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My Journey To The Gspot Orgasm And Ejaculation


Amylynn920

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So many of us women here on the forums discuss the elusive and ever mysterious Gspot Orgasm and the accompanying squirt that sometimes happens with a Gspot and sometimes frustratingly does not.

In my past relationship I have never been a multi orgasmic woman, nor certainly ever experienced a Gspot orgasm. Before I found Tootimid, I had heard of it and passed it off as a myth.

Once I came here, and read, talked and read some more, I was led to a book on Gspot and the female orgasm.

Gspot & Ejaculation Book

I bought the book and read it, and said perhaps I can experience this. So hubby and I started working on getting me to the Gspot orgasm.

I have posted multiple times on my ability to learn to orgasm, let alone multiples and Gspots. My husband worked along with me, with immense patience, trust and reassurance on this path. We discovered alot about each other and opened the lines of communication on so many subjects that it would take a post three pages long to discuss.

In a nutshell he searched and found educational dvd's, websites and studied the mechanics behind the physiological process of female orgasm and ejaculation and we practiced. Wow I sure did love studying :lol:

He is that type of man though, he will learn, educate and persue. He has grown tremendously with his own sexual well being finding what he likes and does not like and we experimented and discussed.

Our evenings turned to each other vs our usual you do your thing, I do my thing. We shut off computers, tv's talked, cuddled, laughed and had fun as we learned how much of sexual beings we actually are. We watched sexual informational movies, read each other articles, and talked some more.

And something really amazing happened. We got entirely tuned into each other. Foreplay became an all day event. Thought patterns shifted and my world got rocked.

I always knew he was a sensual, sexual man, but seriously, he blossomed overnight. We went from 2 or 3 times a week good sex to daily, steamy hot sex everywhere we thought of. Totally free and sexual with each other.

In other words, I relaxed. We talked about my self image issues, his self image issues, (yes men have them too ladies) and we came to each other with all of our baggage, discussed it and decided to leave it behind.

So anyways all that detail is as I said for another post.

I want to explain what happened to me the night we got the results in the photo below. So that maybe some of the folks here can try and see if something that worked for us will work for you.

We spent alot of time that day on foreplay, when it came bedtime, I did my usual go and pee beforehand thing. ( I was not expecting to be gspotted) and we went to bed. Again more foreplay came into it, lots of slow long lazy kisses, gentle touches, a true "take your time" attitude of just loving each other.

He moved into oral on me slowly, enjoying himself and taking his time and brought me to the first orgasm. That was awesome, but he wasn't done. :o After a few minutes of no stimulation just him rubbing my legs and stroking my thighs and gently touching me, he sat back between my legs and reached for the Hitachi. Gosh I looove that vibrator. It is constant and does not lose strength.

He turned it on and put it on me, and sipped his fingers in for gspot manipulation.

Take a look at this thread for the Gspot demonstration video we (he) studied:

Mikayla's Oral Sex Tips Thread

Which I may add had some great footage of Nina Hartley's pussy eating demo. And yeah Nina has her groove right on in that one ;) again a post for another time.

This is the video we watched for the Gspot in that same thread.

Gspot ed Video

Once he was into the gspotting of me, and he was applying the Hitachi, I felt the "need to pee" feeling, and he had me work through that. Then came a feeling of burning, almost like friction, as he really moved his fingers in deeper and started really moving me around in there.

As Nina says, "Women and pussies are sturdy" and they are, he was not being gentle. He had his whole hand movement and finger play going pretty hard and I felt my orgasm between that and the Hitachi rising. He slowed his paces and matched his movements to me letting my hips guide him. I knew I was all over the bed, not sure what he was doing.

I told him I was really close and he waited and let me keep moving, then went in for the gold and really started gspotting me along with steady Hitachi pressure to my clit.

I came. Hugely, it was like riding a wave. I know my hips were up, seeking him and he just kind of leaned into it and kept me positioned and kept going. He said he felt the first wave of liquid as I was coming and likened it to a something just being poured over his hand and fingers. He says he has felt this before.

