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Yes Wendy, do tell...

A comment reminded me of the one that I heard when I was in high school. Time for a little laugh. There was a newly wed couple on their wedding night. They couldn't afford anything extravagent so they were going to Dallas. So to save some money they decided to take the bus. It was night and the bus was rather dark. They newlyweds began to kiss and fondle each other. She starting getting rather worked up and had to have his hard cock inside her. She got an idea. She got a blanket, placed it over his lap, unzipped his pants and pulled his stiff cock out. She slipped under the blanket and lifted up her dress. She managed to get his hard cock inside her. She then raised up slightly and asked a passenger on the bus "Are you going to Dallas?" She eased down and sighed "Aww, that's nice." She repeated the same question and action until everyone had been asked. Then with great excitement she clapped and exclaimed, "We're all going to Dallas! We're all going to Dallas!" as she bounced up and down in her new husbands "lap"

Other factors that can lower a man's sex drive especially STRESS! Another possibility could be low-T or low testosterone. And yes, there is a difference between want and need. We need to eat, but we may want steak and lobster. Everyone needs to feel loved the only problem is that we do not always receive it in a manner we prefer. Gary Chapman wrote a book called "The 5 Love Languages" One possibility is that your hubby is not feeling loved in the "language" he prefers. That does not mean that you do not love him or that you are not trying to show that you love him. He may feel love from affirmation, but does not register love so much from touch. This is by no means the solution to your situation, but if you wish to explore it further (it won't hurt anything) check out the site www.5lovelanguages.com It has a short description of each language and an online assessment. I hope things work out. I definately know what it is like to be the one wanting more sex in a relationship and it is not always easy. Hang in there.

Our wedding night, almost 23 years ago? Well she was exhausted and I was horny. Sooo, it was pretty simple sex and we both crashed.

If you like a somewhat "ranch hand" themed fantasy, check out my new posts under Article Submission -> Greatest Fantasy.

Sequel to A Break on the Hay. Enjoy. After finishing my chore of stacking hay, I head to the house to clean up. About two hours of sunlight remains of this hot sunny day. My wife stops me at the door, not allowing me to enter covered with dust and hay. She escorts me to a secluded area of our yard, where she has prepared a picnic area. She kneels in front of me to remove my shoes and then stands to unfasten the straps of my overalls. My overalls fall to the ground and I step out of them, buck naked. She tells me to close my eyes. With my eyes closed, she leads me several feet away from the picnic area. We walk onto something plastic. She tells me to wait here and to keep my eyes closed. A few moments later, I hear water running as I am drenched by a sprinkler. And then water from another direction hits me from another sprinkler, and then another. She then tells me to open my eyes. I open my eyes and see my wife several feet away, staring at my naked body being drenched by the water. She smiles and again unbuttons her dress to reveal her gorgeous body. This time, she allows her dress to fall to the ground and walks slowly and sensuously toward me. Her hips rock with each step as her gotcha grin is replaced by a seductive smile. She steps under the open air shower with me and begins to wipe the dirt and hay off my body. After a thorough rub down, she steps away and returns with soap and shampoo. She motions for me to kneel. As I get on my knees, she steps in front of me with the shampoo. She pours some shampoo in her hand, steps closer to me, her crotch inches from my face. She rubs the shampoo into my hair. I pause, staring at her crotch, not knowing her intentions as she messages my scalp. She moves closer and guides my face to her crotch. I begin kissing her crotch. She holds me close as I run my hands up the back of her thighs to her buttocks. I message her cheeks as her nails lightly message my scalp. After a few moments, the shampoo is rinsed from my hair. She guides me to my feet and begins to wash me. As she washes me, she places kisses where the water has rinsed the soap away. While standing behind me, she finally reaches my erect cock and begins to soap and stroke it. She moves in front of me, continuing to stroke my cock. The soap is slowly rinsed away under the water as she softly strokes my cock. She moves in closer, pressing my cock head against her crotch. I reach out with both hands and begin to message her breasts. She presses my cock against her cunt lips. We move closer for a long kiss, she removes her hands from my cock and wraps her arms around me; I do the same, as we kiss under our open air shower. She guides me to the ground. I lay down as she stands over me with her feet at either side of my hips. I watch the water run down her gorgeous body. Some water droplets collect in the hair of her neatly trimmed crotch. She slowly lowers herself over my crotch. Her crotch finally touches my cock. She wastes no time. Her hand grasps my cock and guides it to her entrance then she lowers herself onto my cock. When she gets the last of my cock inside her, she pauses and rhythmically squeezes my cock. Water runs over our bodies joined in love. She begins moving her hips in a circular motion and I begin to thrust up into her. My orgasm begins to build and she begins to meet my thrusts. I begin to cum inside her, she pinches my nipples, I hold her hips to thrust deeper. After my orgasm subsides, she lays on my chest, holding my cock deep inside her. We lay there for almost fifteen minutes under the shower of water, relaxing in our loving embrace. She eventually rolls off; my soft cock slips from its warm enclosure. She stands and gives a long stretch, giving me a view of my stunning wife as the water runs down her body. She walks away and begins to turn the sprinklers off. She returns with towels and we dry each other off. She tosses the towels aside. The sun has reached the horizon and the bright glow of the day begins to fade away. She then grabs my hand and leads me to the picnic area. She leads me to a large blanket on the ground with a basket and a pitcher in a corner, and two large pillows along one side. She guides me to the center of the blanket and we both sit down, both still completely naked. She reaches in the basket and begins to serve us both supper. We begin to eat, staring at each other, and occasionally feeding each other. After we finish eating, she comes close to me and sits near my lap, with her head laying on my chest. I wrap my arms around her chest as we stop to watch the sun disappear under the horizon. We tell of how much we love each other and what our relationship means to us as we sit under the dimming light of the sky. As the sun dims under the horizon, I begin to caress her arms and shoulders. After several minutes, she instructs me to lay back on the pillows. She reaches into the basket and pulls out a bowl of fruit and begins to feed both of us. After a few pieces, she starts feeding me by placing the fruit in her teeth and placing that in my mouth. After a few pieces of fruit and some deep kissing, she gets a large strawberry and holding it with her hand, rubs it over my lips. She allows me to bite half of it. She smiles and sensuously rubs the half eaten strawberry over her breasts, leaving a trail of strawberry juice over her nipples and breasts. She then places the remaining strawberry in my mouth and then places one of her breasts on my lips. I begin to kiss her breasts, enjoying the flavor of strawberries on her skin. Her hand moves to my crotch and she begins to caress my balls and cock. While continuing to kiss her breasts, I move one of my hands to her crotch to find her excited. I softly caress around her moist folds for several minutes before I finally place a finger at her entrance and begin to message it in a circular motion. I alternate between her entrance and clitoris for several minutes as we kiss and caress each other in a loving embrace. I gently guide her on her back and position myself between her legs as she wraps them around me. Her hand still grasping my cock, she guides it toward her entrance. I begin to message her breasts as she guides me and pulls me inside her. I lean forward across her chest and we kiss deeply. She begins to squeeze my cock. And I start long slow thrusts. I raise up to view our union of love. She raises her knees closer to her chest and spreads her legs wider, knowing how this excites me. I continue my slow strokes for a few moments before I lay back across her chest and we resume our kissing. She digs her heels into my behind and begins to meet my thrusts and encourage me to thrust faster. She moans softly under our kissing and heavy breathing, "Cum my love." My thrusts become faster and her grip on my cock becomes tighter. We hold each other tight as my orgasm begins and I release my cum inside her. She moans with pleasure and says softly, "I love you." I say softly and breakingly under a kiss as my orgasm continues, "I love you too, my sweet." She laughs slightly and squeezes my cock hard. We hold each other close as my orgasm subsides. Still coupled, we roll on our sides so that we both can view the emergence of the night sky. Few words are spoken as we hold each other near and watch the stars of night as they appear. Occasionally we kiss long and deep, giving each other a message that no word can speak. We lie still in an intimate embrace, and look at our lover as the night sky falls on our faces. The stars shine bright to show our unending love as the moon illuminates us from the sky above. We lay there for almost an hour. Holding, kissing and caressing in the embrace of our love making. We drift off to sleep under the stars of night. We awake as the late hour approaches. We kiss and cuddle in the cool air of the night. She produces a blanket to shield our naked bodies from the cool air of the night as we continue to hold each other under the stars so bright. We fall asleep again only to awake as the morning sun shines on our face. We kiss, feed each other the remaining fruit and make love again as the sun rises to warm our day. As we begin to gather our things, our bodies bared to the morning sun. I admire her gorgeous form in the light of the morning sun and realize that I love her more than I did the day before. I know this night will not be the last because our love shined bright under the night sky.

