Going Under The Knife?

[hollyluvsjeff]

Hi,

Im going to be straight up here. I have small boobs. Im currently toying with the idea of pumping these bitches up. I love big boobs and want a pair of my own. So I can sneak up on my hubby when he's not expecting it and pop him in the face with them. So I can look down and see some sweet melons busting out of my bra instead of just being a hanger for it LOL. Hey, you only live once, right?

Anyone on here had this done?

Anyone with big boobs wish they were smaller?

Anyone think im a twit?!

Lots of things to think about here. Maybe hubby wont like it? Would this be a great injustice to myself, like objectifying myself or something?

Maybe my head will grow along with....

[pappyld04]

With the many things that could be said about this, good or bad, ultimately it is your choice. I will say that this breaks many marriages apart because of the attention that seems to come afterwards. You did mention the ego boost after all and I figure it's important that you see all sides of that one. I've only seen this one but I cannot say that this happens every time. BTW, I've got a free boob check research going on if you saw Tyger's post and would be happy to run quality control for your husband! LOL!

[Amylynn920]

I understand your wanting this, but since you asked my opinion, there is no way in hell I would do that to mine.

I'm comfortable with mine, my husband loves them and that's good enough for me.

I have a close friend that had hers done, she went from a B to a D. And they look fake, they feel like hard basketballs and she has no sensation in her nipples.

And you need to speak with your husband on this. It's not all about you.

But there is no way I personally would do it. I personally can tell by visual the fake boobs. They are a dime a dozen on the porn stars and I know my husband searches the girls in porn that are not fake. He by the way despises fake boobs, just one man's opinion.

[ToyQueen]

I have VERY large boobs---DDD. I would LOVE to have smaller ones--but since my mother's are still growing, I have no hope. Please research this carefully. There are long term effects, like back problems that come with larger breasts.

[sun_flower969]

A good friend of mine just had hers done. She has always been flat chested, a huge source of insecurity for her. She went up to a C cup. I always thought she looked fine but She looks great and you would never know they are enhanced. She even feels like they are smaller than she wanted! She also said that she still feels insecure about other things now and it didn't really take those feelings away like she thought. I have thought about this myself, but after seeing some of those shows I said never mind. Too invasive. Now a tummy tuck on the other hand...

[whitefang2002]

I personally have too large of chest for my body. And always hated it. Now even worse after I had kids. and I can say I do have back problems...maybe not from the boobs...but I have then.

I have thought of plastic or other types of corrective surgury.....but like other...I have seen the shows...and things dont always go as planned and then you are messed up forever. my thought would be to talk to your guy and both make the decision because it is a life long one. And down the road you might have to have more "corrections" or changes made to them....

just my thoughts!

[Tyger]

It really shouldn't matter what WE think. Some people are for them, some are against.

My personal opinion, is that if you think you will feel better with a breast job, then you should do some serious research. Measure out the pros & cons of such a surgery. If it's to help you feel better about yourself, then you should consider it.

But, if you're doing it to please someone, other than yourself, even if it's your husband, then I say NO. Although your post made it sound like this was for YOU, and your husband would reap the benefits.

Whether it's cosmetic surgery, dieting, piercings, tattoos, whatever, any sort of changes made to your body should be TOTALLY your decision, and for YOU, not anyone else.

Best Wishes!!

[chloegirl]

I agree with the others here...if you really feel like you want them then do the research thoroughly beforehand and know all the negatives that could happen as well as the obvious good things. I always wished mine were bigger too but now in my "old age" I've accepted how I am and can appreciate the positive things that come with not being huge....you can wear alot of things that big breasted women can't wear, a good push-up bra does wonders, and gravity doesn't do such wicked things to you as you get older hehe! The main thing is to be happy and confident with yourself and if that would help you then go for it, but like Sunflower said, if you're not happy with yourself in general bigger boobs won't be the answer. Good luck!

