Members ladylove Posted May 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 The first time my husband shaved the twins and trimmed the soldier, I was thrilled, and in turn so was he. He hasn't had a full 'head' of hair any were since Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members LilyElle Posted May 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 The first time I gave my boyfriend a BJ, he was already clean-shaven, and he's the only man I've ever done that for, so I've never experienced much male hair down there. Though I have to say that the one time I came face to balls with 2 days of stubble was downright PAINFUL! It was so sharp and coarse that by the time I was done, my lips were scratched and raw. Luckily not much grows on his shaft... I'd do it again if I had to, I love doing that for him, but I would not enjoy it as much as usual.My bf's response to this question was that if my mouth was down there around his cock, and I was enjoying myself with it, then anything else was icing on the cake. Very wonderful icing that he'd love to have as much as possible, as often as possible, but not essential for it to be a good blowjob. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ohshelly Posted May 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 30, 2008 I really prefer trimmed, but for a long time he wasn't and it never made a difference to me. Hell, I'd go down there if there were circling sharks Hair is natural, and I suppose a personal preference. I'm with you, Aiden. My guy isn't overly hairy, so it's not a problim for me. I love SO's balls, they are HUGE and he lets me play with them all I want, and I play every night. It has gotten us into a nice little routine. He works long shifts and has to wear a uniform. He has such a nice set, that they can become irritated by all the walking he has to do. Every night when we crawl into bed to talk (or whatever!) I grab a nice bottle of softly scented lotion and go over the boys with a couple big warm handfuls of it. It cuts down on the chafing, and at work the next day he will sometimes get a whiff of lotion and thinks of us in bed playing. If we make love, I have to reapply the lotion because we wear it all off. (sigh) A womans work is never done! hee~hee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members coffee-girl Posted June 14, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 My ex said he's had a lot of bad BJ's.I found that surprising. Granted, people enjoy different techniques, but with the right communication (verbal/non-verbal) I think that anyone can cater their usual style to fit the situation. Right?So, that led to this theory. If someone is truly horrible at oral, it's because they don't want to do it. The person you are with will probably ask you to stop and/or won't ask for a repeat performance in the future.It's just a theory, mind you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Angelina Posted June 14, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 I love to give head in the shower jump in get a mouth full of HOT water and deep throatHe loves it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sbayhylle Posted June 14, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 Sorry, couldn't stay friends with a person who bit my weenie that hard....OMG! I just blew tea out my nose all over the computer reading that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted June 18, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 18, 2008 WHAT TO DOLet him know there is nothing on God's Earth that excites you more. Tell him what & why it turns you on before he even takes off his pants. Call him at work and tell him how you like to make his cock hard, his balls tight, and feel his butt & thighs tense up when he is about to shoot. Check IT'S SUCH A TURN ON WHEN YOU DIG HOW HE SOUNDS, HOW HE TASTES, AND HOW HE FEELS IN YOUR MOUTH. Check Angels when we lick you, you want to feel the same way, right?Get Comfortable. A mind blowing BJ can last 20 minutes from beginning to end. Get in a position you can both be comfortable in for that long. Make sure your arms and mouth are free to move wherever they need to. This will take practice. First 10 times you will have to make some half-time adjustments. But you will find a position that works for both you.Check You massage the penis with your mouth. You are stroking him with a combo of warm wet lips and tongue. The cock should feel like it is sliding in & out of your mouth, accompanied by your tongue gliding around the head. Neither is done quickly. You are caressing. Check"Professor, what do I do with my hands?" OUTSTANDING QUESTION. That Angel get's an A+. One hand (which is wet or lubed) encircles the shaft below where your lips are. Imagine making a loose fist as if holding a pole. Your hand & lips are stroking together with the same rhythm & in the same direction. Sometimes you need to give your jaw a rest, so the hand stroking helps keep him aroused until you are ready to resume. Check but sometimes there is no room for my hand, my lips are flush with his balls "But Professor, what about my other hand?" ANOTHER OUTSTANDING QUESTION. Another A+. Gently cup his balls with your other hand. Caress, knead, & squeeze them gently. Sort of like you would want him to treat your boobs. See if you can occasionally use your finger tips to caress the area just behind his balls and around his anus. Check CheckDo I have to swallow? No if you don't like to. No gentlemen expects you to swallow. If he can come in your mouth & you can keep on stroking after he shoots, he will be paralyzed with joy. If you don't like jizz in your mouth at all, wait until its obvious he's about to launch (he can tell you too), let his cock slip out of your mouth, but keep your hand moving & finish him off with a few, nice, sloppy hand strokes.Check again! This is a BJ Basics from a Guy's POV. Tips for Advanced Practitioners will be available based on your feedback. For those that need detailed instructions & diagrams try http://www.sexinfo101.com/fellatiopositions.shtml Hands up who wants a Primer on How to Lick Pussy. The Professor's office hours are...... So, do I qualify as one of "Cockney's angels"? LOL! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted June 18, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 18, 2008 Excellent info Professor Cockney! By the way....how will grade us? I want to be sure to get an A+ hehe!Go for it now and let's hear your other lecture....if it's as good as this one I'll be sure to send hubby to class! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted June 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Chloe, you were A+ before I wrote a word. Blimey, I feel like I have groupies. OK who wants Professor Cockney's Art of Licking Pussy?Is it an oral exam? (bad pun I know) but lame sense of humor aside ( i did work 11 hours and its 2am, cut a girl some slack) I wanna be one of your angels Professor! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Orlando Posted June 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 I agree that porn is a lousy way to learn how to give a BJ. I've never seen anything in a porn moving that can match the long, slow, loving attention that my partner gives me. When she wants me she touches me outside my clothes and looks in my eyes - licks her lips and smiles sometimes. Then she slips her hand under my clothes and touches me, grabs me, holds me, and moans a little when she feels me getting harder. Then she gets me naked (or naked enough) and touches and strokes me while looking at me admiringly. She gives me little kisses up and down the shaft, pulling back to look at and touch the spot she kissed as if her kiss had changed it somehow. When I've about lost my mind from the sensations and the anticipation, she takes me in her mouth. Sometimes she'll deep throat me for a few seconds. That doesn't feel all that exciting physically, but it's a great psychological turn-on to have her want me deep inside her. For sensation I like her working me over with her lips and tongue. She does it slowly at first, but goes faster and faster as she feels me getting more aroused. By the time she's finished with me half an hour has passed and I am exhausted, but WAYYYY satisfied. I think I'm the luckiest guy in the world to have this woman. Sometimes she swallows, sometimes she doesn't. I haven't asked her about that. What do other women think? How and why do you decide to swallow or not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted June 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Sunny: I am assigning you to teach the Tips for Advanced Practictioners. Do you qualify as an Angel? I'm too distracted by the Throbbing Flagpole of Lust poking out my boxers right now to decide. Of course you qualify. Your wings are in the mail. So you really "deep throat?" The whole time? You are a black belt. Well, I guess both hands are free to fondle & squeeze his buttocks, and perhaps a little anus stroking. Not probing though. You aren't putting your fingers in unless its requested. Got to make a suggestion though. Sometimes less is more. Instead of the whole shaft up to the hilt, how about having just the head slowly sliding into your mouth, but now you are applying a bit more pressure with your lips. Of course, your hubby has been pre-hardened & is at full attention because of the stuff you said "check" to. But then you change up with this. And you stop the hand strokes, so that the sensations are concentrated in the head. You also have room to hold the balls now. Have them just rest in your hand. Just the merest touch. If you've never done it that way before he will basically flood your mouth just before he faints with joy.NO not the WHOLE time, I mix it up slow down, speed up, all those things above... and no anus stuff tho, he would freak! Funny the other night he thought I was going "there" and he stopped me. I wasn't but he still freaked out. I calmed him down and continued. So now you have a Blonde(me), Aiden can be the redhead and we need a brunette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted June 19, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Not sure what I do when I do it, but I guess I'm doing it too freaking long that's for sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted June 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Sunny: some guys like the extra TLC, others want to put orange traffic cones around their butt, and wrap it with yellow police tape to keep you away. As a smart Angel you know not all things feel good to all people. Turn your attention to his inner thighs. That should not be too controversial. Or maybe you just park your hands on his hips and gently control how fast & how far in to guide the tip of his manhood across your succulent lips. Again be ready for him to faint.How lucky am I? How lucky indeed. Might there be room in our corner to Too Timid Heaven for a raven haired Angel?So I guess I am doing all the right things, yep sounds just like me Succulent lips... you have NO IDEA! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted June 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Must...keep....Mr. Wobbly under....control......Must.... stop.... imagining.....Angel Sunny's succulent lips.....Can't....leave... the... house... to buy food....Can't...make the Private..... stand at ease. Kiss, stroke, lick to you too. Do you guys need a room? And if so please video tape for the rest of us! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted June 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Do you guys need a room? And if so please video tape for the rest of us!LMFAO!!! OK, OK... I'll calm down... or WILL I!? hee hee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted June 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Ummm Professor Cockney, I think a few of us might need some private tutoring. Is that available? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted June 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 LMFAO = what exactly? I'm sure its scrumptious. Please, please, tell, tell.Sorry it means:LaughingMyF*ckingAssOffI know all these weird abbreviations I have to ask too sometimes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted June 20, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Kiss, stroke, lick, kiss, stroke, lick to you too Suzy.Some for me too? i just fell in love! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cockney Posted June 21, 2008 Report Share Posted June 21, 2008 Some for me too? i just fell in love!DEEP BREATH, kiss, kiss, kiss, suck, suck, suck, s-t-r-o-k-e, s-t-r-o-k-e, s-t-r-o-k-e, DEEP BREATH, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, Bite, pinch, Bite, pinch, Bite, pinch, fingers-slide-in-slow-&-deep, finger-slide-out, fingers-slide-in-slow-&-deep, finger-slide-out, lick-around-the-world, lick-around-the-world, DEEP BREATH, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, EEEEEERRRRRRUUUUUPPPPPTTTTTTTAHHH! PPPPPPUUUUUURRRRRR!Feeling the love now? Night Angels Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted June 21, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 21, 2008 DEEP BREATH, kiss, kiss, kiss, suck, suck, suck, s-t-r-o-k-e, s-t-r-o-k-e, s-t-r-o-k-e, DEEP BREATH, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, Bite, pinch, Bite, pinch, Bite, pinch, fingers-slide-in-slow-&-deep, finger-slide-out, fingers-slide-in-slow-&-deep, finger-slide-out, lick-around-the-world, lick-around-the-world, DEEP BREATH, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, l-i-c-k, EEEEEERRRRRRUUUUUPPPPPTTTTTTTAHHH! PPPPPPUUUUUURRRRRR!Feeling the love now? Night AngelsNot only do I feel the love, now I have to wash my sheets because of teh mess the love made, but damn! The first time in my life i don't mind doing laundry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cockney Posted June 21, 2008 Report Share Posted June 21, 2008 Not only do I feel the love, now I have to wash my sheets because of teh mess the love made, but damn! The first time in my life i don't mind doing laundry!While it's in the dryer would you be interested in a little more suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted June 21, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 21, 2008 While it's in the dryer would you be interested in a little more suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster, suck-the-oyster-in, release-the-oyster?Dear god! How do i clean that out of a matress?! OH well, well worth the clean up, i am now one happy happy girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members longbardlary Posted February 23, 2009 Members Report Share Posted February 23, 2009 I don't know if it's intentional. When I do it, I purposely open my mouth and stroke the head with my teeth very lightly, it makes him nuts. (in a good way). Are you sure he's going nuts in a good way? The head, for me at least, is really sensitive in a bad way, and pretty much any pressure on it is painful. i tend to recoil and make a face when that happens that might look like it's pleasure, but it's not quite. Not to give any offense to you or anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted February 23, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted February 23, 2009 Are you sure he's going nuts in a good way? The head, for me at least, is really sensitive in a bad way, and pretty much any pressure on it is painful. i tend to recoil and make a face when that happens that might look like it's pleasure, but it's not quite. Not to give any offense to you or anything.No offense taken, I don't think it hurts him, I just asked and he said "HELL NO" and the result of me doing it was never pain, just a massive orgasm. So I would say he likes it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members shdowulf39 Posted July 27, 2009 Members Report Share Posted July 27, 2009 first off let me say there are NO bad bj's.now there are some better than others.sunflower your pretty right on about bj's.the only thing I would add is find out what he likes.every guy is different.just like you women.and nothing is more intimate than oral sex.my SO and I are fairly new to each other.we have known each other for about 8 months now.but in actuality we have only been together physically for a little over a month(due to 575 miles seperating us).not like you can get together for a weekend.until recently she has not enjoyed giving bj's in the past.partly because of her upbringing and partly because of the 2 jerks she was married to.with them it was everyone for themselves.she was scared as hell the first time giving me a bj.she thought she was too inexperienced and I wouldn't like it.now she has given me 2 of them.WOW!!!!had me squirming.for someone not very experienced she is damn GOOD!!ladies don't be afraid to try.you just might find out you like it and you drive him crazy.as she does me.can't wait for my next one!!..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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