Here is another of the fantasy collection I have written. Enjoy! I am in the barn, stacking hay. I am wearing only overalls and tennis shoes. My sweaty body is covered with hay and dirt. Droplets of sweat run down my face and my side as I continue to stack hay in the heat. My wife comes in the barn with a large glass and a pitcher. She is wearing a sleeveless, light colored, flowered dress. The dress buttons from neck to hem. She hands me the glass, which contains cold lemonade. I take a long drink and slowly drink the rest. This is when I notice that her dress is buttoned with only about ten buttons from below her breasts to her upper thighs. I observe her closer as I continue to drink my lemonade. I notice her nipples showing from under the light material as her body begins to glisten in the still heat. I finish my lemonade. She gets up and I almost get a glimpse of her crotch as she allows her dress to open slightly. She takes my glass and fills it with water from the pitcher. She steps up to me and gives me a hard kiss before giving me the water. I take a drink of the cool water and she steps behind me. She runs her hands up my sides, to my chest. She rolls my nipples between her fingers before moving lower to my abdomen. She unbuttons the sides of my overalls then runs her hands down the sides of my hips. My cock is now pressing against the loose material of my overalls. Her hands move to my crotch where she rubs my balls and around my cock. She eventually grasps the full length of my erect cock with both hands and begins to stroke it. Her lips find my ear and she begins to nibble them with her teeth. By now I have forgotten about the glass, half full of water I am holding. She removes a hand from my cock, takes the water from me and takes a swallow. I then feel her lips on my ear followed by warm water from her mouth as she rinses off my ear and begins to run her tongue around my ear. I close my eyes and enjoy the sensations of her hand stroking my cock and her licking my ear. After a few moments, I am startled as she pours the cool water down my chest and over my crotch. She manages to grab a piece of ice with the hand holding my crotch and she begins to rub it over my balls and erect cock, causing me to moan. My cock begins to shrink under the cold ice. She tosses the ice aside and sets the glass down and comments, "We can't let that happen." She moves both of her hands back to my crotch, one cupping my balls and the other wrapped around my cock. She continues stroking my cock and licking my ear, until my cock is raging hard. She then removes her hands from my crotch to the front of my overalls and unbuttons my fly. She pulls my stiff cock and balls through my open fly, and turns me to face her. She slowly unbuttons the few remaining buttons of her dress, revealing first her soft breasts and pert nipples. And finally the last button to reveal her neatly trimmed crotch. Beads of perspiration run down between her breasts. She moves back to a stack of hay about waist high and sits down, opens her dress and sits back on her elbows and motions for me to come closer. I kneel down and begin kissing at her knees moving slowly toward her awaiting crotch now glistening with perspiration. I notice her pussy lips blooming from excitement as I place kisses around them. She urges me to stop teasing and to get busy. I oblige and lightly run the tip of my tongue up and down the crease between her parted lips. She moans softly as her legs part even further. I occasionally dart my tongue into her entrance which causes her to give a short gasp. I plow the tip of my tongue between her parted lips to her awaiting crown of pleasure as she lets out a deep moan. I lick her clitoris for a few minutes until she starts to raise her hips. She moans, “Don’t stop, don’t stop! I’m coming!” I continue my steady tongue strokes on her clitoris. A couple of deep breaths under her moan and her orgasm begins. I flick my tongue from side to side and her hips buck even wilder. As her orgasm subsides I return to long slow strokes with my tongue over her parted lips. Once waves have passed I begin kissing her inner thighs allowing her to relax somewhat. I stand up between her thighs. As my hips brush her knees, she raises up, grasps my cock and begins to slowly stroke its full length. A bead of sweat runs down my chest as she gently runs one hand along the length of my erect cock as the other hand cups, caresses and messages my balls. She eventually grasps my cock at its base with both hands, and she pulls my cock. Her knees stop me from moving forward as she continues to pull my cock. The tension slowly increases, until she finally allows her hands to slowly slide down my cock. One hand slips over my cockhead. Her second hand slips to grasp my cockhead. She spreads her legs and raises her knees, hooks her heels into my back, and pulls me closer, her hand still holding my cock. She pulls me in close, allowing my cock to rest above her crotch, pressing my balls against her crotch. She begins to run her fingernails around my cockhead and over its tip for a few moments. A drop of pre-cum falls from my cock onto her mound. She allows me to move back slightly, holding the tip of my cock against her. She rubs the tip of my cock against her clitoris and finally over her entrance. With the tip of my cock at her entrance, she holds the shaft of my cock with one hand and begins to move it in a circular motion against her entrance. I run my hands down the inside of her thighs to her abdomen and crotch and begin to caress her. She raises her feet and rests them on my shoulder. She begins to work my cock deeper inside her, continuing to move my cock in a circular motion. She soon has all of my cock inside her that is not covered by her hand. Her forefinger presses against my balls and her pinky is pressing against her crotch, as she moves my shaft in a slow, deliberate circular motion. After several minutes, I begin thrusting, and her circular motions become more vigorous. She begins to meet my thrusts. I hold her thighs to help synchronize our thrusts. She starts to moan louder and I work my thumb over her clitoris and begin to rub it. She closes her eyes and begins to toss her head, moments before she begins to have another orgasm. She removes her hand from my cock, grabs my hips, pulls me to her, taking all of my cock inside her with a soft moan. I continue thrusting, using the full length of my cock and pressing my thumb against her clitoris as her orgasm subsides. I then remove my thumb and move my cock slowly almost all the way out and then slowly all the way inside her, until my balls press against her. I hold this for a moment before repeating the cycle. I then notice the heavy smell of hay mixed with the odors of our lovemaking. A bead of sweat runs down my cheek. I admire the gorgeous, glistening body of the woman I love, laying before me as we share our most intimate selves while we make love. I continue to slowly make love for several minutes, until she has recovered from her orgasm. She then begins to squeeze my cock as I pause inside her. Her movements intensify as she encourages me to thrust faster. She begins to meet my thrusts as my orgasm begins to build. She squeezes my cock tighter as I begin to cum inside her. My body stiffens and quivers as I hold my cock deep inside her. She grabs the bib of my overalls and pulls me to her and kisses me hard and long. My body begins to relax; she continues to kiss me deeply and squeezes my cock. We rest in each others arms, maintaining our intimate embrace. After several minutes, I slowly rise, kissing her breasts and stomach as I get to my feet and she rises with me. She grasps my cock, covered with the juices of our lovemaking, and places it back in my overalls and wipes her hand on the crotch of my overalls. I tell her that I love her; she kisses me, and grabs the glass and pitcher. She turns to leave, allowing her open dress to flow open, giving me a peek of her gorgeous body that I just made passionate love to. As she reaches the door, she turns facing me. Her breasts and crotch exposed to my delight. She blows me a seductive kiss, winks, turns and leaves. I button my fly and finish my chore. I leave the stack of hay that we just made love on, thankful for a loving wife who knows how to relieve her husband with a refreshing break. [ If you like this check out my next post to find out what happens at the end of the day! ]