[mystofpric]

I have DDs, and there are days when I wish I had a smaller chest. I can't go with out a bra, I can't where anything slightly low cut without people staring and feeling like a skank. That being said. I do love getting gushied up and and putting the girls on display when I'm actually trying to (as apposed to being in walmart and wearing a simple v-neck and having every dude diving into the cleavage). I have recommended to people that BEFORE they go under the knife they buy the inserts and weat them every day for at least a month, go for the size that you would like to actually get and see how people react, your friends will know it's not real, but if your looking to turn heads (the ego boost) this will prove if you will and if you will like the attention. Like I said, sometimes it gets very uncomfortable because i don't actually want the attention. Also, I don't know what size you are now but i think a C is pretty much prefect, they are full without being big. They are sexy without accidently getting skanky. But remember whatever you have or get, it's all in how you wear it.

[nosleepnmesa]

Well I have average ones and I am perfectly content with them. IF this is something you want then go for it! I do know a friend who had breast implants, she has a slight scar in her armpit. I saw her right after the surgery, where they nice yes, does she regret having them done now, yes. In fact she is headed to have them basically taken out and go hopefully back to her normal size. She although thought she was having them done for her, so she thought but once she had gotten divorced she realized that she actually was doing it for him.

I honestly dont think our opinion should matter, to each their own. If you want it done then which it sounds like you do for YOU, then do the research and find the best surgeon.

Good Luck!!

[synirr]

I encourage you to think about why you want them. Is this just a fun enhancement for you, or under it all, are you actually insecure with the way you look?

I'm all for enhancements... I love tattoos and piercings, myself. That said, both of those are a LOT less expensive, and a LOT less painful than what you are talking about having done. It is major surgery, and if it's something you're thinking about seriously, I'd definitely do a lot of research beforehand, as everyone else suggested. I'm less than an A cup and personally I would never think of changing that... when I was much younger it made me feel insecure, but now I love my breasts!

[spanky]

I have to say I love breast of all sizes, I think they all are super sexy. But like everyone else has commented you need to be sure this is what is for you. It is your body. I know my wife was always making remarks about her size ( average size) before she had two kids now she wishes the back to her normal size, jumped two sizes. Good luck on you finale decesion what ever it may be. Also be sure of your Doctor and his practice.

[ladylove]

I've have never had plastic surgery but, I have tones of friends who have done all kinds of stuff. the only thing I will tell you is do it for yourself and no one else. If it will make a difference in how you feel about yourself then good for you. Remember nothing comes without a price.....

[angelkisses98]

IF you are doing it for YOU, and noone else, then i wish you the best with it, and i hope you get what you are looking for out of it.

i also am a very busty girl and would LOVE to get rid of them. actually, when i am done having kids, i am planning on a reduction. i have back issues..to where i have to go to a chiropractor because the weight of them has thrown my back off..and i have perminate grooves in my shoulder bones where my bra straps are because of the weight of them. they weight about 12lbs a piece!! no i am not kidding!! its not as bad now, being as i am not stick thin any longer. but in high school i was 5'1 and 100lbs with a 32DD chest.

[jj53]

Hi Holly

I have to agree with everyone here, make sure your doing it for yourself; which it sounds like you are to me, and not to please someone else. My wife Di lost a lot of weight after years of battling it and when she did her very large breasts diappeared and she was devistated. Well our Dr. recommended a couple of surgeons, and then said to check them out and see which one we were comfortable with. It ended up being the one she highly endorsed. This was after we checked their credentials, talked to prior patients, and saw examples of their work. This I think is the most important thing to do, check out the person who is going to be cutting on you. Di's Dr. recommended putting the implants under the muscle and it worked out wonderfully. They not only look totally natural, but also feel wonderful and natural. Because of the weight lose and her age she also had a breast lift so she not only got her tits back but they're incredibly perky too. Since the surgery her attitude towards her body has greatly improve and she actually enjoys shopping for clothes. For the first time in years she loves putting on a tight sweater to let the world see how wonderful she looks. The only part I played in her decision was giving my input into what size I thought look natural for her, sorry I like listening to Dolly Parton but those boobs are gross, and giving her my support, and taking care of her after the surgeries. Di's a nice 36D with a big smile and I love seeing her this happy. So good luck with your own decision, do your home work first, and do whats right for you. You don't need to know what all of us here think you should do.

