we face the end? Can we get it back, the way it was before? Or is it all over, the closing of a door... I felt it before will I feel it again? the future is uncertain, I don't want to pretend... I hate to give up, we've been through so much Our life, our children, the feel of your touch You still mean so much to me, that will always be. For now I guess all we can do, is wait, and hope, ...and see.

Hey sweetie sounds pretty common... have you ever read the book by Jennie McCarthy "Belly Laughs" So freakin funny! YOU are not alone!! Click it!

Ohhhh IDK! Maybe we can dare each other to do things outside of our comfort zone come back and report! LOL

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Your friend huh?? Hmmm I would re think that one!!

ALLL RIGHTY!!!! Got a couple thongs, tried a pair last night and not only did I try them, I wore them to work to give them a fair shot!! Here is my conclusion: I think thongs are great for women who are relatively slim, I am quite curvy and at first I did try to fix my "wedge" a bunch of times LOL. I swear it just gets lost up there!!! hahaha I was very aware of it all night but toward the end I stopped noticing. I think I may wear them on occasion but my fave is still the lace boyshorts!

Ditto that!! I just wanted to add... Facebook and online networking sites are havens for cyber sneaking!! If you love your wife and don't want to hurt her, then try to exercise some restraint and be careful! NO JUDGMENT! The thing is you LOVE your wife, but do you love this other person? Would it be worth it, even if it was just a fling, if she found out? I am thinking NO, she would be devastated!! Maybe try to spice things up a bit at home! Some new lingerie or toy for Christmas or a weekend away... Best wishes to you!

I love this reply thank you!!

Awesome!! That's why I <3 ya!!

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I heard a quote last night on that show Dexter... (love it!!) the quote was, "Everyone has a public side, a private side and a secret side, the one which defines you"... I asked a couple friends if they agreed with it and I got varied responses... What do you think?? I think about these sides of me; The public side: Wife, mother, friend, listener, teacher, comedian (yeah everyone thinks I am Sooo funny), employee.... The private side: private home life, raising kids, my relationship in my marriage, with my dad, sister. My personal views/thoughts on issues, politics etc... The secret side: the thoughts I hide, the things I long for but never say. The things in my heart that I just can't share with everyone. The way I feel inside. Secret needs, interests, desires.... Do those things define me? Well, maybe in a way. I am thinking that when the secret side is the thing that is paramount in your mind and heart, when you are alone. If these things consume you more than anything else. If the other things feel empty without it... It could define you. I think it is a combination of all of them but it is personal. It depends on how you relate to each side, how the concept of each makes you feel... For me it is a little of each but the secret side, although it may be stifled, I think is the inner truth...

No actually I haven't. I have a ton going on but I swear I will and I will post!!

Hey you are in the right place!! WELCOME!!!