LOL - Yep that would be a sight. A little awkward though. Well I did wear boots and hat when I was in High School. Hey, I rode horses, roped calves, baled hay and worked on a neighbor's farm (too small to consider a ranch). BUT, I was NOT the "typical" idea of a cowboy. I was actually more of a geek and I don't care for country music, was more into rock: Lynard Skynard, 38 Special, Cars, etc. And I haven't worn a hat or boots for some time. If I came home wearing boots and a hat my wife would want to know what the #$% is going on! Haha, maybe I should do it and pull a Chip N Dales, rip the pants off and say ride 'em cowboy! NOT! But a nude workout still works for me!

Wendy, loved your story. HOT! It sounds familiar. I have recurring fantasies of working out nude with my wife before starting some more, uh, passionate exercises. The idea of watching her naked body, and she mine as we exercise is Hot!

I know it is a little late for this year, but really would work any time or prepare for next year. I did the following for Valentines when we were married almost 3 years (we are working on 23). I went all out! Here is what I did while we were living in an on-campus appartment 20 years ago: 1) I baked her favorite cake, strawberry, in a heart pan with strawberry slices. 2) I had about a dozen pink and red heart shaped balloons all over the bedroom 3) I cut out 15 or so red hearts from construction paper, each taped to a string of varying lengths of 2-3 feet and taped them to the ceiling The balloons and paper hearts made a "sea of hearts" in the bedroom. 4) I had about 6-8 votive candles in red glass holders 5) A flirty Valtine card and flowers on the bed When she came in, I showed her the cake and handed her a red teddie and sent her to the guest bedroom to change. I lit candles and turned out the light, closed the door and waited for her outside the door wearing heart covered boxers. When she arrived I had her close her eyes and guided her into the room full of hearts, balloons and candles. She loved it! She read her card, we began kissing. Didn't take long before we were going at it hot 'n heavy. Anyway, it took a little while before we got to the cake. You might also add music, message with or w/o oil, make home made gift cards (for message, alone time, etc.), a bowl of strawberries Oh the possibilities!

Very HOT!!!

Kitty, I consider a marathon as over an hour of oral sex. By this time my jaw is sore, my legs asleep and my tongue worn out. There were several occasions where after over an hour of oral sex she would have me stop because she was getting raw. She would come close several times, but no big O. We did have a first the other night. After about 15 min of oral sex she started moaning with noticable sighs. This surprised me since it is the first time she has made any noticable moan or verbal expression other than telling me "Don't stop." That really encouraged me to go for it. As a result she had a double play (two orgams). She didn't think she could survive a third and stopped me. Personally, I think she is giving herself permission to let go, even if it is somewhat of an unconscious decision. Doors keep slowly opening wider and wider. "Never give up! Never surrender!"

The poll on preferring DVDs or stories prompted this question. Have you read an erotic story to your SO or had one read to you? Either as a prelude sex or while the listener masterbated? Thought this could be interesting.

Probably not the typical male response, but I prefer erotic stories. I have a very vivid imagination and have no problem visualizing the story how I want it, not the director. See my related question on erotic stories that I will post.

Update on this thread. I am not sure exactly when the change started but for several months she has not had trouble reaching an orgasm. About 15 minutes of oral sex is all it takes now. And she says her orgams seem stronger. She makes me stop because she doesn't think she can handle a second one. Well one night after a big 'O' I paused briefly then I dove back in and she came almost immediately and then came again before begging me to stop. She did have to change meds from Ambien in May since it stopped being effective. I thought it was her meds but we didn't want to change anything that was working. Thanks everyone for your advice and encouragement.

What a selfish A-hole. Obviously he was only interested in "booty" and what was in it for him and NO consideration for 'Echo'. This is what gives us 'nice' guys a bad wrap! Stringing him up by the balls would be too good for him. But with his actions he had better watch out, karma can be a bitch! Sorry your friend had to discover this sorry excuse for a man for what he is this way.

It has been over 2 months now so I will try to remember. Here is the rather typical scenerio: I usually initiate. Must be at night (she insists). My wife will beat me to the bed and lay naked on her stomach. This is her signal for me to give her a back, leg and foot massage. After a massage I then kiss her back and then down to her butt cheeks (she really likes this). She will eventually turn over on her back and I will go down on her. After about 15-30 minutes of oral sex she will have an orgasm (otherwise she will give up after 45 min or so). I then wash my mouth. Returning to bed we kiss a little as she fondles me to get me really hard. With a smile on her face she then rolls on her back for the missionary position (sometimes we change it up). After 5-10 minutes of slow motions she is ready for me to cum and plays with my nipples or ears and I pick up the pace until I cum. Afterwards we may cuddle or sometimes she likes to tickle me with her legs wrapped around me as I am recovering from my orgasm (I am too sensitive then). We will then clean up, she will get in bed and I usually watch some more TV.

An old farmer in Georgia had owned a large farm for many years and had a large pond in the back, fixed up nicely; with picnic tables, horseshoe pitches, basketball court, etc. The pond was properly shaped and fixed up for swimming when it was built. One evening the old farmer decided to go down to the pond to look it over, as he hadn't been there for a while. As he neared the pond, he heard voices shouting and laughing with glee. As he came closer he saw it was a bunch of young women skinny-dipping in his pond. He made the women aware of his presence and they all went to the deep end of the pond. One of the women shouted to him, "We're not coming out until you leave!" The old man replied, "I didn't come down here to watch you ladies swim or make you get out of the pond. I'm here to feed the alligator." Moral: Age and cunning will triumph over youth and enthusiasm every time.