[tkla]

Hi...I plan on possibly doing this too. After my kids I finally had average size boobs.....but since I've been working out they have shrunk to below my prebaby boobs My husband and I have had many talks about it, and he's told me that he is happy the way I am, but if it is something I really want, to go for it. So right now I'm in the research stage. My personal opinion is that if it is something you really want, you should go for it. It's your body, and you only live once!

[Mikayla1]

I am very happy with my boobs - I would like to have a 'lift' done however. I am a 38D and that is just big enough for me. If I had smaller boobs, I think (and I can only make a conjecture here) that I would want bigger ones. I PERSONALLY think I would be unhappy if I had smaller breasts than a perky C cup. I like big breasts. I like fake ones too - as long as they don't look too large or like they are gonna pop off!

This is a personal decision. There is a lot to consider - pain, problems, leakage, reasons why you want to do this. I don't think there is anything wrong with getting opinions, but ultimately they are YOUR boobs! Good luck!

[jesso]

Well our Dr. recommended a couple of surgeons, and then said to check them out and see which one we were comfortable with. This was after we checked their credentials, talked to prior patients, and saw examples of their work. This I think is the most important thing to do, check out the person who is going to be cutting on you.

If you are doing this for yourself, then I say go for it. I have friends who've had it done and are very happy with it. A couple have had some complications, but are happy with the outcome. However, if you are doing this for your husband, then I would suggest trying to find other ways to make your self happy that doesn't require having surgery. He may not even like the way fake breasts look. Not all men are turned on by them. And yes, you can tell when someone has had it done.

Di's guy's comment above is spot on. Know your Doctor and ask questions. This is a major surgery to have done. There are many complications that can happen and the media does not expose this side evenly. Also, make sure you know that many women who have boob jobs do have to go in to have the surgery "adjusted". It's not always a one time deal.

I have smaller breasts and would never consider doing it. Bottom line, I would NEVER want to walk around with foreign material in me. The leakage problems alone scare me to death. Having silicone floating around in your body possibly. Yuck.

However, to each is own. Weigh both sides and figure out what is important and are the risks minor for you. This has to be your decision about what YOU are comfortable with in your own skin.

[jj53]

If you are doing this for yourself, then I say go for it. I have friends who've had it done and are very happy with it. A couple have had some complications, but are happy with the outcome. However, if you are doing this for your husband, then I would suggest trying to find other ways to make your self happy that doesn't require having surgery. He may not even like the way fake breasts look. Not all men are turned on by them. And yes, you can tell when someone has had it done.

Di's guy's comment above is spot on. Know your Doctor and ask questions. This is a major surgery to have done. There are many complications that can happen and the media does not expose this side evenly. Also, make sure you know that many women who have boob jobs do have to go in to have the surgery "adjusted". It's not always a one time deal.

I have smaller breasts and would never consider doing it. Bottom line, I would NEVER want to walk around with foreign material in me. The leakage problems alone scare me to death. Having silicone floating around in your body possibly. Yuck.

However, to each is own. Weigh both sides and figure out what is important and are the risks minor for you. This has to be your decision about what YOU are comfortable with in your own skin.

Ginger is right about it not being a one time thing, one of Di's implants slipped and was slightly out of the pocket and they had to do surgery again to get it in the right place and suture the muscle to keep it there. That was a year ago and everythings been fine every since So again get as much info on this as you can because if its not done right the first time it can get exspensive and any surgery is dangerous even if it is out patient surgery. Again good luck.