But this time and I think this is the key, he did not stop. He continued the gspot stimulation and took the hitachi away and just let his fingers bring me there again.

I came again about a min later and by this time he said I was thrashing on the bed. Just my whole body freaking, and bless his heart he stayed right there chasing me with the stimulation.

When I came this time he said it was again a gush, more so and told me that he felt like someone had taken a squirt gun, and squirted a few shots at his fingers.

We layed there for a few minutes with him holding me and we talked (or he talked) I was trying to breathe because I was literally gasping it was that intense and I was pretty much paralzyed.

When we got up this was the aftermath.

A HUGE puddle but what really excited us, was the line of drops that led away from it. He said "Omg, I did get you to squirt" and I was in amazement. I was sure I peed the bed. There was never that much of a wet spot.

Now we did not have intercourse that night. It was a night of oral and gspot play for me. So that is not his fluid.

I had read that a urine when dried leaves a ring, and gspot fluid, not containing urine will not.

The spot dried to nothing overnight, and was gone the next day. So this tells us it was a true gspot O, and that was truly female ejaculation.

I will leave the details to him as he is considering coming to the boards and talking about what exactly he did and how he did it and what he noticed happened, because I only knew the intense orgasmic feelings. I don't know exactly what he was doing in there or down there.

But I want to let everyone that is looking for a Gspot O, questioning if it truly exists or if they are even capable of having one. I can say a resounding Yes they do! And Yes you can.

So ladies, relax, lay back and practice and you too will see that you're not broken or dysfunctional.

The first photo shows the aftermath, along with the squirt trail. The second has a pack of cigarettes and a quarter for size comparison. Yes it is that huge and that much liquid. Amazing what your body is capable of.

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ROCK ON my friend! So now I know why you haven't been around lately... GETTING BUSY! So Happy for you! Question though, do you now feel like this was different than the g-spot orgasms you had before? Or just now you have squirted with more force? I def believe you are now multi orgasmic, :D So that in and of itself my seem different. Just wondering...

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You GO girlfriend!!!

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Way to go Aiden. It is definitely a wonderful feeling when it happens. I understand about the wet spot. We always joke abot we need 2 beds so that when we are done we can move to a different one as I have a tendency to soak through the towels as well.

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ROCK ON my friend! So now I know why you haven't been around lately... GETTING BUSY! So Happy for you! Question though, do you now feel like this was different than the g-spot orgasms you had before? Or just now you have squirted with more force? I def believe you are now multi orgasmic, :D So that in and of itself my seem different. Just wondering...

Well this one was the most intense of all. I have never to my knowledge squirted before. He did not see it happen he was watching my face, but he said he felt it.

It was just an extremely intense orgasm.

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That is fantastic Aiden! I think more women should take the time to do what you guys did. It is proof positive that the combination of education with determination can really make things happen!

So happy for you...nice picture too. :)

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My husband and I will be trying the gspot O when he gets home. I can't wait and it will be lots of fun trying. I'm just afraid I won't be able to take it. I seem to want to stop after the pressure gets to intense.

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yes towels are a good idea...many. like three or four or your going to be sleeping on a wet spot for sure.....I have a question.....when i cum as I call it....it has a odor..not a bad one, I like it cause it has a musty but good musty smell....smells like sex I would say..I know its my odor since I've done it alone several times..does anyone else have an odor???? and what does it smell like??? Juuat wondering :)

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Husband says it had extremely minor odor of pussy, that's it. Like I do but fainter.

No urine smell.

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He did not see it either, he only felt it. I didn't see anything. But I suppose you and your wife could just keep trying.

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It happened again tonight, he was gspotting me purposely, I came once, nothing. Rested for a few then he went in again.