My late grandmother, who I never heard utter a curse word, actually told me this joke with a few of my friends around. I could not believe she told me this joke, much less in front of my friends. This is the grandmother that also surprised me by telling my wife to be (in front of me) that "a good wife should act like a lady in public and a whore in bed." A woman well into her senior years goes to her doctor because her crotch itches. After the exam the doctor tell her that the condition is treatable and continues to tell her she has "crabs" She stops him in mid sentence, "There is no way I can have crabs. I am 73 years old and I have never been with a man. I do not have crabs. I want a second opinion." The woman went to a second doctor. After the exam the doctor told her she had crabs. Outraged, the woman rants, "You stupid doctors, you don't know what you are talking about. I am 73 years old and I have never been with a man in my life. There is no way I can have crabs. I want a third opinion!" The woman went to the third doctor. After the exam the doctor began to give his diagnosis and she stopped him before he could get a word out. She told him, "Doctor, I am going to tell you now, I am 73 years old and I have never been with a man. Now don't you go and tell me that I have crabs." After a short pause the doctors says, "Mam, you may be right. But after 73 years you have such a rotten pussy that you have in infestation of fruit flies." {Groan}

Good suggestions, thanks for the post Suzy, but I couldn't resist adding these 30 ways to "Handle Stress" that I got in an email (many years ago). Just reading this list can help reduce stress And yes, some are just wrong, but still funny. The moral of this post for handling stress - HUMOR! And I NEED to take some of my own advice, WAY too much stress right now! HOW TO HANDLE STRESS 1. Jam 39 tiny marshmallows up your nose and try to sneeze them out. 2. Use you MasterCard to pay your Visa 3. Pop some popcorn without putting the lid on. 4. When someone says, "Have a nice day", them you have other plans. 5. Find out what a frog in blender really looks like. 6. Forget the diet center and send yourself a candy-gram. 7. Make a list of things to do that you've already done. 8. Dance naked in front of your pets. 9. Put your toddler's clothing on backwards and send him off to pre-school as if nothing was wrong. 10. Retaliate for tax woes by filling out your tax forms with Roman numerals. 11. Tattoo "Out to Lunch" on your forehead. 12. Tape pictures of you boss on watermelons and launch them from high places. 13. Leaf through a National Geographic and draw underwear on the natives. 14. Go shopping. Buy everything. Sweat in it. Return it the next day. 15. Buy a subscription to Sleezoid Weekly and send it to your boss' wife. 16. Pay your electric bill in pennies. 17. Drive to work in reverse. 18. Relax by mentally reflecting on your favorite episode of "The Flintstones" during an important finance meeting. 19. Sit naked on a shelled hard-boiled egg. 20. Refresh yourself: Put your tongue on a cold steel guard rail. 21. Tell your boss to blow out his mule and let him figure it out. 22. Polish your care with car wax. 23. Read the dictionary upside down and look for secret messages. 24. Start a nasty rumor and see if you recognize it when it comes back to you. 25. Bill your doctor for the time spent in his waiting room. 26. Braid the hairs in each nostril. 27. Write a short story using alphabet soup. 28. Lie on your back eating celery...using your navel as a salt dipper. 29. Star at people through the tines of a fork and pretend they're in jail. 30. Make up a language and ask people for directions. Take a moment and laugh...

Here is another installment. Let me know if you want me to post more. ============ When I walk in the door after work, I am greeted by my beautiful wife. The smile on her face and the sparkle in her eyes tells me what's in store for the evening. Her attire confirms it. She is wearing a black dress that fits snugly around all of her beautiful curves and stops at her thighs, showing off her long legs in black hose. A black sheer scarf is wrapped around her neck covering most of her upper chest that her dress does not cover. I notice the outline of her erect nipples from under her tight dress. She wraps her arms around my neck and we kiss deeply for several minutes. I feel my cock begin to stir. She instructs me to remove my shoes and I do so. She starts unbuttoning my shirt. She kisses my chest as she uncovers it. She pulls my shirttail from my pants and then pulls my shirt over my shoulders. Her lips move to my nipples. She nibbles on them with her teeth and caresses them with her tongue. Her hands move to my belt as she begins to remove my pants. She slowly unzips my pants, showing my growing cock inside my shorts. She runs her finger along my growing shaft through my shorts. She pulls my pants down and I step out of them. She runs her hands up my legs and then over my shorts. She rubs the palms of her hands over my stiff shaft. Her hands move to the waist band. She slowly runs her fingers under the waist band. She gently pulls my shorts down and begins to kiss just above the waist band as it lowers. My shorts trap my stiff cock under the waist band as they are lowered. She begins to kiss my shaft as the waist band pulls it down. The waist band finally rests behind the ridge of my cock head, pointing my cock to the floor. She places a big kiss just behind my cock head and quickly moves my shorts, releasing my cock (and to my surprise) into her mouth. The tip of my cock rests gently in her mouth as she lowers my shorts. As I step out of my shorts, she runs her lips back and forth over my cock head as her tongue circles the tip. I run my fingers through her hair and she hums softly, causing me to moan. She slowly removes her lips from my cock. She runs her hands over my chest as she rises to her feet. She places her hands behind my neck. A beautiful smile covers her face. I pull her closer to apply my lips to her gorgeous smile. We pull each other closer as we kiss deeply. I start to slide the strap of her dress over her shoulder to return her favor of undressing me. She stops me and says, "You've worked hard enough today, let me do the work for you." She guides me to the bedroom and sits me on the edge of the bed. She steps back and turns her back to me. She bends over with her knees strait, giving me a wonderful view of her gorgeous behind. She slowly removes her shoes. She then raises up and begins to pull the shoulder straps of her dress over her shoulder. She looks over her shoulder to me with a sultry smile. She pulls the straps down exposing enough of her back that I can tell she is not wearing a bra, I suspected as much from her nipples showing. She removes her arms from her shoulders straps and then reaches for the hem of her dress. She slowly raises them hem of her dress until I discover that she is wearing stockings. She slowly exposes more of the bare skin of her legs until the hem of the dress rests at her butt cheeks. She wiggles her hips teasingly as she reveals the bare cheeks of her behind and I notice that she is wearing a black thong. As the dress reaches her waist, she turns, facing me and continues raising the dress over her head, exposing her lovely breasts. With her dress removed, she stands