[hollyluvsjeff]

Thanks for all of you thoughts everyone,

Youve all made it clear that it should be my choice, for me, but thats where it gets a bit blurry. Ive always been disappointed in my body since high school when it never filled out. Then it went away for awhile when life got a bit crazy but now its back with a vengeance. What triggered it back I guess was seeing the kind of girls my hubby looks at online. Theyre all exactly the same! Short, blond, big fake busted. Im tall and skinny and flat with brown hair. I just dont see where i fit in. I dont want to feel like im being settled for, you know? Like im not online googling giant cocked black men, im happy with what i have and dont feel any need to seek that out.

sigh

I hate feeling like this. I know I have a good man that loves me and my body and I should be happy and grateful for this and I am. But i still feel like im not good enough. Ive felt like this when ive been alone and still feel it happily married. I guess im just right pissed that i cant be everything for him like he is for me. Jealousy is so, so ugly and makes me feel like it shows on me, you know. I dont want to be a bitter woman.

[sun_flower969]

Thanks for all of you thoughts everyone,

Youve all made it clear that it should be my choice, for me, but thats where it gets a bit blurry. Ive always been disappointed in my body since high school when it never filled out. Then it went away for awhile when life got a bit crazy but now its back with a vengeance. What triggered it back I guess was seeing the kind of girls my hubby looks at online. Theyre all exactly the same! Short, blond, big fake busted. Im tall and skinny and flat with brown hair. I just dont see where i fit in. I dont want to feel like im being settled for, you know? Like im not online googling giant cocked black men, im happy with what i have and dont feel any need to seek that out.

sigh

I hate feeling like this. I know I have a good man that loves me and my body and I should be happy and grateful for this and I am. But i still feel like im not good enough. Ive felt like this when ive been alone and still feel it happily married. I guess im just right pissed that i cant be everything for him like he is for me. Jealousy is so, so ugly and makes me feel like it shows on me, you know. I dont want to be a bitter woman.

I totally get it! I have a hard time I mean a REALLY hard time with my H looking at porn or pics of other women. I feel inadequate and like I will never measure up. You should tell him how you feel and see what he says! The thing is, the women in porn are enhanced, in usually more ways than one! I bet he will tell you all the things he finds beautiful about you and that he does not want you to change. Another thing too is the women in porn are fantasy. Most men know full well that they would never get a woman like that! They look good on the outside but what are they really like? The hottest most sexy woman on earth could be a real bitch or dumb as shit! Who wants to be around that for any length of time? I am certain that you have everything your H wants and needs for his partner! After all he chose you and married you right?

[Mikayla1]

I totally get it! I have a hard time I mean a REALLY hard time with my H looking at porn or pics of other women. I feel inadequate and like I will never measure up. You should tell him how you feel and see what he says! The thing is, the women in porn are enhanced, in usually more ways than one! I bet he will tell you all the things he finds beautiful about you and that he does not want you to change. Another thing too is the women in porn are fantasy. Most men know full well that they would never get a woman like that! They look good on the outside but what are they really like? The hottest most sexy woman on earth could be a real bitch or dumb as shit! Who wants to be around that for any length of time? I am certain that you have everything your H wants and needs for his partner! After all he chose you and married you right?

Listen girls, there is no use getting upset about the things our hubbies look at online (unless it is TOTALLY perverse or something) cause men are visual creatures, they need a lot of stimulation up there!

Now, men don't fantasize about what they have in front of them - then it is not a fantasy - it is a reality! Men are wired sort of strangely,, they fantasize about what they don't have and probably wouldn't really want. My hubby never dated blondes before me, he never dated anyone with a bigger chest than a B cup (I told ya they don't grow em big in Missouri), and he loves me. I represented something for him besides looks and hair color.

I understand wanting a body type - or wanting to make changes in your body. I get that. Most women are not happy with something aobut themselves. That is why we all say, if you feel like you want to do it FOR YOU - then do. If it is to match his porn fantasies - hell no!

If you were to enhance your busts, change your make-up, dye your hair, wear slut-wear - then who are you? Are you you - or are you trying to be someone ele? I say, try to stay as true to 'you' as you can. There is nothing wrong iwth making changes, but we have to do it for US, not for THEM!

