Tyger Posted May 10, 2016 Report Share Posted May 10, 2016 Many people think of bisexuality as "all in the head, or that the person saying that they're bi, that it's just because they can't make up their minds. Or it's a phase. I'd love to hear of some of you on how you perceive bisexuality, if you are "bi", how you figured it out, and how you go about with relationships. I know that some post have already been done to this affect, but I'd love to start something here in this forum. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members krisleightate Posted May 10, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 10, 2016 I am just going to totally quote myself here, because it all boils down to love. Do I think that is just in your head or a phase? No I don't, I do however believe that all are at least a little bit bi. LOL I don't label myself as bi-sexual or heterosexual or homosexual. I love who I love. Their gender has nothing to do with it. My Uncle Mark, who is very much out as a homosexual man, had a girlfriend for almost 4 years. He loved her, she was not a cover. He wanted to marry her. He has told me that she is the only woman he has ever been attracted to, and the only woman he ever had sex with. He loved who she was, not her gender. All the labels and such are rubbish in my mind. Either way your heart will love who it will love regardless of what label you or society says you should fit under. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RC4BLUE Posted May 11, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 11, 2016 Sexuality is not an either or for most. Sexuality changes over a lifetime. People identify as straight, gay, bi, pan, and many more. Is bi real, yes! So is every other orientation. I have been very fortunate. I have always been secure and knowledgeable of my sexuality. I am aware of my overwhelming attraction to women while being comfortable with my attraction to a few men. I know I could not be in a relationship with a man, but I could be playful with very particular man who fits my attraction profile. Having said this it has been many any many years since I have been in a position to be sexual with a man. I do find that there have been opportunities to flirt and that can be fun. Still my overwhelming preference is women. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted May 17, 2016 Author Report Share Posted May 17, 2016 14 hours ago, WenWitch said: I once told an ex-girlfriend of mine when she asked me, "who do you prefer dating, men or women?", my answer to her was "I prefer dating you." She asked what I meant by that. I told her plainly. "I'm not dating the man or the woman. I'm not with anyone because of their gender. I'm dating you because it's you and I want to know you better." I am not one that needs to rely on labels but to say that a person who is claiming themselves bi-sexual because they can't make up their minds or because they're going through a "phase" is wrong to me. Great answer. I don't believe that this is a way of life that's a phase, or in someone's head. Just because one doesn't understand it, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Kinda like physics. I don't understand the complexities of physics, but I understand that the concepts exist. LOL 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 12GAUGE Posted May 28, 2016 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2016 On 5/10/2016 at 7:23 PM, krisleightate said: I am just going to totally quote myself here, because it all boils down to love. Do I think that is just in your head or a phase? No I don't, I do however believe that all are at least a little bit bi. LOL I don't label myself as bi-sexual or heterosexual or homosexual. I love who I love. Their gender has nothing to do with it. My Uncle Mark, who is very much out as a homosexual man, had a girlfriend for almost 4 years. He loved her, she was not a cover. He wanted to marry her. He has told me that she is the only woman he has ever been attracted to, and the only woman he ever had sex with. He loved who she was, not her gender. All the labels and such are rubbish in my mind. Either way your heart will love who it will love regardless of what label you or society says you should fit under. I feel exactly the same. Shoot I can't member zactly how I used to say it but it is your BRAIN and emotions that tell you or at least suggests to you who you will love (given a chance) or who you will........ There's 3 bars I infrequently frequent. Two are gay friendly. The Cuff is STELLAR and EPIC in this regard. The other joint is a half hour away in the udder direction. The 3rd place is more Biker and Old School and straighter than straight. Cannabis is legal here but don't do it within the perimeter of place #3. I haven't been **out of town** since Easter and I'm here to tell you I had me one mighty fine time. Had I of had a strong hankerin for some mano a mano kooka racha fun I was just 20 minutes away from the Cuff. Main problem is Seattle had to FUCK private enterprise over. Right on the corner of the Cuff is a Diamond parking lot. Usedta cost 5 bucks for late night parking. Well the knuckleheads at city hall buttfucked Diamond and ME by raising parking fees (for the same amount of time parked) by DOUBLE at least. Fuck me and FUCK SEATTLE. I am not in a foul mood. I just basically HATE local government assholes. When I member where I was going with this I'll cum back and wrap this up. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kama Posted February 27, 2017 Members Report Share Posted February 27, 2017 On 5/10/2016 at 7:29 PM, RC4BLUE said: Sexuality is not an either or for most. Sexuality changes over a lifetime. People identify as straight, gay, bi, pan, and many more. Is bi real, yes! So is every other orientation. I have been very fortunate. I have always been secure and knowledgeable of my sexuality. I am aware of my overwhelming attraction to women while being comfortable with my attraction to a few men. I know I could not be in a relationship with a man, but I could be playful with very particular man who fits my attraction profile. Having said this it has been many any many years since I have been in a position to be sexual with a man. I do find that there have been opportunities to flirt and that can be fun. Still my overwhelming preference is women. Edit. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Gypsy42279 Posted January 20, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 20, 2022 On 5/9/2016 at 9:23 PM, krisleightate said: I am just going to totally quote myself here, because it all boils down to love. Do I think that is just in your head or a phase? No I don't, I do however believe that all are at least a little bit bi. LOL I don't label myself as bi-sexual or heterosexual or homosexual. I love who I love. Their gender has nothing to do with it. My Uncle Mark, who is very much out as a homosexual man, had a girlfriend for almost 4 years. He loved her, she was not a cover. He wanted to marry her. He has told me that she is the only woman he has ever been attracted to, and the only woman he ever had sex with. He loved who she was, not her gender. All the labels and such are rubbish in my mind. Either way your heart will love who it will love regardless of what label you or society says you should fit under. Hey i was Bisexual for years till I finally figured out what I was. And plus saying that is so much easier than saying that I am Totally gone Gay and I have over that limit for the 1st 12-15:years of my life see Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Gypsy42279 Posted January 20, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 20, 2022 Just now, Gypsy42279 said: Hey i was Bisexual for years till I finally figured out what I was. And plus saying that is so much easier than saying that I am Totally gone Gay and I have over that limit for the 1st 12-15:years of my life see And way to go my man i congratulated you for your bravery. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Gypsy42279 Posted January 20, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 20, 2022 On 5/27/2016 at 8:48 PM, 12GAUGE said: I feel exactly the same. Shoot I can't member zactly how I used to say it but it is your BRAIN and emotions that tell you or at least suggests to you who you will love (given a chance) or who you will........ There's 3 bars I infrequently frequent. Two are gay friendly. The Cuff is STELLAR and EPIC in this regard. The other joint is a half hour away in the udder direction. The 3rd place is more Biker and Old School and straighter than straight. Cannabis is legal here but don't do it within the perimeter of place #3. I haven't been **out of town** since Easter and I'm here to tell you I had me one mighty fine time. Had I of had a strong hankerin for some mano a mano kooka racha fun I was just 20 minutes away from the Cuff. Main problem is Seattle had to FUCK private enterprise over. Right on the corner of the Cuff is a Diamond parking lot. Usedta cost 5 bucks for late night parking. Well the knuckleheads at city hall buttfucked Diamond and ME by raising parking fees (for the same amount of time parked) by DOUBLE at least. Fuck me and FUCK SEATTLE. I am not in a foul mood. I just basically HATE local government assholes. When I member where I was going with this I'll cum back and wrap this up. Used to live in Seattle for a years and I must admit that Club Z took a lot of my cash going to college lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Open minded bi Posted February 17, 2022 Members Report Share Posted February 17, 2022 I'm not sure if I am bisexual or straight. I'm not at all attracted men or have any feelings for men. I have only had sex with one man who identified as gay. Good friend for many years and still is. We talked about this many times and he understood that for me it was about sex and exploring my sexuality. It makes no difference to me if I am straight or bisexual but was just curious to know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted January 16, 2023 Author Report Share Posted January 16, 2023 Any new thoughts on this one? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Pblo696 Posted March 2, 2023 Members Report Share Posted March 2, 2023 On 1/15/2023 at 11:40 PM, Tyger said: Any new thoughts on this one? I do believe bi is a thing. At 13 I was “introduced” to sex by a male relative. I had no idea it was bad. But I liked the attention. At 15 I was introduced to the female body thru normsl teenage exploration and she was thrilled at how oral I was. Maintained my “virginity” to MF intercourse for 2 more years. I was getting blown by said relative and girlfriend, I was also blowing both, kept the secret from gf but dude was into hearing and pitching ideas. He never used the phrase bisexual. I joined the navy and bybthis point knew homos werent accepted, I think back at this missed oppurtunity… Anyway, got out of USN and married. When kids started coming along wofe less interested so I was beating off to porn when I discovered bi porn. Marriage collapsed and I moved out. Decided to give gay a try. Dated a beautiful football player type but my alcoholism and his drug addiction created a bad scene. Met 2nd wife. She was thrilled to peg me I was in heaven again. Then we opened up relationship and took on a young stud who wasnt interested in bi but loved fucking my wife. Wife got pissed when she figured out I was fucking a dude on my street. Anyway another divorce… Got sober and decided I would sleep around both genders. Some fun but mostly disappointing turn out. Im no movie star so I took whatever I got on AFF. Met wife three, both sober, practice religion, monogamous to one another. But often have a hankering for a hard cock to suck. Wife loves plunging vibe into my hole but would never entertain any additions to the bedroom. Does not know (may suspect) that I can switch hit. So yeah Bi is real bit monogamy is best Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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