still and sexy for a moment, her feet slightly apart, as I take in the beauty of my lovely wife standing before me in only stockings and the skimpiest of panties. Her beauty is quite breath taking. I stand and we move toward each other to embrace in a long, deep kiss. She maneuvers us so that the back of her legs touch the bed. She moves her kisses to my face, then my neck. She then kisses my chest and nipples as she slowly sits on the edge of the bed. She spreads her legs to either side of mine and wraps them around my legs, hooking her heels behind my knees. She lays back and begins to slowly raise her heels up my legs, running her feet along my back as best as she can until she reaches my shoulders, giving me a view of her crotch, barely covered by her thong panties. She places her feet on my chest and raises her behind off the bed and slowly removes her panties. I smile as I notice her crotch is shaved smooth. As she gets her panties to her knees, her knees are almost touching her chest and her moist crotch is very exposed. I gently rub the palm of my hand over her smooth crotch and begin to use my hand to massage her. She finishes removing her panties and moans softly as I allow my middle finger to work between her moist lips. She places her feet on my shoulders and encourages me closer. I kneel between her legs and allow my finger to rest over her entrance as my tongue lightly flicks over her outer lips, causing her to moan a little more. After a few minutes of gentle licks and soft kisses I turn my hand over and work two fingers inside her and stroke her g-spot. I lick more intensely as her orgasm approaches. My face and hand are soaking wet as she responds, “Please, don’t’ stop!” I focus on her clitoris as her hips thrust against my tongue. She sighs as her body tenses in an orgasm gripping my fingers inside her. I flick my tongue over her clit causing her to moan louder in the waves of her orgasm. Finally her orgasm subsides and I gently kiss the insides of her inner thighs. She looks up and smiles as I look into her eyes. I stand and observe how sexy she is in her post-orgasm glow. She reaches between her legs and grasps my semi-erect cock. She pulls me closer and places my cock against her bare cunt. She pulls her knees close to her chest as she slides my cock over her wet cunt lips. She caresses the top of my now hard shaft with the palm of her hand as my cock glides over her cunt lips. She places her feet on my shoulders for support. After a few moments, she wraps her hand firmly around the base of my cock and begins to move the tip of my cock between her cunt lips. My cock head disappears between her moist cunt lips. She gently and purposefully rubs the tip of my cock over her clitoris then to her entrance. She then squeezes my cock with her hand in a milking motion, forcing my pre-cum over her entrance. She moves my cock in a circular motion over her entrance, spreading my pre-cum. She then resumes moving my cock from her entrance to her clitoris. She milks my cock over her entrance again and then places the tip on her clitoris as she begins to use my cock head to message her clitoris for her own pleasure. After a few moments of rubbing her clitoris with my cock, she places my cock at her entrance and milks my hard cock. She then allows the tip of my cock to pass into her tight entrance, but not allowing the ridge of my cock head inside. She begins to move the tip of my cock in a circular motion against her entrance while milking my pre-cum inside her. After a few moments she pulls at my cock encouraging me deeper inside. She slowly guides my cock inside. I feel the ridge of my cock slip past the tight rim of her entrance. She then pulls my cock out and then back in. With her hand gripping the base of my cock tightly, she guides me in slow thrusts allowing only my cock head inside her. After a few moments of making love with only my cock-head, she stops me with my cock-head inside her. She milks my cock-again, this time sliding her hand down my shaft until her hand touches her crotch. She then makes a ring with her thumb and forefinger around the base of my cock. She squeezes my cock tightly and slides her finger ring down my shaft until her palm presses firmly against her cunt lips where we are joined in our loving union. She repeats this process two more times. As she reaches for the fourth stroke, she grips the base of my cock tightly and begins to pull, this time she does not allow her finger ring to move along my shaft. She places her heels on my shoulders and pulls me to her. My cock slowly enters her hot cunt. When her hand touches her crotch, she runs her fingers around the base of my cock and then to my balls and scratches them gently before removing her hand. She pulls her knees closer to her chest. She reaches for my hips. Her finger tips barely reach my hips. She uses her light touch to guide me in slow, long, deep thrusts inside her. I begin thrusting and she closes her eyes. I begin to message her breasts with both hands. After several slow thrusts, I pause deep inside her. She grips my cock tightly. She moves her legs around my waist. Her legs constrict around my waist as she concentrates on squeezing my stiff cock inside her. After a few moments in her silken vise, I slowly pull my cock out allowing her to squeeze its full length. As my cock-head slides out of her entrance, the tip poised at her entrance, she maintains the tension of her cunt muscles and encourages me back inside her. I eagerly begin to slowly reenter her tightened cunt. Once completely back inside her she relaxes with a smile and a sigh. As she relaxes, I rub my hands over her stomach, waist and thighs. After several minutes of our relaxed union, intermixed with an occasional long, deep thrusts, she begins to rotate her hips against my cock inside her. After a few moments I begin slow deliberate thrusts synchronized with her rotating hips. As we continue, we both occasionally moan softly under the intense pleasure. Our bodies move in rhythm with each other for several minutes. She eventually stops rotating her hips and begins to meet my thrusts with her own. I increase the tempo of our lovemaking. The passion and intensity of our lovemaking increases. We hold each others hips to keep our movements synchronized. I feel an orgasm building. She notices my approaching orgasm and whispers under a hurried breath, "Yeesss, my love, Yess!" I grasp her hips with my hands, my body stiffens, lifting her rearend off the bed, as I begin to release my cum inside her. She grips my throbbing cock with her cunt. My body twitches as I my throbbing cock fills her with my orgasm. After my orgasm subsides, I notice that I am standing at the edge of the bed, holding her rearend at least 6 inches off the bed. I slowly lower her to the bed. She smiles and exclaims, "You do get caught up in our lovemaking my wonderful lover." She pulls my lips to hers and we kiss long and deep, our bodies still intertwined. Still coupled, we roll to the center of the bed where we kiss with slow deep passionate kisses. We relax in our lovers arms with gentle kisses, soft caresses and loving words. After about 15 minutes in each others arms, we break our embrace and adjourn to the dining room for a romantic candle lit dinner. With our shared love as the main course and our desire for each other for desert.