[hollyluvsjeff]

Listen girls, there is no use getting upset about the things our hubbies look at online (unless it is TOTALLY perverse or something) cause men are visual creatures, they need a lot of stimulation up there!

Now, men don't fantasize about what they have in front of them - then it is not a fantasy - it is a reality! Men are wired sort of strangely,, they fantasize about what they don't have and probably wouldn't really want. My hubby never dated blondes before me, he never dated anyone with a bigger chest than a B cup (I told ya they don't grow em big in Missouri), and he loves me. I represented something for him besides looks and hair color.

I understand wanting a body type - or wanting to make changes in your body. I get that. Most women are not happy with something aobut themselves. That is why we all say, if you feel like you want to do it FOR YOU - then do. If it is to match his porn fantasies - hell no!

If you were to enhance your busts, change your make-up, dye your hair, wear slut-wear - then who are you? Are you you - or are you trying to be someone ele? I say, try to stay as true to 'you' as you can. There is nothing wrong iwth making changes, but we have to do it for US, not for THEM!

No offence intended here but easy for you to say! Sounds like you ARE one of those women. dam u! LOL

[sun_flower969]

Listen girls, there is no use getting upset about the things our hubbies look at online (unless it is TOTALLY perverse or something) cause men are visual creatures, they need a lot of stimulation up there!

That is great that you are OK with it but that is the way I feel. I am not cool with it. I will never be, end of story. I am not trying to impose my feelings on anyone else. I was just relating similarities. Kudos to those of you who are completely free and have no hangups. I do have mine, though they are getting less and less. I just can't compromise my convictions on certain things. Like you said, "There is nothing wrong with making changes, but we have to do it for US, not for THEM!" I won't change to try to be "cool or accepted", for anyone else. It is how I feel and I will stand by it. No offense to anyone!! I <3 you all!!! We are all different and to each is own!

[hollyluvsjeff]

That is great that you are OK with it but that is the way I feel. I am not cool with it. I will never be, end of story. I am not trying to impose my feelings on anyone else. I was just relating similarities. Kudos to those of you who are completely free and have no hangups. I do have mine, though they are getting less and less. I just can't compromise my convictions on certain things. Like you said, "There is nothing wrong with making changes, but we have to do it for US, not for THEM!" I won't change to try to be "cool or accepted", for anyone else. It is how I feel and I will stand by it. No offense to anyone!! I <3 you all!!! We are all different and to each is own!

I concur, and am glad im not the only one.

It just seems strange to me that he wants to look at that stuff, probly because its not something i do, which isnt a very good reason not to like something. Hell i dont even watch TV! The odd movie thats it. But this is something hes been doing for years and years long before me, and i know i shouldnt take it personally. Ive watched one porn by myself and then i rented a bunch one time so far that we watched together. One was all lesbians, which was kindof interesting, lots of creativity happening there. There was lots of fake boobs but it didnt bother me at all. Another one was older men and younger girls which some parts i liked but then one girl at the end looked so sad and dazed, not so hot. Another one was like a super long kama sutra deal, lots and lots of foreplay, very cheesy but kept my attention longer than the others.

So, ive deduced that im 'okay' with porn when we watch it together.

Why does it bother me so much when im not around? The only time he looks at pics is to wank if im away for the night. Is it because I dont use pictures to wank? I prefer my imagination and my toys any day. Maybe guys dont have that good of imaginations or are just more lazy about it? It bothers me because i dont look like that. Whats going to happen to me as I age? I can get implants now and pretend to be a barbie, but what will happen to me as I age? I dont want to be struggling with body image like this forever, getting facelifts and tummy tucks, its neverending. Theres always going to be younger and prettier people than me I might as well deal with it now and save myself the self torture, understand that we are a bit different animals and thats okay.

Okay. not doing it. Ill keep my Stacy Keibler body. fuck trish stratus LOL

PS. Not expecting a response to any of these banterings, totally thinking aloud