Combination of oral, manual with a vibe then he was right there watching, and said it was a gush. I heard him say "whoah, omg whoah" then "that was awesome" I said excitedly "what?? WHAT??" and he said you just squirted. So of course I had to sit with him and discuss in detail. He said he pulled his fingers out to reposition, and when he was getting ready to go back in, is when it happened. He said it was like someone filling their cheeks with water then just spitting it out.

I wish I could have seen, but didn't.

He's immensely proud of himself. And rightly so ^_^

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That is fantastic Aiden! I think more women should take the time to do what you guys did. It is proof positive that the combination of education with determination can really make things happen!

So happy for you...nice picture too. :)

I bolded the part that I feel is the key factor here... At least IMHO.

Education

I personally don't think most people will be able to find this all on their own without any kind of studying.

There are many articles, diagrams, and even a few videos on the subject out there that helped us find the mysterious G-Spot

Mikayla's "Holy Grail" article is excellent. Mikayla's G-Spot Article

A quick Google Images search will pull up many diagrams and medical drawings, to help find the exact location within the female anatomy.

All women are different, but the general location in the images I've seen are quite accurate physiologically.

The exact spot is going to be slightly different for each woman, depending on height, body type, etc...

I think that the type of stimulation a person needs to apply to the G-Spot will most likely vary as well.

Not every woman (or man) will be pleased by the exact same thing(s). Finding what works and what doesn't work (for you) is an exploration in itself.

Over the last few days now I have tried a few different ways to stimulate her G Spot.

I varied the amount of pressure, movement, and even changed the slight rotation of my fingers as well.

I'm pretty sure I had G-Spotted her before simply due to the major difference in wetness, along with her reactions to it.

Our last few attempts have been much more intense than our previous attempts.

Determination is the biggest part of this in my opinion.

As the articles say, it can produce the feeling of having to urinate, as well as a burning sensation.

I personally don't know exactly what it feels like, since I'm not a woman, so I'm left with my imagination on those details.

Like anything good in life, it takes some work, and making that decision to actually go through with it.

Mental blockage is quite possibly the biggest thing to overcome with this.

Some things that may help you "get over it" are making sure you go to the bathroom before trying.

It's pretty difficult to urinate within only a short time of previously doing so, unless you have a medical condition and/or bladder problems.

You are NOT peeing the bed ! It is NOT urine.

Get nice and relaxed, and get yourself warmed up (or let your partner do it, more fun that way ;) ) before trying as well.

Don't think that what you see in the videos/pictures is exactly how it always happens.

The porn videos with the squirting are not real life. They are done for show, just like pornography.

While some of them may be the "real deal" lets face it... It's mostly just eye candy.

Hopefully those of you out there who are still trying, find what you are looking for !

Keep at it, don't let it get you down, and most of all, HAVE FUN AND ENJOY IT. ;)

It happened again tonight, he was gspotting me purposely, I came once, nothing. Rested for a few then he went in again.

Combination of oral, manual with a vibe then he was right there watching, and said it was a gush. I heard him say "whoah, omg whoah" then "that was awesome" I said excitedly "what?? WHAT??" and he said you just squirted. So of course I had to sit with him and discuss in detail. He said he pulled his fingers out to reposition, and when he was getting ready to go back in, is when it happened. He said it was like someone filling their cheeks with water then just spitting it out.

I wish I could have seen, but didn't.

He's immensely proud of himself. And rightly so ^_^

:D

Love you sweetie ;)

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Oh Ak you are truly naughty.

And GSK.. I love you too. :wub:

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That video showed I was being to gentile, to bad the wife and I just did it. Later I will try that out and see what happens. I guess I need to rough her up abit more

Glenn

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That video showed I was being to gentile, to bad the wife and I just did it. Later I will try that out and see what happens. I guess I need to rough her up abit more

Glenn

Glen.. remember.. girls are sturdy :lol:

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Congrats, Aiden! We're so proud of you and GSK.

So, GSK... do you teach classes? ;)

Glen.. remember.. girls are sturdy :lol:

Someone needs to tell my man that, he won't believe me when I say it! He's convinced I'm as delicate as glass...

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