Several years ago when our sex life was almost non-existant my sexual outlet was writing fantasies. Writing them down was the only way to get them out of my head. My imagination must have been in full gear since I have about 70 stories. Well, I have noticed a lull in the posting of sexy stories and thought I would share from my collection (yes, all are original of my own writing) a few at a time. And there are 8 more welcome home theme stories. Let me know if you like them and I will post more. ============ When I walk in the door one day after work, I am greeted at the door by my wife wearing a thigh length satin robe. The front of her robe is open past her navel, revealing the soft skin between her breasts, barely covering her nipples. She leads me inside, shuts the door, removes the items in my hands, and proceeds to kiss my neck and unbutton my shirt. She soon has my shirt off and starts kissing my chest. She applies her lips to my left nipple for a soft kiss. Her lips part to surround my nipple. She begins to run her tongue around my nipple. She grasps my nipple between her teeth. Her hands rub my back as her tongue flicks over my nipple held between her teeth. She pulls my nipple gently with her teeth. She then moves to my other nipple, giving it the same treatment. She then continues down to my navel. Upon reaching my navel, she begins to unbutton my pants and I kick my shoes off. As she lowers my pants, she kisses my cock through my underwear. She pulls my pants off and tosses them aside. She stands and guides my lips to hers and begins to rub my behind through my underwear. After a few moments she starts kissing my neck while rubbing my behind. Her kisses move further down, over my chest and nipples, then to my bellybutton. Her trail of wet kisses proceeds to the waist band of my shorts. Her hands slip under my shorts as she grasps a cheek in each hand. She begins to knead them as she continues to kiss around the border of my underwear. She pauses and kisses my now erect cock through my shorts, then runs her tongue and lips around the borders of my sorts, as she continues to message my behind. She stops kissing, removes her hands, stands up and instructs me to remove my socks. As I begin to remove my socks, she slowly unties her robe. She closes her eyes, places her hands on her face and slowly runs her fingers down both sides of her neck then between her breasts. She runs her fingers under her breasts, moving the robe to expose her nipples. Her fingers continue to move around her breasts, further exposing her breasts. Some how she manages to trap the robe between her thighs, keeping her crotch covered, as she runs her fingers to her shoulder, uncovering her soft shoulders. She opens her eyes and notices that I have not finished removing my socks. I was so mesmerized by her seduction that I forgot to finish removing my socks. Her seductive look is replaced by a disappointed frown as she exclaims, "You don't get to see any more until you get your socks off." I quickly remove my socks and she smiles. She runs her finger tips between her breasts, allowing her palms to brush her hard nipples. Her fingers continue down to her exposed belly button. She runs her hands under her robe. Her fingers move over her thighs on either side of her crotch. She closes her eyes, tosses her head back and softly moans. Her fingers move to the inside of her thighs and she allows her robe to open, uncovering her closely trimmed crotch. She runs her hands over her hips, pulling the robe behind her hips. She places her hands on the back of her head and under her long hair. With her feet spread slightly apart and her knees bent, she begins to slowly rotate and thrust her hips. The erotic motions of her gorgeous body excites me even more. After a few moments of seduction, she opens her eyes and notices the pre-cum on my shorts. She then gazes into my eyes and says, "It looks like someone is ready for some action, ....but not yet." She places her hands on my chest, slowly moves them over my stomach, then to my hips. She gently works her thumbs under the waistband of my shorts. She begins to slowly pull down on the waistband of my shorts on either side of my hips. As she lowers my underwear, my cock head gets caught in the waistband. As my underwear is moved lower, the waistband pulls my cock head down with it until my cock is pointed straight at her crotch. She smiles as she looks at my stiff cock. She raises her eyebrows as the pre-cum seeping from my cock brushes against her crotch. She continues lowering my shorts, until the waistband is holding my cock almost straight down. She steps up close to me, spreads her legs slightly, and moves closer until our crotches almost touch. She whispers in my ear, “Make it stiffer." As I do so, she pulls my shorts down, releasing my cock into her crotch with a soft pop. She quickly squeezes it with her thighs. She pauses for a moment, holding my cock against her warm crotch. She moves her hips slightly causing her moist cunt lips to slide along my stiff cock. She then kneels to finish removing my shorts, my cock slides across her crotch, slipping from her gripping thighs. As she kneels further, my cock slides along her stomach, between her breasts, until my shorts are on the floor and she is staring at my crotch. I step out of my shorts. She looks up into my eyes with her gorgeous, sexy smile. She runs her tongue from my balls up along the under side of my hard cock causing me to moan softly. She stands up, running her hands along the inside of my thighs to my crotch. She steps up close to me while holding my balls in one hand and my cock in the other and we begin a deep kiss. After a few moments, she stops kissing and stares into my eyes. While maintaining eye contact and her hold on my cock, she slowly gets on her knees. She briefly places soft kisses on my hips and thighs and then runs her tongue along the underside of my cock from my balls to my cock head. She then begins lightly rubbing my cock head around her mouth, cheeks and chin, caressing her face and neck with my cock. Her eyes remain fixed to mine. A mischievous smile of anticipation covers her face. She kisses my cock head, grins, and slowly stands up, rubbing my cock head along her neck, between her breasts, and over her stomach as she rises. She places her lips to my ear, and whispers, "Be patient, my handsome stud, we're just getting started." She then gives my cock a hard squeeze. Her open robe flows behind her as she leads me by my cock to the bedroom. When we reach the bedroom, she walks to the side of the bed, her hand tight around my stiff cock. She turns her back to the bed with me facing her and lowers her robe slowly to the floor. She reaches out to my neck, pulling my lips to hers, my hard cock nestles in her crotch as we press our bodies together. After a long kiss, she guides my lips to her breasts, her nipples quickly stiffen. I begin to suck and lick her breasts as she holds my lips against them. I move a hand to her waiting crotch and begin to rub her clitoris. After a few moments of lavishing her breasts with my tongue and lips, she guides my lips lower. I kiss her stomach and ribs as I continue to rub her clitoris. I remove my hand and then kiss teasingly around her crotch. I guide her to the edge of the bed, and allow her feet to remain on the floor. I run my moistened tongue down her leg, then kiss my way up the inside of her thigh, never quite reaching her mound of pleasure. Her body quivers with excitement as I notice her cunt lips spread open, glistening with excitement. She then holds my head with both hands and guides my mouth to her crotch. I briefly kiss her slick cunt lips. Then without losing contact with her cunt, I place her legs over my shoulders and begin licking and sucking her clitoris. After several minutes, she begins to reach an orgasm. I quickly move my kisses to the inside of her thighs and her stomach. She moans in disappointment, places her feet on my shoulders and guides my lips back to her clitoris. This time it only takes her a few moments. She begins murmuring, "Don't stop! More, More!" as she holds me against her clitoris. Soon she begins to moan and toss her head just before her body starts to quiver in an orgasm. I continue licking and within moments she lifts her hips up as her second orgasm begins. I stay with her extending her orgasm. Her body finally relaxes and I continue gently licking her as the waves subside. She pulls my head back and grins very big. She repositions herself on the bed, now lying in the center. I stand up, enjoying the view of my gorgeous wife lying naked on the bed, her firm breasts and erect nipples adding to the sensuality of her spread legs exposing her slick, excited cunt. After a few moments, she encourages me to join her. As I climb onto the bed, she reaches out and grabs my erect cock. She guides me into a position straddling her face, she spreads her legs inviting my lips to her crotch and I resume kissing her clitoris. She begins licking and sucking my clean shaven balls and occasionally she gently bites my hard shaft. The sensation of her mouth and tongue on my smooth genitals makes me lick her even harder until she reaches a third orgasm. After her third orgasm, we are both sweaty, she is evidently excited and my cock is raging hard. She guides me off her and instructs me to lay back and enjoy. She begins licking my ears and rubbing her wet crotch on my thigh. The heat from her crotch is incredible. She kisses down to my nipples and begins to nibble on them. Occasionally she holds my nipple in her teeth and slowly bites harder and pulls. She then raises her head to watch the expression on my face and allows me to see my cock head nestled between her breasts. After a few minutes of teasing my nipples she starts leaving a trail of kisses down my chest and stomach. As she moves, she rubs her crotch down my leg, to my foot and pauses a moment as I rub her crotch with the top of my foot. She moves her lips to my hard cock and balls and proceeds to kiss and lick my cock and balls, teasing me by almost allowing my cock in her mouth. Eventually she places my cock head in her mouth, placing her teeth behind the ridge of my cock head. She begins to alternate biting down on my cock, licking my slit, and sucking hard on my cock head. When I am about to cum she stops and squeezes my balls until the sensation subsides. She then begins to tickle me and bite on my stomach and ribs. Occasionally she runs her hand over my cock or quickly bites my nipple or licks my ear. During the several minutes of her constant tickling, she also places her lips on my cock as if she might lick it or places her crotch over my face, but not allowing me to lick it. She knows how to tease me and enjoys frustrating me as much as I enjoy the anticipation. After almost thirty minutes of tickling, teasing and wrestling, she raises up with a cute grin on her face, and grabs my semi-hard cock with both hands. She then straddles my thighs, placing her cunt on my balls. She then spreads her cunt lips apart and proceeds to rub her moist cunt lips on my cock and balls, letting my cock head rest between her cunt lips. This causes my cock to get very hard, very quick. After a few minutes of her sensuous teasing, she raises up and holds my cock between her spread cunt lips as she continues to rub my cock against her clitoris. Her eyes close slowly as she tilts her head back with a look of pleasure on her face. I watch with excitement as my cock, held by her soft hands, slides between her moist cunt lips. After a few moments, I begin to notice her occasionally rubbing her entrance over my cock head. She does this more frequently until she pauses for a second with my cock head at her entrance she presses my cock head against her entrance and with a low, soft, exhaling moan, she takes my cock into her tight, wet cunt in one long continuous motion until she has all of me inside her. After a few moments she begins to tighten her cunt muscles around my cock head, which elicits a low moan from me. A smile of confidence sweeps over her face as she opens her eyes. She rubs her hands over my chest as she rocks back and forth on my cock for several minutes. I reach up and cup her breasts in my hands. She then begins to slowly slide her tight cunt up and down my hard shaft. After a few moments of steadily riding my cock, she pauses with her crotch touching my balls and removes my hands from her breasts. She squeezes my cock tightly with her cunt as she slowly slides her cunt up my shaft, milking the pre-cum from my cock. She begins riding my cock again for a few moments before she milks me again and repeats the cycle. Occasionally she removes my cock so she can rub her clitoris on my cock. She continues to ride my cock until I feel an orgasm build up. She then ceases her motions and reaches behind her to message my balls to delay the inevitable. After the sense of urgency subsides, she lays on my chest, and kisses my neck and ears. After a few moments she whispers in my ear, "In a few moments, I am going to ride you like a bronco and I want you to let it go." She lays across me motionless as our lips lock in a long, slow kiss. The only other movement is her cunt occasionally squeezing my cock inside her. She then raises up on her arms and begins to slowly grind her hips with my semi-erect cock inside her. I feel my cock stiffen inside her. She then moans softly, “Mmm, that’s more like it, nice and hard!” and she begins to slowly ride my cock. She gradually increases her tempo. I can feel her gripping my cock. Then all of a sudden she begins to ride my cock like a cowgirl on a wild horse. Her breasts are bouncing wildly. I reach up and grab a breast in each hand to pinch her nipples, which excites her even more. I watch as my cock buries itself again and again in her wet cunt. I can feel my orgasm building, and she knows it, as I begin thrusting up into her. She moans, "Yes, honey, faster!" I put my hands on her hips to help synchronize our thrusts. After a few moments of intense thrusts, I begin to cum. She smiles with satisfaction and amusement as my body twitches with my orgasm, filling her with my cum. After my waves of pleasure subside, she lays on my chest, my cock still inside her. I can feel my cum running out of her, down my shaft and onto my balls. She says, "You are wonderful." and I reply, "And my lovely sweetheart likes to make me squirm." She responds, “Yes I do!” We hold each other tight, softly kiss and rest in each others arms.

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I call her my "Sexy Kitten" and she calls me her "Fuzzy Bear" Yes, I am a little hairy, but no carpet on my back.

I admit that this is not 100% original work. I started off collecting from several locations with reformatting and some rewording. I then added several of my own. I did this to start a conversation with my wife to help find out what we might try to spice things up. When she is doing better (emotionally) I will share it with her and let you know. I decided I have read so much on TT that I would share what I have worked on. Let me know what you think. What works for you, what does not. Add some ideas of your own. Add Some Spice Be Intentional: This is probably the most important. By just taking the effort to plan and act on spicing up your sex life can add excitement in itself for you and your partner. By being intentional you demonstrate your desire for your partner. And who does not want to be desired by their partner? Take the time to add some spice to your sex life; your relationship is worth it. Communication: Ask your partner what they would like, what turns them on. Find out what they are willing to try and what is off limits. Talking could lead to some interesting and fun discoveries. You’re a flirt: If you have been in a relationship for a while this aspect may have slipped by the wayside. Remember when you were dating and you flirted with one another? Try flirting with your partner again, who knows where it will lead. Surprise, Surprise, Surprise: Have sex in the middle of the day or anytime that is out of the ordinary or unexpected. Do something completely out of the ordinary. It will bring back some fire and make you both feel like giddy teenagers. • Have a lunch at home, but provide yourself as the main course. • Show up to his work and pull him somewhere private to show him the lingerie you're wearing under your coat. • Take him to a restaurant and reveal that you're not wearing any panties. • Guide his hand under the table to feel under your dress or skirt. • Be waiting for him at the door, naked. Dress up: Put on something sexy when you go to bed or wear nothing at all. Be dressed up, hair and make up on, when he comes home from work. Show him that you still want to impress him and care about your appearance. Make him want you and fall for you all over again. Show off your sexiness. Remember, be intentional. Talk dirty to your partner: Use all the expressions that would make your mother threaten to wash out your mouth with soap kind of language - "screw me hard," “your ___ feels so good,” “f#%k me now.” Or “take me now” if the F word is too much for you or your partner. Your partner will be shocked and just might oblige. However, talking ugly or demeaning does not usually have the desired effect. Call it in: You get on a phone in the bedroom, with your partner on a cell phone in another room, describe what you are doing, what you're wearing, how you are becoming passionately aroused. Your partner responds with how he could take care of it. Then invite him to join you. Couples can play with toys too: There are many toys and games out there designed to help you add a little spice to your sex life. • Start off with something simple like a vibrating massager over sensitive areas. • Browse catalogs or online for toys that appeal to you. • Browse for toys with your partner and discuss how you would like to use the toys. Discuss what appeals to you and what does not. • If you feel uncomfortable buying toys, you can start off with some more common items such as an inexpensive electric toothbrush that vibrates (you may not want one that rotates) and gently use the bristles on sensitive areas or the back of the brush head. Cover with plastic wrap or condom if desired. Use modeling clay to make the object of your desired shape and cover with a condom. Or most anything with a smooth, round tapered surface (brush handle, mini traffic cone, etc). Walk down the baby toy isle with self-pleasure in mind. Anticipation: Having to wait can add excitement. Leave a note (maybe with a photo) with details of what you have planned for your partner that evening. Before parting in the morning, give your partner a little sample of what is going to happen in the evening. Use other senses: Lay on the bed naked and blindfolded an invite your partner to explore your body. Not being able to see allows you to focus on other senses and adds to the excitement. Double blind: Both of you wear blindfolds. Take the time to explore each others bodies without seeing your partner. You just might find areas of your partner’s body that you have neglected. Bedtime stories: Tell your partner an erotic story. Have your partner lay down as lay together naked. Have your partner close their eyes as you tell your story. Try a story that is adventurous. Maybe a topic that your partner would like, but you are not so willing to try. Maybe something you both find exciting, but neither are quite willing to try (sex in an open space, etc.) Be sure to include details to add color to the picture. If you do not feel artistic to make up a story, search the internet for a story, read it a couple of times and tell your version. Or at the very least read a ‘hot’ portion of a romance novel. Ready all day: Put on something sexy in the morning that will remind you all day of your plans for the evening. The idea is not to climax, but to be aroused during the day and reminded of what the evening will entail. Ladies, consider a thong riding up, a strand of beads pulled up tight, 2-3 marbles in a condom held snug by panties. If you want something simpler carry a note around to remind you of the evening to come and take a moment to think through your plans. Use your imagination. Sexy games: Have some fun and play some games in bed. Buy some games or make up your own. • Make your own ‘sexy dice.’ Get two dice of different colors. One color dice is the action the other color is the body part. For the first dice on a roll this is what you do: 1) suck, 2) lick, 3) caress, 4) kiss, 5) nibble, 6) variety. For the second dice on a roll this is what you do the action of dice one to: 1) stomach, 2) chest, 3) neck, 4) ears, 5) legs, 6) “below.” Take turns rolling the dice. You can use an egg timer to set the time between each roll/action. • Make sexy cards with actions you would like to do or have done and take turns drawing cards and carrying them out. • Play strip cards, like 21 and the looser takes off an article of clothing. And to go further the looser is at the winner’s request. • Play what am I touching you with? One of you is blindfolded and the other caresses the partner with various objects for them to guess. Have fun and use your imagination. All tied up: Getting tied up can boost the sexual energy because it brings in the element of vulnerability. Being bound, you are at the mercy of your partner and allows you to focus entirely on being pleasured. An established safe word is helpful to let your partner know when they are crossing a line or need to stop. • Use a scarf or other material to have your hands tied and invite your partner to please you every way. • Have your partner tie hands and feet to the four corners of the bed, spread eagle. Focus on allowing your partner to please you. • Have him tie your hands with a scarf and hang them on a hook on his door (the kind you would hang your coat or towel on) before he tantalizes you with oral. Since you'll feel totally like his sex toy, you can add to the arousal of being restrained by begging him to "release" you and let you orgasm. He can use his power to either allow you to climax or withhold stimulation for a tortuous minute. • Add a blindfold to any of the above. • If you do not like the idea of being tied up, try a hands free night when one of you are not allowed to touch the other with their hands Give Him a Peep Show: Much of arousal is driven by what we see — especially for guys. There is something erotic about just sitting back and enjoying the show. And it's great for women too. They get to see how a guy reacts to watching your moves and grinds. • Give him a strip tease. Make him sit back and watch as you slowly and sexily remove each article of your clothing. If you feel a little self-conscious or unsure look for article on how to do a strip tease. • Add a lap dance. • Let him continue to watch as you continue to dance in the buff. • Give him a show finale and make him watch as you masturbate. An early start: Ladies, on a night you are planning some “action” get things started early. • Masturbate alone just before you're going to see him, but don't let yourself climax. Bring yourself right to the edge without going over, close your eyes and imagine your guy's lips taking the place of your hand. Squeeze your PC muscles for a count of five as you massage your clitoris, then stop moving. Let this tension fuel your fire for the evening. After almost reaching one or more climaxes stay naked and invite him to see the flush that naturally spreads over your body as you near orgasm. Then you might describe for him what you've been up to. He'll put together an irresistible mental image of you self-pleasuring that will build his desire so that when you have sex, it'll be an incredible release for you both. • Entice your guy and let him watch you masturbate before you leave for the evening, telling him he can have his turn later. He will like this intimate peek. Do it seated in front of a mirror with him behind you so that he has a great view of the action as well as a nice shot of your ass. Start by touching your nipples with one hand and rubbing a thigh with your free one. Then stimulate your lower area, moving your fingers faster and faster as you get turned on. Don't let him interrupt. Instead, tell him you expect him to finish where you left off when you get home. Handle His Package: Usually for foreplay, you touch him so he's hard, but stroking him until he climaxes is rarely the main event. Taking him in your hand will show your desire to take charge. Repeat occasionally until the main event. Hands Free: Have a night where you can’t touch each other with your hands. You must rely on other body parts (breasts, hair, nose, mouth, feet) to caress one another. Get things going: While your partner is getting ready for bed, brushing teeth, etc., stand behind him/her and caress their body, letting them know how impatient you are and how much you are looking forward to what is to come. Trail of clues: Leave a trail of clothing for your partner to follow; leading him/her to the location you are waiting. Slippery Sex: Put a plastic cover over your bed. With your clothes off, cover one another in aromatic oil and enjoy the slippery fun. Not only will you enjoy the slippery fun, but your skin will be soft and smooth afterward. Note, if you have long hair, you may want to put it up. No response: Don't only shock him with sexy stroking — also do it when he can't possibly react the way he wants to. The next time he's on the phone, come up behind him, unzip, and go to work. Doing something so naughty while the person on the other end of the phone has no idea ups the wicked factor and makes everything feel more intense. Make a ring with your fingers by touching the top of your pointer finger to the top of your thumb. Then place it around the base of his shaft, and slowly move toward the tip. As that hand gets to the tip, start at the base with your other hand. And so on. Have “Stranger” Sex: When you pretend you're someone else, you completely change the rules. For one, you both naturally become much more daring as you act. Also, you have to be creative to play the part, and that means coming up with all sorts of naughty things your character might be into. • Play characters in a movie or romance novel. With role-play, you can more easily move outside your comfort zone and enjoy extreme sensations and positions you wouldn't normally try together. • Role-play that one of you is inexperienced and needs sex lessons. Have the novice write down what they want to learn, like how to perform oral sex, masturbate, or be taken from behind. When one of you pretends to be innocent, the other person feels a surge of arousal knowing they're in control and responsible for giving that person ultimate pleasure. Then get together for the very X-rated tutorial. Test-Drive Twisty, Wild Positions: Experiment with different sex positions, maybe three or more a night. Nothing screams wild and hot like providing a view and finding new angles neither of you are used to. If you need suggestions there are several books with illustrations or you can look online. • Make a game with sex position cards; take turns drawing one from the deck and getting into position. • Do it in various parts of your house, because it will force you to accommodate your positions to the different obstacles. Mutual Admiration: Watch each other masturbate. This can be foreplay that leads to other things or you can watch one another to the point of climax. Couch potato: Take the action to the couch. • Surprise him with a hand job when he least expects it. While he's chilling on the couch, cuddle up next to him, trail your fingers down his chest, and unbutton his pants. As you grab him, whisper that you're doing all the work this time. Try this grip to really wow him: Put one hand at the base of his shaft and the other right on top of it. Then firmly grip him as you move your hands in opposite directions, twisting at the same time. • Lay on the floor with little or nothing on and give him a peep show. See if you can entice your couch potato off the couch. • Have him stand up and enter you from behind as you kneel on the cushions. There's something hot about standing-up sex, and doing it in a semipublic room makes it feel taboo. You can deepen the penetration by lifting one leg so that your foot is flat on the seat of the couch and you're leaning back against his chest. • Tell him to sit back and enjoy the show. Only this time, it's not the TV he'll be viewing... it's you. With him in a seated position, straddle him, then place his hands on your hips to keep you secure, and lean all the way back so that your head is down by his feet. You can put your hands on the floor for extra support, then rest your feet on the back of the couch. Your body will be completely exposed to him, giving him an incredible 'Oh, my God' erotic view as he moves in and out. Plan a Sneak Attack: Ambushing your guy turns you into a total sex vixen who can't get enough and makes him feel extremely wanted. Doing something unexpected can heighten the senses. Bow tie his package: When your guy is erect tie a satin ribbon snugly (not too tight) around the base of his penis. This will keep him harder, longer. Also try an elastic hair band. Do not leave on for more than 20 minutes and remove if it becomes painful. Food is sexy: Food can also add to the excitement. • Get a good taste of chocolate or peppermint in your mouth and then kiss your partner to share the flavor. • Prepare a tray of finger foods and feed each other. • Put your partner’s favorite flavor (chocolate, strawberry) in strategic areas of your naked body and invite him/her to enjoy a taste. Ideas include ice cream toppings, strawberries, donuts, whipped cream. Squeaky clean: Take a shower or bath together and soap each other real good. Caress each other’s body allowing the slippery soap to allow your hands to slide all over your partner’s body. The Hot and Cold of it: Use hot (not too hot) and cold to enhance sensations. Try oral sex with an ice cube or with a bite of ice cream. What could you do with a frozen popsicle? Use warmed massage oils. Combine with blindfold or restraints for added effect. Alfresco: Try having sex outdoors. A secluded spot with the breeze and sun on your bare skin can add a sense of thrill to your escapades. If this is a little too risky try opening your window, if privacy permits, for a hint of outdoors. Early riser: Most guys like morning sex. • He'll be totally shocked if you jump him when he gets out of the shower. Slip into the bathroom, and position yourself naked on the sink so he's surprised by the stunning scenery when he pulls aside the curtain. Then have him stand in front of you so you can wrap your legs around him. • Join him in the shower and allow the pulsing water to add to the excitement. No alarm needed: Wake him up with a surprise. Before he wakes, slip into bed with nothing on. Get right down to business by caressing his crotch and stroking his member. Be even more aggressive and start right off by diving under the covers and taking him in your mouth. A new view: Keep an eye on the action. Setup a mirror so that one or both of you can watch as the two of you are in action. Pillow talk: Before or after the main event, spend some time holding and talking with your partner. Share what your partner means to you. Take turns sharing what attracts you to your partner. Afterglow: The day after a wild night send your partner a love note saying how wonderful last night was.